10 Sex & Foreplay Tips Guaranteed To Drive Him Wild In Bed

As written by a man who knows.

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Listen up, ladies! I'm about to reveal some extremely powerful sex secrets that will finally answer the question of what drives a man completely wild in bed.

I'm going to share with you things women have done to me and things guys have confessed they adore.

I'm holding nothing back, so strap yourself in — it's going to be a bumpy and grindy ride.

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And if you're not in a relationship right now, bookmark this page because you'll want to come back to it when you meet someone special and want to rock your man in bed.


These five simple tips on how to drive a man crazy in bed and are going to make your man think you're the best lover he's ever had. And let me tell you something — if a man feels you're the best lover he's ever had, he'll find it very hard to ever let you go.

To seal the deal with a man and have him commit to you for life, you need to drive him crazy in bed.

If you're wondering what drives a man crazy, here are five very simple tips.

1. Send him naughty text messages.

The key to driving a man wild physically is to drive him wild mentally. Nothing turns a man on more than sexy texts (or sexts) throughout the day. Simple but erotic texts like, "I can still feel you inside me," or "What I'm going to do to you tonight will blow your mind. I'm getting wet thinking about it." Send him a few messages like that during the day and he'll be in flames of desire for you when he gets home.


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2. Tease the sh*t out of him.

So you started out with the text. When you see him that night, do NOT give him your loins. Do not give him the goods. Tease him and drive him wild in bed. When you tease a man it drives him nuts.

How do you tease him? With sounds, smells, and with what you're wearing. Most women will reach for lingerie, but that's cliché. What men really like is a woman dressed in one of his oversized shirts, with just a little thong panty and no bra.

You're going to smell unreal. You're going to have a bubble bath in your favorite oil, and if he likes a certain perfume you wear, you'll put some on. Then when he gets to the door, you're going to give him a big kiss. Run your fingers through his hair and whisper in his ear. This ignites every sense in his body.


3. Give him an amazing blowjob.

When you give a guy a blowjob, you need to devour his penis like you're eating the most delicious chocolate bar in the world. You need to give him a blowjob like you mean it — like you haven't eaten for weeks. There are a few things you should do before you blow a man, and a lot of women make the mistake of missing these steps.

I can't stand it when a woman goes from my lips to my cock without stopping. Kiss erogenous zones like his neck, chest, stomach, and thighs. Take your hands and start massaging his inner thighs. Lick his balls and then move up to the penis, and back down again. Do not even remotely linger near the penis until after at least 10 to 15 minutes of teasing.

4. Master the art of sex and blowjobs at the same time.

Nothing is hotter than when a woman gets on top of me, starts riding me, and then hops off and starts giving me a blowjob. When you go between sex and blowjobs, it keeps him on the brink the whole time.

Something men love when they're getting a blowjob is for the woman to look up at him. Look up at him and say, "Tell me when you're going to burst. I want to keep you on the edge all night."


Keep teasing him. Keep building his orgasm non-stop. Don't give in either, because a lot of guys can't handle it and cum very quickly. You want to train your man to last a long time, and when you tease him, you literally own his body. 

5. Use sex toys.

If you ever need to spice things up in the bedroom, sex toys are your best bet. Sex toys like vibrators, cock rings, and more can enhance sexual pleasure during sex and help you learn how to drive your man crazy in bed. 

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6. Praise him.

​When sex is over, you need to tell him verbally how amazing he was. Tell him he rocked your world. Describe exactly to him what felt great. Tell him how great it felt when he slipped his fingers inside you and caressed your G-spot. Tell him how you liked him licking you.


Men are all about praise, and by praising a guy he'll be willing to do whatever you want in return. He'll think he's with the hottest, sexiest, most incredible lover he's ever had, and along with a loyal loving woman, that's what men really want.

7. Surprise him.

Maybe your sex life needs a little revamping and getting into roleplay might be really sexy to him. You could also surprise him with a sexy dinner in some lingerie and gift him a familiar desert. Finding ways to get him excited from a surprise will for sure make him go crazy. 

8. Talk Dirty.

Dirty talk can take a man over the edge so much that he wants you right away. You can also whisper and tease him while dirty talking and he won't be able to get enough. 


9. Kiss him where it matters.

Sure kissing and making out on the lips is great but there's a lot of other sensual and sexual places on the body that make a man go wild. Kissing him on the neck, licking his neck, nibbling his ears, tugging on his lip, and breathing on him slowly will make him very excited he won't be able to keep his hands off you. 

10. Touch his trigger spots. 

There are certain parts on the body that when stimulated, make a man get very turned on like touching his jaw, neck, his sides, hips, stomach, chest, and butt will help during sex as he's more sensitive in these areas and touching him in these places during sex will help him get there with you. 

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David Wygant is a dating coach who spent the past 20 years helping men and women transform their love lives. As a lead writer for Ask Men and Huffington Post, his advice has been offered across television, newspapers, and magazines, including MTV, The New York Times, MSNBC, Fox News, Cosmopolitan, Men's Health, E! Entertainment Television, and more.