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There's more to them then meets the eye!
By Tess Griman — Written on Sep 27, 2016
Falling in love is a wonderful and magical part about life. Suddenly Monday mornings aren’t so bad after all because you have someone to look forward to seeing or waking up next to. You see everything in a new light. The sky seems bluer, the grass is greener, and the sun is brighter.
Even the birds seem to sing just for you! And you don’t get upset when you see couples showing PDA anymore because you do that now too (like ALL the time). So of course all your friends, coworkers, neighbors and family members start to notice the change in you.
Which leads to them asking you ... "Could THIS be 'the one'?"
And then suddenly you find yourself going through every aspect of your relationship trying to determine if his/her qualities make them husband/wife potential.
There’s nothing wrong with worrying about the future of your relationship, but by focusing on it too much you’ll lose sight of what really matters — which is enjoying the present. You’ve found something truly good in your life so enjoy it for however long it lasts. Don’t take what you have for granted.
If you have fallen madly in love with an Aries then there’s no surprise why. You have probably already found out that Aries are some of the most passionate and caring people you will ever meet.
Having a healthy and happy relationship takes a whole lot of work, but you never have to worry about an Aries giving up and skimping on what it takes. No way. They’re not the kind of people to turn tail and run when the going gets tough. They’re in it for the long haul if they think it’s worth it.
It can take a lifetime to really get to know someone. So here’s the skinny on the good and bad of falling in love with an Aries so you know what you have gotten yourself into.
CON: They always forget that good things come to those who wait.
You’ll have to have a lot of patience to deal with how impatient Aries are. They don’t handle long lines, road trips or backordered items very well which will most likely lead to them getting moody. They have a lot to learn when it comes to the virtue of patience. So if you plan a big trip or order something they’ve had their eye on for a while, best not to tell them until the day comes.
CON: They know very little about self-control.
Don’t be surprised if your S.O. comes home one day with a puppy or a new flat screen TV. They are the kind of people who live in the moment, which if you haven’t already learned, can be a bad thing. Aries are incredibly impulsive. They want and get everything when they want it.
This also makes them tough tto deal with when it comes to gift giving. What can you get the person that has everything? If they make a large purchase (like a puppy) that you don’t feel comfortable with, don’t be afraid to tell them. Don’t put yourself in a situation that you can’t get out of later on down the line. (As cute as puppies are, they are a TON of responsibility)
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PRO: They cannot tell a lie (well they can, they just don’t like to.)
Aries are all about keeping it real. You can make a relationship work without honesty, but more likely than not it will be dysfunctional and you’ll be miserable. Besides, you want someone in your life that you can rely on to always tell you the truth, even if you don’t want to hear it. Aries are masters at doing just that. Their intention is never to hurt your feelings. They just don’t want there to be any secrets between you. Dishonesty is one of the fastest ways to kill a relationship, and they definitely don’t want any skeletons in the closet to ruin a good thing.
PRO: They can always see the bright side.
Life is full of ups and downs and there is no one better to have at your side than an Aries. They will help you to see that not every bad thing that happens is entirely bad. Some good can from the bad and they will help you to stay focused on that when times get tough. They’ll be your biggest supporter and biggest cheerleader.
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PRO: They don’t mind a challenge.
Aries are the sort of people who have enough determination and stubbornness to see something through until the very end. So whether it’s fixing up that fixer up you just bought together or running a marathon with you, they are up for whatever. They’ll always be able to surprise you.
PRO: Their passion could light a room on fire.
If there’s one thing you can count on, it’s that there will never be a lack of passion in your relationship. Out of all the zodiac signs, Aries are the most passionate. You could light fires with the amount of passion that an Aries has. Can you say HOT? If things ever get monotonous in the bedroom, they’ll have no trouble spicing things up.
