A Beginners Guide To Hot and Steamy Sex Games

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A Beginners Guide To Hot and Steamy Sex Games
Are you into teasing or dominance and submission?

Today I want to show you my three best sex games to play with your man. These are super popular, but the truth is that finding the ones that you and your guy like the most is a matter of personal preference.

You may be more into kinkier things like dominance and submission, while your man may not be so into those kinds of things. The key to finding the things that you both like is doing some experimentation. When you do some experimentation, you'll inevitably find that there are a lot of things that you don't enjoy so much, while there are other things that you never thought you'd adore quite as much as you do. Ok, here goes...

 

1. Fantasy Fulfiller
The basic idea behind Fantasy Fulfiller is that you are going to have a safe and fun way to explore each others fantasies. What you and your man are going to do is write down each of the fantasies that you most want to try out on a small piece of paper. Then you are going to fold up each piece of paper and put them all into a hat. When you do this, make sure that both of you put in an equal amount of fantasies.

To make this easier and less awkward, you are going to have 3 hats. The first one is going to have fantasies that are quite tame, things like your guy wearing something sexy or making love in candlelight. The next hat will be a bit kinkier. It could involve things like having a threesome or doing something naughty in public. The last hat will then contain your wildest fantasies.

To play this sex game, you are going to take it in turns to take a piece of paper out of the hat and then try out the fantasy with your boyfriend. You are going to first start on the 'tame' hat, then when that's completely emptied, you need to move onto the 'intermediate' hat, before finishing up with the 'wildest' hat.

While this is a super fun and fair way to discuss and bring up your fantasies with your man, they may not be comfortable with trying out every single one of your fantasies and vice-versa. So this is why you need to use a veto if either of you aren't comfortable with something.

I've found that this really is one of the best sex games to play with your man to discover each others fantasies. A great way to surprise him while playing is to write down one of your fantasies as giving HIM a blowjob. He will be pleasently surprised. If you are looking for tips on how to give your man incredible oral sex, then you will find this instructional video incredibly helpful.

2. Taking It Public
Doing naughty things in public with your guy can be really hot, but it's not necessarily the best sex game for everyone. Some people are uncomfortable with the idea and as well as this I always encourage people not to ever do anything that could be illegal.

The first idea that comes to mind when you think about 'public play' is getting it on in public. The funny thing is that there is so much more than this when it comes being naughty with your man in public. Plus this is usually illegal anyway!

Here are a few things to try with your guy:

Kissing: I know...This is pretty tame and couldn't be more obvious! But kissing in public is still hot. You can give your partner a quick peck on the cheek. Or you can take it up a notch and go for full on French kissing. You can do it at famous landmarks or if you like, you can do it somewhere deserted.

Feels Like I'm Wearing Nothing At All: This next one is a lot kinkier and something that your man can't really do as effectively. The next time you are out in public with your man and are wearing a skirt, take off your panties and give them to him.

Tell him that that, "It feels better this way". He won't mind, but he will be very, very turned on.

3. The Big Tease
The next technique that I'm going to show you really is one of the best games to play with your man. In fact it's something that you should try to incorporate into your relationship whether you're 18 or 80 to keep things fun and interesting. You don't even have to be that sexual or kinky when using this one for it to work well.

The whole idea is that you are going to gently tease and mess with your man all day long. For the purpose of this one, you are going to be quite sexual in your teasing. It could be something as simple as sending him a few texts saying things like, "I'm going to do some really naughty things to you...but not right now" or "I hope you can wait until the end of the day, I got something very hot planned for you!"

Or maybe you are both out in public together. You could try leaning in to your man and saying, "Why are we here and not in your bed right now? I wish I wasn't feeling so horny" or "If we weren't in such a crowded place right now, I would jump you. I hope you don't mind." It's that simple. Then when you finally do get a chance to get physical with each other, your man will be so pent up and it will be a lot more passionate than usual.

If you want to learn more awesome tips like how to talk dirty to your man to keep him attracted to you, build sexual tension and keep him thinking about you, then you may want to watch this video tutorial on talking dirty to learn exactly what to say and how to say. 

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