What Makes You Easy To Like, According To Astrology
What people just can't get enough of.
Unsplash It's a lot easier for us to notice the lovable things about other than it is to notice what's lovable about ourselves.
If I asked you to take stock of everything that's so wonderful about yourself, and then do the same for your friends and family, you'd probably have a better time (and longer list) coming up with lovable traits for your BFFs and family.
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This isn't to say you don't see the good in yourself, but we as people tend to be a lot more humble about our accomplishments and positive traits than we are about other people's traits. I know from experience that I am always lifting my friends and family up.
I want my sister to know that she's capable of anything and everything, and my best friend to know that she's a total BAMF. But it's hard for me to do the same for myself because I'm so critical of myself. I know
I'm not the only one who holds themselves to higher standards than other people. Whenever someone else makes a mistake or gets down on themselves, you always want to tell them that it's not the end of the world or that it's totally normal to make mistakes.
But when it comes to yourself, you find yourself criticizing every little thing instead of appreciating all the good you've got going on in your life because you feel like you should know better.
But whether you're super critical of yourself or you try to be as positive when talking about yourself as you are with your friends and family, each one of us has something lovable about ourselves, according to astrology, that deserves to be known.
Whether your zodiac sign is always down for an adventure, or your zodiac sign is one of the best listeners a friend can have, there is something so lovable about you that people just can't get enough of. And if they can see what an amazing person you are, then you should be able to see it, as well.
It might take some time for you to lift yourself up as high as you lift up your friends and family, but you deserve to appreciate your lovable parts just as much as they do.
Here is the most lovable thing about you, according to astrology.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
One of the most lovable things about you, Aries, is how passionate you are. Your passion for life, adventure, and romance do not go unnoticed by anyone. In fact, your passion inspires others to be more enthusiastic about the things that are important to them.
Speaking of passion, you're also incredibly loving. Affection and tenderness are vital in all of your relationships, romantic or otherwise. When people get to know you, they see how serious and intense you are about finding happiness and passion in life, and they love that about you.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
What people love most about you, Taurus, is how committed you are. Once you decide that something (or someone) is worth your time and effort, you're in it for the long haul. People don't often realize how much effort you put into your relationships, but you do work hard.
You're also incredibly practical, which doesn't sound like such an amazing thing, but it really is. Being practical makes you a great problem solver, which is an important quality for you to have if you want to keep your relationships happy and healthy.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
The most lovable thing about you, Gemini, is how fun you are. You're the kind of person who can bring excitement and thrill to practically everything, and you know exactly what it takes to cheer someone up. Not many people have that skill, so bask in that, little Gemini.
You're also highly energetic. You can be the life of the party, no matter where the party is. You can make a lazy Sunday with your boo feel like a staycation, and a trip to the grocery store with your BFF feel like an adventure. You're someone everyone needs in their life.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
What people love most about you, Cancer, is your ambition. People often peg you as someone passive, but you're actually a tough go-getter when you're going after something that matters to you. Plus, being able to provide for the people you love is a must.
Besides your ambition, people love you for your creativity. You believe in making life a beautiful place to live, and you see the world in ways that not everyone can. Your need for beauty and good things makes you all soft and lovable to the people in your life.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
People love you for your loyalty, Leo. No one will stand up for their friends, have their family's back, and show the people they love that they're there for them through thick or thin like you, Leo. Proving that having a strong support system is everything to you.
You're also crazy optimistic about life. When everyone else gets sucked into negative self-talk and thinking about what could go wrong, you're always able to look on the bright side of things. You know how to lift people's spirits and make others happy with just a few words.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
One of the most lovable things about you is how helpful you are, Virgo. You're always willing to help those in need, which is a lot to ask for when you have your own things to deal with, too. But when someone means the world to you, you put your stuff aside for them.
Another thing that's so lovable about you is how communicative you are. It often goes unnoticed how important this quality is in a person, but knowing how to tell someone the truth and have good communication skills makes you someone people can trust.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
People love how thoughtful you are, Libra. You're always thinking of the people you love, whether that's thinking your BFF could go for a muffin and coffee in the morning, or thinking about how you should call your brother to make sure he's doing well.
You're also incredibly affectionate, which is something everyone needs in their life. You love holding hands, hugging, and using touch and fluffy words to let the people you care about know that you're there for them. If that's not instantly lovable, I don't know what is.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
People don't realize how important having someone who's so protective of them around until they remember how thankful they are that they have you, Scorpio. Your protective personality makes your friends and family feel like they always have someone to look out for them when it matters most.
Another thing that makes you so lovable is how understanding you are. You might not always relate to what someone is going through, but you're always there with a kind word and a shoulder to cry on. You get how certain emotions feel, and that's enough to prove that you care.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
One of your most lovable traits is how bubbly and happy you are all the time. When life feels a little too stressful and chaotic to really relax, you're always there to cheer someone up or make someone laugh.
You also have an adventurous streak that everyone loves. Not only are you always down to try something new and broaden your horizons, but you're always looking for someone to take along for the ride. People love that you're always counting them in on your explorations.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
The most lovable thing about you, Capricorn, is how driven and determined you are. Whether you're determined to make a relationship work or prove yourself in your career, the glimmer you get in your eye when you're focused on a goal is admirable.
On top of that, people also love how committed you are. You make long-term investments not just in your career, but in your relationships, too. When you commit to something, nothing can sway you. This proves your devotion and love to the things and people that matter to you.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
People love you for your open-mindedness, Aquarius. You're always happy to welcome people into your life with open arms, and you actively root for people to be their authentic selves. Those who know you know that they can be themselves unabashedly in your presence.
People also love you for your compassionate nature. When someone is your friend, you make sure they know just how important they are to you. You're always just a phone call away when someone needs to vent, a shoulder to cry on, or just someone to understand what they're going through.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
The most lovable thing about you, Pisces, is your empathetic nature. You are the kind of person who feels emotion when others feel emotion, and you know just how needed having someone who gets you is. You always try to be someone who can empathize with others.
Another lovable thing about you is how intuitive you are. You know how you always just sort of know when a friend needs some BFF time, or when your sibling could use a phone call to talk about their day? Yeah, that's pretty lovable of you because it shows you're really in touch with the people in your life.
Emily Ratay is a full-time writer living in Pittsburgh. She's passionate about the environment and feminism, and knows that anything is possible in the right pair of shoes. She plans on writing a non-fiction book in the future.