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Dim lights. Queue music.
By Sean Jameson — Written on Apr 22, 2022
If you're ready to spice up your routine, sometimes taking a tip from the strippers at a strip club is the best way to turn up the heat.
A hot lap dance is a great way to try something new with your partner.
Which sexy lap dance songs are the best ones to add to your seductive music playlist? That depends on the kind of music that puts you in the mood and makes you want to move.
What's important is that you're really feeling the music during your at-home erotic performance.
If you are really feeling the music, your choice will be the best song for a lap dance, especially during your at-home stripping performance. The best songs are those that get you moving or even those that slow things down a bit, but regardless of what you choose, the song should be something that makes you feel alive.
It doesn't matter if it's got a beat that can't be stopped; sexy lyrics that get the point across, or the amazing quality of the singer's voice are the elements of songs that work best.
A lap dance should last the length of the song or shorter, before moving to the next stage of your night.
Here are 32 of the best sexy lap dance songs for giving a striptease at home, so you can rev up your relationship and bring your foreplay game to a whole new level.
32 Best Lap Dance Songs To Strip To
1. "I Just Wanna Love U" by Jay-Z
With a good beat and lyrics that get the point across, this song works well for a more sedate pace, when you want seduction instead of a quick wham, bam, thank you ma’am.
2. "Kiss" by Prince
What a classic! No wonder Julia Roberts was singing along in “Pretty Woman”; this lap dance song has an awesome playful tone to it with a good beat.
And once you do start getting more intimate with your man and start having sex, you should try out the lap dance sex position.
3. "I’m Too Sexy" by Right Said Fred
Not just the signature song of models worldwide, this 90s hit gives you a fun beat to move to. Make it a little more fun by alternating taking off your clothes and then your partner’s.
Don’t be surprised if you both burst out laughing though, this song really is quite ridiculous!
4. "No Diggity" by Blackstreet
Is a seriously strong beat, smooth male voices, and awesome lyrics enough to get it on for you? 'No Diggity' gets into some serious fun talking about how a guy can be completely wrapped up in an awesome lady.
5. "Slow Ride" by Foghat
If classic rock is the way you roll, this is one of the best lap dance songs for you! With a moderate beat and hard-hitting, growling guitars, it’ll help you get it on.
6. "You Can't Touch This" by MC Hammer
Is the message you’re trying to get across one of restraint (at least for the moment)? This classic gives you a more moderate beat and fun lyrics to play with.
7. "Closer" by Nine Inch Nails
Ready to get down and dirty? Closer’s explicit, erotic lyrics, solid beat, and grinding instrumentals do an amazing job of bringing out your inner beast.
8. "Legs" by ZZ Top
Are high heels and long legs just the thing for you or your partner? This lap dance song gives you a chance to show them off to some awesome classic rock with a strong beat, growly vocals, and awesome instrumentals.
9. "Do Me Baby" by Prince
There’s something to be said for the timeless classics. With a slow, seductive beat, intense lyrics, and awesome instrumentals, a lap dance to this song will make your partner want to take its advice.
10. "I Wanna Sex You Up" by Color Me Badd
This lap dance song has phrasing that screams seduction. It has an awesome beat that gives you something to move to without making you run through all your energy before things get hot.
The mood you can get into with this striptease song can be both playful and fun.
11. "Wild Thing" by Tone Loc
This is a classic stripper song that gives you a solid beat to move to and the phrasing gets your partner grooving for some serious sexual fun.
A lap dance favorite, this catchy song lets you rock your hips along with the swinging instrumentals while giving you creative ways to play along with the explicit lyrics.
12. "You Shook Me All Night Long" by AC/DC
"You Shook Me All Night Long" is a classic rock tune that will definitely rock your partner's world. With growly lyrics talking about a lady's, umm... charms, it also has a great beat for some sexy musical fun.
This lap dance favorite will do great things to your evening.
13. "Poison" by Bel Biv Devoe
Are you feeling like some poison? Bel Biv Devoe takes you on an a cappella adventure that'll help slow things down a notch.
The erotic lyrics from this group help you get sexy with your partner and emphasize your assets without leaving you breathless before the action starts.
14. "How Do U Want It" by 2Pac ft. K-Ci & JoJo from Jodeci
For suggestive phrasing, there's no winner like "How Do You Want It," an awesome collab from Jodeci and Tupac.
It gives you a beat you can swing and sway to accompanied by mesmerizing instrumentals, making this song a great choice for a seductive lap dance to get you both in the mood.
15. "Cradle of Love" by Billy Idol
Billy Idol's "Cradle of Love" helps turn things up fast with the growling guitars, rocking vocals, and quick tempo. When things have been stagnant for far too long and you need to shake things up a bit, this is a great choice to get things in motion again.
16. "Put Em on the Glass" by Sir Mix-a-Lot
If you feel the need to get explicit, "Put Em on the Glass" by Sir Mix-a-Lot is a great way to mix in some belly dancing shimmies or undulations to build fast but sensuous motion to your stripper routine.
With a hard-hitting beat and lyrics, this is one of the best lap dance songs for a hot, fast night of passion.
17. "Naughty Girl" by Beyoncé
Are you feeling like a naughty girl? Beyoncé does an awesome job of building a slow, sexy tone to your night with beautiful, soaring vocals, a sensuous beat, and instrumentals that make you want to move your body during your striptease.
18. "Freak Like Me" by Adina Howard
Adina Howard's amazing instrumentals and slow beat give you a great chance to seduce your partner's senses instead of just getting right into things.
Built for the long haul, this lap dance song gives you a chance to play with accessories like silk scarves, feathers, or other items guaranteed to bring out the finer points of your evening.
19. "Sweet Dreams (Are Made of This)" by Eurythmics
If you're not sure you can maintain a fast beat through the whole song, the Eurythmics' "Sweet Dreams Are Made of This" song gives you a respite, with changes in beat between the verses and the chorus.
You want to be breathless from passion at the end of the night, not from a song you can't keep up with.
20. "Freak Me" by Silk
Silk's "Freak Me" gives you the slow, sensuous beat to pull things down for the evening without running a race.
With sexy phrasing, amazing vocals and sweet instrumentals, you get a passionate slow dance to seduce your partner while enjoying the sedated rhythm and graceful, sensual motion this lap dance song seems to require.
21. "Ride" by Ciara ft. Ludacris
Are you anything but ordinary? Ciara's "Ride" may seem like a different choice, but with a slow but strong beat, magical instrumentals, and soaring vocals, you'll show your partner why you were the one they picked — you're different than everyone else!
If you like strong songs with a slow beat to rock your evening, this is an awesome lap dance song to put into your repertoire.
22. "LoveGame" by Lady Gaga
One of Gaga's many high-energy hits, "LoveGame" has the perfect beat for dancing. Giving a lap dance to this upbeat song will make you feel like the star of your living room strip club.
23. "Teenage Dream" by Katy Perry
For a lap dance for the one who makes you feel like a teenage dream, this is the go-to song. The "I Kissed A Girl" singer has no shortage of sultry hits, and this song adds a little more romance to your dance.
24. "Hold It Against Me" by Britney Spears
We couldn't make this list without including a Britney Spears song. The lyrics with the most clever play on words were made for your lap dance playlist.
25. "Like A Virgin" by Madonna
Doing a lap dance for the first time might make you feel like, well... a virgin. Go full Madonna by adding a corset wedding dress and 80s makeup.
This song is easy to dance to — just watch that one "Glee" episode for inspiration!
26. "Side to Side" by Ariana Grande
So many of Ariana Grande's songs would work for a lap dance, so it's a miracle we picked just one. Feel free to add more to your playlist, however!
This bop you heard in your cycling class is so much steamier when you play it for a private at-home lap dance.
27. "Shape of You" by Ed Sheeran
Not only is this song incredibly sexy, but it adds a certain extra something when you're busting out your moves. Your partner will be so in love with your body when you give them a lap dance to this bop.
28. "Curious" by Hayley Kiyoko
WLW and lesbian couples can get it on to Hayley Kiyoko's seductive siren song, luring an old flame away from a new boyfriend. The music video will definitely get you in the mood, if nothing else.
29. "S&M" by Rihanna
Bad girl RiRi isn't afraid to reveal what she likes in the bedroom, and you shouldn't be either. Showcase your kinky side with her not-so-subtle ode to BDSM.
30. "Movement" by Hozier
The Irish crooner is known for his seductive bluesy folk music, so it only makes sense that he has a place on your lap dance playlist. This song is a celebration of dance that is sure to get you moving.
31. "Promiscuous" by Nelly Furtado ft. Timbaland
If you played this song on "Just Dance," you were really just preparing yourself for your big moment in the stripper spotlight. This frisky fun duet will reel your partner in for some flirtatious fun.
32. "SUGAR" (Remix) by Brockhampton ft. Dua Lipa, Ryan Beatty & Jon B
Club music, but make it a love song with a sexy sound! Could there be a more perfect track for your lap dance?
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Sean Jameson is a sex expert and founder of the Bad Girl's Bible website, where you can learn advanced techniques to improve your sex life.
This article was originally published at Bad Girls Bible. Reprinted with permission from the author.