9 Phrases Deeply Charismatic Women Use Regularly

All their lives, women have the concept of beauty shoved down their throats, stopping just short of teaching you attractiveness as part of an academic curriculum. Understandably, all of this is a bitter pill to swallow. 

Society teaches you to chase beauty, spend money, forever buying products that make you thinner, and prettier, leading you to believe you will land or keep a man, convincing you that being forty is synonymous with being elderly. You must do something drastic about it.

In other words, beauty is big business. It’s a lucrative business. But it’s also a business with a shaky foundation. Of course, breaking away from the business of beauty is easier said than done. Research has found that challenging media representations, promoting body positivity, media literacy, self-compassion, and seeking support are crucial steps.

If it was, every woman would have inner confidence regardless of her exterior appearance. However, repeating certain mantras over and over again until your belief in them becomes second nature can help you see beauty in a different light and, as a result, see yourself in a brighter one.  

Here are nine phrases deeply charismatic women use regularly:

1. 'I am a catch and I will settle for nothing less than a partner who reflects my brilliance.'

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You know your worth, so you know when to leave when your partner doesn't. It reflects a desire for a partner who recognizes and appreciates the individual's qualities and values, rather than settling for someone who doesn't match their level of ambition, intelligence, or overall brilliance. This mantra can be seen as a way to set clear expectations and boundaries in the search for a fulfilling partnership.

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2. 'I deserve to experience love and profound pleasure'

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Wanting to be in love isn't a weakness; it's a strength. MRI studies have found that self-affirmation activates the ventromedial prefrontal cortex, linked to self-related processing and valuation. Affirmations can help focus on positive values and strengths, increasing self-worth and resilience to threats.

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3. 'I courageously open my heart and stand for my desire'

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Your values are the most important things you will have. The mantra acknowledges that opening one's heart, especially after experiencing pain or hurt, requires courage. True bravery is facing fears and allowing vulnerability.

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4. 'I am beautiful inside and out and all of my actions align with this deep belief in myself'

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Your looks will fade, so make sure to love who you are, not what you look like. It encompasses both self-acceptance and a commitment to living in alignment with that self-acceptance. Consistent practice of this mantra and aligning actions with this belief can cultivate self-love, confidence, and inner peace.

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5. 'Every day I naturally fall more and more in love with myself'

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Life will be much easier, and happier, when you learn to love yourself. This mantra helps accept and embrace yourself as you are, including flaws and imperfections, which is crucial for building genuine self-love. By fostering self-love, this mantra can enhance motivation to work towards goals and increase resilience in the face of difficulties.

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6. 'I give love because I am an open vessel for endless and abundant love to flow through me'

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You never lose love, it just changes and moves differently. This is a powerful affirmation related to spiritual and personal growth. It implies that being an open vessel allows love to melt away blockages and purify negative energies, allowing for a deeper connection with oneself and others.

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7. 'My beauty comes from the inside out and only grows deeper and more magnetic with age'

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Aging only makes you look more beautiful. It suggests that true beauty is not solely based on external appearance, but also on one's inner qualities, which are believed to become more apparent and attractive over time. This mantra is a reminder of the power of self-love and the positive impact of embracing the aging process.

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8. 'I’m a beautiful woman because I choose to be'

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If you want to be beautiful, then you're beautiful. The mantra emphasizes that beauty is not solely based on external appearances or societal standards, but rather on an internal mindset and conscious decision. Focusing on self-love and acceptance can help to manage stress and foster inner peace.

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9. 'No one can tell me what I am except for me'

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When a person defines themself based on external validation or the expectations of others, there's a risk of feeling disconnected from their true self and potentially leading a life that doesn't align with their deepest desires. By claiming the right to define themself, a person can make choices that are meaningful to them and build a life that reflects their unique identity.

Give these mantras your attention for 30 days. Every morning when you wake up, repeat them out loud to yourself and begin to notice the shifts that occur. 

When it comes down to it, attractiveness is truly a state of mind. Whether you think you’re beautiful or think you’re not either way, you’re right.

Most men can sense true beauty; they instinctively know that women who truly see themselves as beautiful because of who they are will get prettier and prettier with age. That kind of beauty never wanes and will keep a man coming back for more and more. 

This is because attracting a man is an art, a blank canvas where a woman can paint any picture of herself that she wants. Painting the ideal portrait takes practice, a willingness to accept flaws, and the courage to take risks. It also requires the recognition that you can show a man how to love you by deeply loving yourself first.

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Clayton Olson is an International Relationship Coach, Master NLP Practitioner, and Facilitator specializing in dating, empowering men and women, self-esteem, and life transitions. He has 20 years of experience working to optimize human behavior and relational dynamics.