Turns Out Aphrodisiacs Don't Work The Way We Thought After All

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The other day when I told my boyfriend that I was going to do a little research on aphrodisiacs, he was surprisingly keen to help out.

"I'll buy the bacon," he said.

"Bacon is not an aphrodisiac," I said.

"Wanna bet?" he challenged.

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He loves bacon — and, come to think of it, it did seem to put him in the mood for love. (On reflection, I realized that I had unconsciously begun incorporating it into more and more meals, wrapping thin strips around chunks of cod and adding crispy bits to pasta sauces).

But can food produce desire? Or, to put it another way, do aphrodisiacs actually exist?

Many people think so. An online poll conducted by intimacy therapist Linda De Villers found that strawberries, ice cream, pasta, and whipped cream are the four foods most commonly associated with lust.

But according to Martha Hopkins, coauthor of The New InterCourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook, there are no real aphrodisiacs. "Still," she laughs, "whatever makes you groan when you eat it counts."

If you think about it, a greasy slab of cured pork belly is no odder than many other foods that have historically been considered aphrodisiacs: asparagus, artichokes, avocados, bananas, black beans, chili peppers, figs, licorice, and pine nuts have all been hailed for their ability to arouse desire.

The Aztecs called the avocado tree a "testicle tree" because its fruit hangs in pairs.

In Renaissance Europe, women were forbidden to eat artichokes, which according to legend had been created when the Greek god Zeus transformed a young maiden into the spiky vegetable. As a result, they were prescribed to men to improve their performance. Of history's most famous aphrodisiacs, only chocolate and oysters still hold claim to their sensual reputation.

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Over time, different foods acquired reputations as stimulants for two reasons.

In some cases, it physically resembled certain organs (avocados and carrots look like males; oysters and figs are reminiscent of females). In others, the food mimicked the fire of passion; chili peppers, for example, may cause sweating and increased heart rate and circulation, just as intimacy does.

Spanish fly, one of the world's most celebrated aphrodisiacs, can cause genital burning, which is sometimes considered synonymous with excitement. (Unfortunately, that burning is caused by an acid-like juice, cantharidin, which is highly toxic.)

While the physical suggestion of intimacy may be enough for some, modern research shows that some classic aphrodisiacs can stimulate desire — and increase performance.

Oysters, for example, contain high levels of zinc, which has been associated with increased potency in men; the eighteenth-century womanizer Casanova was said to have eaten 50 oysters for breakfast with his mistress in a bathtub built for two.

And the fibrous tissue of Asia's prized aphrodisiac, the rhino horn, contains both calcium and phosphorous— minerals that, when deficient (as they often were in ancient times), can lead to muscle weakness, fatigue — and therefore a preference for quickies rather than slow, sensual intimacy. (It also conveniently resembles a man.)

The smell of food, too, can elicit romantic feelings, according to research by Alan Hirsch, the neurological director of the Smell & Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago. Having noticed that people who lost their sense of smell also had a diminished physical appetite, he tested men and women to see what scents might increase blood flow.

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Men responded physically to all of the aromas. But the top spot went to a blend of pumpkin pie and lavender, which increased blood flow 40 percent of the time. Runners-up were doughnuts with black licorice (31.5 percent) and pumpkin pie with doughnuts (20 percent).

Women, in contrast, responded most to the blend of cucumber and licorice — two traditional aphrodisiacs — and the scent of baby powder. But perhaps more revealing were the three scents that turned women off: cherries, barbecued meat, and men's cologne. So much for the thrill of the grill.

In the end, my boyfriend was right. Aphrodisiacs are personal.

He loves bacon, while my friend James can't think of anything cuter than Nutella, that thick chocolate-hazelnut spread that is "perfect for feeding each other," he says. For InterCourses author Hopkins, the most attractive food is grilled asparagus dipped in her French boyfriend's homemade mayonnaise. But, she adds, the greatest turn-on of all is when he cooks and then does the dishes.

"If you think it's an aphrodisiac, it always works," Hopkins says. So pour the champagne, grill asparagus, or feed your true love strawberries. At my house this Valentine's Day, we'll be eating heart-shaped waffles and a (hearty) side of bacon.

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