Today I want to show you my 3 best sex games to play with your man. These are super popular, but the truth is that finding the sex games that you and your guy like the most is a matter of personal preference.
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You may be more into kinkier things like dominance and submission, while your man may not be so into those kinds of things. The key to finding the things that you both like is doing some experimentation.
When you do some experimentation, you'll inevitably find that there are a lot of things that you don't enjoy so much, while there are other things that you never thought you'd adore quite as much as you do. Ok, here goes...
1. Fantasy Fulfiller
The basic idea behind Fantasy Fulfiller is that you are going to have a safe and fun way to explore each others fantasies. What you and your man are going to do is write down each of the fantasies that you most want to try out on a small piece of paper. Then you are going to fold up each piece of paper and put them all into a hat. When you do this, make sure that both of you put in an equal amount of fantasies.
To make this easier and less awkward, you are going to have 3 hats. The first one is going to have fantasies that are quite tame, things like your guy wearing something sexy or making love in candlelight. The next hat will be a bit kinkier. It could involve things like having a threesome or having sex in public. The last hat will then contain your wildest fantasies.
To play this sex game, you are going to take it in turns to take a piece of paper out of the hat and then try out the fantasy with your boyfriend. You are going to first start on the 'tame' hat, then when that's completely emptied, you need to move onto the 'intermediate' hat, before finishing up with the 'wildest' hat.
While this is a super fun and fair way to discuss and bring up your fantasies with your man, they may not be comfortable with trying out every single one of your fantasies and vice-versa. So this is why you need to use a veto if either of you aren't comfortable with something.
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I've found that this really is one of the best sex games to play with your man to discover each others fantasies. A great way to surprise him while playing is to write down one of your fantasies as giving HIM a blowjob. He will be pleasently surprised. If you are looking for tips on how to give your man an incredible bj, then you will find this blow job tutorial video incredibly helpful and quite explicit!