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6 Zodiac Signs Who Argue Playfully In Their Relationships, According To Astrology

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6 Zodiac Signs Who Argue Playfully In Their Relationships, According To Astrology

For many people, arguing is fun. It's not the fights you have around the Thanksgiving table with relatives who have different political views; it's the playful kind of arguing that can also be a type of flirting.

When you have witty repartee or banter, it can take the form of arguing. You’re not having a deep conversation on life-changing topics; you're arguing the merits of things like the best reality shows or how to make a good orange chicken.

Playful arguing is light, but you still have to be intelligent, quick on your feet, and have a sense of humor about the whole thing. If you start to take things seriously, it stops being enjoyable and the stakes are raised. Humor is key because if things do get tense, a funny line or joke can break the tension and things can go back to being silly.

So, who are the zodiac signs who argue playfully? It depends on their personality in astrology, as well as their sense of humor.

When you’re playfully arguing, there are no losers because no one cares who wins. It’s just about verbal sparring and getting to know the other person on at an easy, no-conflict level.

There’s nothing like snappy dialogue to intrigue someone, and playful arguing is a great way for people to get to know each other, particularly online. If you’re in a specific chat room and someone responds to something you say with a lighthearted argument, you’ll take notice of them.

1. Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

There isn't anyone who enjoys wordplay and verbal sparring more than Gemini. Probably because they're extremely intelligent, communitive, and tend to be witty. They love discussions of all kinds because they're quick-witted and have opinions on everything.

Playful arguing is a great way to break the ice. When Gemini playfully argues with someone, they make that person feel like they belong and are already friends because they're in on the joke.

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2. Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

Sagittarius is also a sign who loves to talk to people, and has an instinct for the best and most efficient way to break down barriers. Picking a pretend fight is a great way to get someone's attention, as long as you do it in a friendly way so they know you're not being serious.

Sure, Sagittarians can get philosophical and want to discuss the big issues, but there's a time and place for that. If you're just chatting with people at a social event and you want to connect with them, playful arguing is a good way to go.

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3. Libra (September 23 - October 22)

Libras like to show off how verbally dexterous they are, and they can argue with someone in the most charming way possible. It's a non-threatening way to show how quick their mind works and be flirty at the same time.

For Libra, playfully arguing is a fun way to see if there are any signs of chemistry. If someone can't keep up or stand up to Libra, they're probably not a good fit for a friend or partner. Tongue-in-cheek arguing allows Libra to tease but not be mean. 

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4. Leo (July 23 - August 22)

What does Leo live for? Drama! Playful arguing allows Leo to stir up some good-natured drama without anyone taking it too personally or getting their feelings hurt. It's difficult for Leo to respect people who always agree with them because they want someone who can give as well as they get.

Arguing is a competition for Leo, and when the stakes aren't high, it's a good way to win without having to hurt someone else's feelings. Arguing allows them to engage with others without having to be the leader all the time.

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5. Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

Virgo likes being smart, and they like being able to prove it without coming off like a know-it-all. Playful arguing allows Virgo to show how intellectually superior they are in a good-natured way.

It can be difficult for Virgo to relax, and it's not always easy for them to relate to other people. Anything that lets them feel as if the world isn't resting on their shoulders is a good thing. Virgos are much more mischievous and fun than you might think.

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6. Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

Sometimes, Aquarius is contrary just for fun. They like to take the opposite side of an argument just to see what happens, and if they need to prove their point that's even better. 

Aquarians are independent thinkers and love to say something outrageous, just to see what kind of reaction they get. They don't take these kinds of arguments seriously and they don't get emotional about it. Aquarius isn't going to end a friendship over an argument, and will give props to anyone who can verbally outmaneuver them.

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Christine Schoenwald is a writer, performer, and astrology lover. She has written over 500 articles on the zodiac signs and how the stars influence us. She's had articles in The Los Angeles Times, Salon, and Woman's Day. Visit her website or and her Instagram.