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These 100 Dirty Truth Or Dare Questions Will Seriously Heat Things Up

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Today, I'm going to show you some really hot and dirty truth questions or dares for your boyfriend, girlfriend, or partner to keep things fun, exciting, and, most importantly, never boring.

While you'll usually hear me give some really powerful advice on talking dirty to your man, I want to focus on dirty truth or dare questions for now.

There are tons of ways to spice up your sex life, but asking kinky truth or dare questions is the perfect way to very quickly find out more about each other (on a very deep level) while also very quickly learning about each other's kinks, desires, and fantasies.

You're probably wondering if you should be as nasty as possible. The answer? No!

The idea behind playing dirty sexy truth or dare and coming up with naughty questions is to keep things fun and to find out about more about each other.

Ask each other some embarrassing questions in this flirty truth or dare questions game. Ask naughty truth questions or good truth questions to get to know your friends with benefits a little bit better. 

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If you start off with the craziest questions you can think of, you'll probably freak your partner out, and vice versa. The best option is to start with relatively tame questions, and as you both get to know each other more, start asking and using more kinky questions.

How To Play Dirty Truth or Dare

One serious problem that sometimes happens when couples start coming up with their own questions is that they think they can use them to trick their partner into revealing details about their past that are very damaging to your relationship.

So please, please don't use these questions to find out things about your partner that you will just end up resenting.

Obviously, surprising your man with some raunchy truth or dare questions is going to catch him off guard and maybe even freak him out a little. A better way to approach him is to ask him if he wants to play truth or dare some night, maybe even after a few drinks to loosen yourselves up.

Next, you actually need to set up the game. Or you can use a play truth or dare app. 

Both of you need to write down an equal number of truths and dares that you want to ask each other. Each of you should take 20 pieces of paper. Write down a dirty truth you want to ask your man on the first 10 pieces of paper, and fold them. Then, write down a dirty dare on the next 10 pieces of paper and fold them. Your man needs to do the same.

Now each of you has two piles. You're then going to play the game in turns. If you go first, you need to choose a truth from your man's pile of truths. If you don't want to answer it, you need to choose a dare that you must do.

Once you complete either a truth or dare, it's your man's turn to do the same. The game ends when you both have a single pile of either truths or dares left.

Now that you know how to play this sex game, it's time to learn some dirty truth or dare questions to use on your man. Are you ready?

Dirty Truth Questions

1. "Have you ever had a same-sex experience? How was it?"

2. "If you could have a threesome with me and someone else, who would you choose?"

3. "What's your favorite type of porn?"

4. "When was the last time you masturbated?"

5. "What do you fantasize about during sex?"

6. "If you were the opposite sex for a day, what would you do?"

7. "Have you ever found someone attractive who you knew was actually ugly?"

8. "Have you ever tried or wanted to try BDSM?"

9. "What's the biggest age difference between you and someone you've had sex with?"

10. "What's your most embarrassing sexual experience?"

11. "If you could have sex with one of my friends, who would it be?"

12. "Have you ever thought about leaving me? Be honest."

13. "Can you tell me exactly what body part of mine you like looking at most?"

14. "When was your last sex dream, and who was it about?"

15. "Have you ever had sex in public? Where?"

16. "Have you ever had a one-night stand?"

17. "What's your biggest turn-on when it comes to sex?"

18. "What's your biggest turn-off when it comes to sex?"

19. "Would you ever be willing to use sex toys?"

20. "What's something sexual everyone thinks you're into, but you actually hate?"

21. "What's something sexual everyone thinks you're not into, but you actually like?"

22. "Do you like to be dominated in sex? Or are you submissive?"

23. "What's something you wish I would do more of in bed?"

24. "Do you think about me when I'm not around?"

25. "What's the weirdest place you've ever had sex?"

26. "Did you know you wanted to have sex with me when we first met?"

27. "How old were you when you lost your virginity?"

28. "Where were you when you lost your virginity?"

29. "Have you ever had sex with multiple people in one night?"

30. "Have you had or would you ever have a threesome?"

31. "What's your favorite song to have sex to?"

32. "Have you ever eaten whipped cream off of someone's naked body?"

33. "Who was the last person you had sex with that wasn't me?"

34. "What's your biggest sexual pet peeve?

35. "What's your favorite sex position?"

36. "If you had to invent your own sex position what would it look like, and what would it be called?"

37. "Do you like it with the lights off or on?"

38. "Have you ever cheated on your partner?"

39. "Have you ever cheated on me?"

40. "Do you ever fantasize about cheating on me?"

41. "If the government forced you to cheat on me, who would you cheat on me with?"

42. "Does it make you uncomfortable when I ask you questions about cheating? If so, why?"

43. "When was the last time you faked an orgasm?"

44. "Have you ever ghosted someone? Why did you do it?"

45. "Have you ever been ghosted?"

46. "Have you ever been catfished on a date?"

47. "Do you think I actually look like my photos?"

48. "Did you think I was interested in you when we first met?"

49. "If you could date two people at once, who would be number two?"

50. "If you could do anything to me right now, what would it be?"

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And 50 "Dirty Dares":

1. "I dare you to go down on me for the next 10 minutes."

2. "I dare you to play the rest of the game naked."

3. "I dare you to use a butt plug."

4. "I dare you to eat whipped cream off my naked body."

5. "I dare you to wear my underwear for the next two hours."

6. "I dare you to try anal with me."

7. "I dare you to take a photo of us naked together."

8. "I dare you to masturbate in front of me."

9. "I dare you to lick my feet."

10. "I dare you to let me spank you."

11. "I dare you to make some homemade pornography."

12. "I dare you to let me suck you."

13. "I dare you to take off of your clothes and meet me in the kitchen."

14. "I dare you to kiss my stomach and below my stomach."

15. "I dare you to buy me a sex toy online right now."

16. "I dare you to dress up in a mailman suit."

17. "I dare you to play the rest of the game wearing my underwear."

18. "I dare you to spoon me for the rest of the game."

19. "I dare you to send me a nude via text."

20. "I dare you to take off all my clothes and take a picture of me."

21. "I dare you to seductively eat a banana."

22. "I dare you to seductively eat a hot dog."

23. "I dare you to seductively eat a popsicle."

24. "I dare you to seductively eat corn on the cob."

25. "I dare you to change your Facebook relationship status to 'in a relationship' and tag me."

26. "I dare you to text your Mom and tell her you want me to meet her this weekend."

27. "I dare you to delete the information of all of your exes in your phone."

28. "I dare you to meet my family tomorrow."

29. "I dare you to sext the fifth person in your contact list."

30. "I dare you to pole dance with an imaginary pole for ten minutes."

31. "I dare you to ride an imaginary mechanical bull for six minutes."

32. "I dare you to give me a lap dance."

33. "I dare you to chug a glass of milk."

34. "I dare you to give me a pearl necklace right now."

35. "I dare you to hold your favorite part of my body for the rest of the game."

36. "I dare you to jump on the bed and make it seem like we are having sex."

37. "I dare you to lick my ear."

38. "I dare you to suck my neck and give me a hickey."

39. "I dare you to give me a love bite."

40. "I dare you to pull my hair."

41. "I dare you to lick every part of my body."

42. "I dare you to make me a home-cooked meal without your clothes on."

43. "I dare you to recite a love poem in my honor."

44. "I dare you to sing me a love song."

45. "I dare you to take the rest of this game outside."

46. "I dare you to let me tie you up to the bed."

47. "I dare you to tie me up to the bed."

48. "I dare you to put my entire fist in your mouth."

49. "I dare you to put your entire fist in your mouth."

50. "I dare you to lick my elbows."

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Sean Jameson is a sex expert and founder of the Bad Girl's Bible website. He creates videos and detailed tutorials to help improve couples' sex life and intimacy.