100 Dirty Things To Say To A Guy To Turn Him On

Don't shy away from 'dirty talk.' It's easier than you think.

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It's no secret that most guys love dirty talk, but often, women leave the dirty talking up to their man and don't turn up the verbal turn-on themselves.

Sometimes women struggle with finding the right dirty things to say to a guy. But trust me when I tell you — your man is dying for you to whisper something sexy in his ear.

If you like the idea of figuring out how to turn a guy on with a little dirty talk but feel awkward and shy about how to get started (without sounding foolish), this article is for you!


What I've created for you here is a list of dirty things to say to a guy, whether he's your boyfriend, husband, or a new guy you just started seeing.

Dirty talking can be intimidating, so I'll arm you with dirty talk examples you can use to turn your man on and keep you (and sex) on his mind all day long, even when you're not around.

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You can say them in person or copy and paste them into dirty text messages.

Dirty Things to Say to a Guy About His Looks

1. I love seeing you in a tight pair of jeans.

2. There's something about seeing you do any kind of physical labor that is a massive turn-on.

3. Nothing makes me as turned on as seeing you when you're angry.

4. Seeing you right after a workout when you are all sweaty is incredible.

5. Looking deep into your blue/green/brown eyes makes me weak at the knees.

6. I loved seeing you in that shirt last night...

7. There is something that makes me crazy when you are standing right over me when we’re kissing.

8. I see you never miss leg day.

9. Your abs make me drool.

10. You look like you could do all kinds of dirty things to me.

11. I miss having your arms around me.

12. I love every body part of yours.

13. Your legs have been on my mind all day…

14. Thinking about your lips.

15. Thinking about how amazing your body is…

16. I might leave my apartment and move in between your legs. It’s my favorite place.

17. I can’t stop thinking about your sexy voice.

18. I love it when you let me take control.

19. How’s that sexy little bum of yours doing today?

20. The view from underneath you is so delicious.

21. I can’t get enough of your body.

22. Kissing you is my new obsession.

23. You’re just the sexiest. Seriously.

24. Enjoy your unmarked neck and body while you still can…

25. I can’t believe how our bodies fit together.

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Dirty Things to Say to a Man About What You Have Planned for Later

​26. I need to get you home ASAP!

27. I wish we weren't out in public. I wish we were alone, know what I mean?

28. I can't wait to show you what I'm wearing under this ... I think you're going to like it!

29. If you behave until we are alone, then I'm going to do something you will adore.

30. I get so turned on just thinking about the last time we made love.

31. I want to give you the best oral sex you've ever had.

32. I was thinking about you last night as I was falling asleep.

33. I can’t help but touch myself when I think about you.

34. I’m so excited about our date tonight. If you play your cards right, then you’re going to love what I’ve got planned for later.

35. Tonight I want to slowly kiss my way from your lips down… the only question is how far down will I go?

36. I don’t like sitting here at work when I could be at home doing filthy things to you.

37. Tonight I am going to bite you, but like a love bite.

38. I want to hear you breathing in my ear when I make you feel good.

39. You’re not going to be able to move after I’m finished with you tonight.

40. I’m so horny thinking about seeing you later.

41. Get ready for the roleplay of your life tonight.

42. I’ve been thinking I’d like to have you for dessert tonight…

43. I can’t wait until the next time I get my hands on you…

44. I’ve soaked through three pairs of panties today just thinking about you…

45. If you’re a good boy, I’ll give it to you just how you like it.

46. #tbt your kitchen counter *heart eyes emoji/drooling face/eggplant*

47. Waiting for tonight...

48. Let’s take this convo off-line and to my room.

49. I bought new lingerie for tonight ;)

50. Next time, we’re escaping to a hotel room together.

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Sexy, Dirty Things to Say to a Guy About You Want Him to Do to You

51. I want you on top of me right now.

52. I love feeling you on top of me.

53. Feeling you overpower me and dominate me is so hot!

54. I wish you could just hold me in your arms all day long.

55. I don't think there is anything hotter than looking at your face when you're concentrating.

56. That feels amazing!

57. I love it when you hold my arms over my head.

58. I always get shivers when you grab my hair.

59. There is something insanely hot when I pin you down.

60. I feel so weak and turned on at the same time when I'm in your arms.

61. I want you to slowly kiss me from my lips, down my neck, onto my breasts, and all the way down my body.

62. I hate getting horny when you’re not around. Grrr!

63. If you were here right now, I would give you the blowjob of your life!

64. Have you ever wanted to have sex in public?

65. I’ve been planning what I’ll do to you in bed all week. I am going to blow your mind.

66. Is your tongue made of magic? Otherwise, I don’t know how you do that.

67. I miss you in bed… and in me.

68. I know you’ve already had dinner, but what about dessert?

69. I don’t care if you rip my clothes to shreds when you undress me. In fact, I’d prefer it that way.

70. What I need right now: sleep, food, and sex. Except I don’t care about the first two.

71. Every time I fantasize about us having sex, I imagine you tying me up and having your way with me.

72. I miss you dominating me.

73. Confession: I’ve been naughty today and probably deserve a spanking. If only there were someone to do it.

74. I need bad girls' punishment, Daddy...

75. I want you to own me, baby.

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Hot Things to Say When You're in Bed Together

76. I bet I can make you squirm.

77. I bought something for us to use together.

78. Sometimes just your kisses turn me on.

79. You’re such an animal in bed. I love it!

80. Let’s make a dirty movie tonight.

81. I thought of a new position I desperately want to try with you.

82. Yes, just like that.

83. Don't stop!

84. Turn over.

85. Kiss me.

86. Get on the bed, now!

87. I want to see what magic you can perform for me tonight.

88. I love feeling you in my hands!

89. It feels so good!

90. You dominating me is such a turn-on.

91. I want to get naked with you right now.

92. Harder!

93. Hmm... I don’t think I licked enough places on your body last night…

94. You’re going to make me pass out with pleasure.

95. I’m about to explode.

96. Tonight is all about you.

97. I feel tiny in your arms.

98. I need to feel you against me.

99. I want your mouth on me.

100. I love you.

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Now that you have some examples ... warm up your own mind and tap into what turns you on. Then try turning him on with your own dirty talk.

Here are 4 simple ways to come up with your own ideas for dirty things to say to a guy.

Think about what attracts you to him.

What turns you on about your man? It could be his butt, his arms, his face, or even his feet. Use this as a starting point to come up with a sexy phrase that lets him know exactly how it makes you feel (no holds barred).

Give him a little sneak peek of what's to come later.

Try some verbal foreplay with your man to describe (in detail) what sexy act you have planned for later. Make it intimate and hot!

Tell him what turns you on.

Use your imagination to describe what you would like him to do to you and let him know how much you would like it. So if you're alluding to making love, let him know how much you enjoy it!


Tell him what to do.

A really easy way to use dirty talk while you're hooking up (or just before) is to give him commands and tell him what to do. Be confident and just shy of aggressive, he will be turned on by your take-charge attitude in bed.

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Sean Jameson is a sex expert and founder of the Bad Girl's Bible website. He creates videos and detailed tutorials to help improve couples' sex life and intimacy.