Phrases That Trigger Emotional Attraction In A Man

Photo: Bobex-73 / Shutterstock
woman whispering emotional trigger phrases into a smiling man's ear

Have you ever wished you could learn the secrets to getting a quality man’s attention and make him pursue you?

The good news is that it’s not a mystery and it’s 100 percent learnable!

There are emotional trigger phrases for attraction that will viscerally grab a man’s attention when he meets a high-value woman who deserves his full attention and due consideration for a future together.

To make it easier to remember these powerful game-changers, I created an acronym called the Man M.A.G.N.E.T.I.C.S. Formula.

RELATED: How To Flirt With A Guy Over Text + 99 Flirty Text Messages To Keep You On His Mind 24/7

These emotional trigger words and phrases will activate those primitive drives and spark attraction so that you can capture and keep his attention.

Here's how to use phrases that trigger emotional attraction in a man following the M.A.G.N.E.T.I.C.S. Formula.

1. M = respect his masculinity

A man can feel the difference when he’s in the presence of a woman who fully appreciates his masculine energy and doesn’t make it wrong or toxic.

He’s drawn to women who welcome his innate need to protect and provide and respect his desire to lead and take initiative. This has nothing to do with the subservience of the feminine.

A quality man feels her unique power that balances him and is attracted to her confidence, ability to feel safe in his presence, and relax into receiving his gifts.

If you want to get his attention, say something like:

  • "I feel so taken care of when you choose nice places to take me."
  • "You really know how to make a woman feel special."
  • "I love how I feel when I’m with you."

RELATED: 15 Hidden Signs A Man Is Falling In Love With You

2. A = offer him your acceptance (and appreciation)

Nothing turns off a man more than feeling like some woman’s "project" as she tries to change him by "smoothing his rough edges" or "polishing his potential."

Ladies, you’d hate it if he did it to you so don’t do it to him. Men absolutely love the feeling of being respected just as they are — no changes necessary. In fact, your ability to respect, appreciate, and understand men is one of your greatest and most desirable gifts.

If you want to get his attention, say something like:

  • "I don’t know how you do it but you just seem to get me."
  • "I feel really connected to you."
  • "I can’t wait to see you again."

3. G = let him know you are grateful

Healthy, well-adjusted, available men take pride in their ability to protect and provide. In fact, many men will prioritize their career aspirations and delay getting serious with a partner until they feel like they can offer these prospects.

The number one thing he wants in return is simply your appreciation and gratitude in exchange for his efforts. That’s not a lot to ask, is it?

If you want to get his attention, say something like:

  • "I know you’re really busy. I’m so glad you made time to get together."
  • "I always look forward to our time together!"
  • "I’m so glad you picked this restaurant. It’s great!"

RELATED: 225 Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

4. N = Be nurturing

We’ve talked about the gifts of masculine energy but feminine energy has some precious gifts to offer as well. The essence and greatness of the feminine are its ability to nurture and care for others.

This has nothing to do with being subservient or inferior. It’s literally the feminine superpower that can melt a man and have him see a future with you — or not.

If you want to get his attention, say something like:

  • "Have you eaten yet? Are you hungry?"
  • "Can I get you anything?"
  • "What can I do to help?”

5. E = stay easy-going

Masculine energy tends to respond to challenge and can be combative on occasion. The last place he wants unnecessary conflict is in the home with his partner.

This doesn’t mean you can’t disagree. It simply means that you both learn ways to communicate effectively and solve problems, especially when a disagreement arises.

If you want to get his attention, say something like:

  • "Hey, can we talk about what happened earlier?"
  • "I know you want to ______. Can you help me understand why?"
  • "I appreciate your opinion but there’s another factor we should consider."

RELATED: How To Get A Shy Guy To Open Up

6. T = show him you are trustworthy

When a man is looking for a partner, he needs to know that you are loyal and have his back, especially when times get tough.

Your honesty, integrity, and empathy is a powerful emotional trigger that will inspire him to see you as a true, reliable partner in your future together.

If you want to get his attention, say something like:

  • "I need to tell you something and I know you may not like it…"
  • "I know it wasn’t your intent but…"
  • "There’s something going on and you need to know about it…"

7. I = maintain your independence and let him maintain his

Since the beginning of time, men have been willing to live, fight and even die for the cause of freedom.

A wise woman will guard against letting her man feel like she's trying to tie him down or take away his options too soon. She’ll also make sure he feels the advantages and gifts of freedom inside a partnership.

If you want to get his attention, say something like:

  • "I’d love to see you but I have some things to do as well."
  • "I can be flexible on that. What works best for you?"
  • "I think you should go to the game with the guys…"

8. C = captivate him

Once a man is captivated, he starts to think about you all the time — even when you’re apart — and knows you’re unlike anyone he’s ever met.

He appreciates how you make him feel and recognizes that you make his life better just by being in it. At this point, he’s clear that you feel special, he’s falling in love, and he’s considering a future together.

If you want to get his attention, say something like:

  • "I can’t wait to see you, too!"
  • "I’m sure we’ll work it out."
  • "I really love our time together."

9. S = let him know you are soulmates

Once you trigger all these emotional charges, a man starts to see you as a soulmate and potential life partner. It’s such a rare combination of traits that it might inspire him to step up sooner even if he didn’t think he was ready.

That’s because, at this point, fear of loss may move him to action.

If you want to get his attention, say something like:

  • "I’ve never felt like this about anyone ever before."
  • "I’m so grateful you came into my life."
  • "I didn’t know love could be like this."

Now that you're aware of these 9 points, remember to only use emotional trigger phrases for attraction to find authentic love, not to manipulate men because you’ll only be hurting yourself as well.

RELATED: 27 Men Describe The #1 Thing A Woman Did That Made THem Fall Deeply In Love

Dave Elliott is a Neurostrategist and coach who helps his clients get results with a variety of techniques that enable rapid transformational change.