11 Specific Behaviors That Make Men Treat You Like A Rare, High-Value Woman
You are a rare, high-value woman who deserves to be treated like such.
mentatdgt / Shutterstock High-value women are hard to come by. While most women have traits that prove their value, not everyone can check all the boxes. Certain behaviors show if someone is truly a woman worth giving the world to. Of course, all women deserve respect in their relationships, but these impressive traits make men fall head over heels in love with them.
Women who act with high-value behaviors are irresistible to men. They are attracted to women who know their worth. When someone treats not only themselves but also others with respect, it leads to respectful, happy relationships. Men love women who know themselves inside and out. When a woman holds herself to a high standard, he will follow. Men will treat women who have these behaviors like high-value, rare women. This is because they are. It’s not easy to find a partner that checks every box. When a woman practices these behaviors, she is sure to win over the perfect man.
11 specific behaviors that make men treat you like a rare, high-value woman
1. You are unapologetic
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This doesn’t mean someone who never apologizes for their mistakes, of course. An unapologetic woman is someone who doesn’t feel guilty for putting herself first. She has strong beliefs and sticks to them. You’ll never catch her apologizing for who she is. She is never going to change herself to impress a man.
If you are unapologetically yourself, men will treat you like a rare, high-value woman. This is because they can tell who you are. They know you will always tell it like it is. A man can trust you because they knows you stand firm in yourself. When you practice unapologetic behavior, you’ll have every man wanting to treat you like the queen that you are.
2. You hold yourself to a high standard
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Are you a woman who wants only the best for yourself? Not only from others, but from yourself. Holding yourself to a high standard is important. This behavior motivates you to constantly improve your life. It is also something that leaves a man treating you like the high-value woman that you are. Not only are you keeping yourself accountable, but you also make sure other people treat you with respect.
“Holding yourself to a higher standard means you are accepting the fact that you cannot be influenced by people with no direction in their lives. You need to be more mature and professional in the way you act around people, talk to people, and present yourself,” says James Simkins for Elite Daily. “Normal should not be good enough for you. Expect excellence and believe in yourself. Look to motivate others, lead by example, and never look to stop writing the story that is your life.” This is behavior that can make a man treat you like the rare woman that you are.
3. You reciprocate feelings
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It can be fun to play hard to get. I know I have been guilty of playing these games in a relationship. However, many men are not comfortable with this practice. Instead, they value someone who shows their feelings and doesn’t back off when things get serious. Being open about your feelings for them will show how high-value you are.
High-value women are not afraid to show how interested they are in another person. Someone who knows not to come on too strong or too soft can be a lot to deal with. Men are happier with women who are open and honest about their feelings. Someone who isn’t afraid to reciprocate feelings is special to men. It can be rare to find a woman who shows how she feels in a healthy way.
4. You value your independence
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Romantic relationships are special. Some women can get too caught up in their partnership and struggle to balance their relationships with the other people in their lives. Women who value their independence can be seen as rare and highly valued. They easily balance their lives and make sure every box is checked, not just their romantic relationship.
“A woman in a relationship should have more priorities than just her boyfriend. This could be work, school, a social life – anything that allows her to be her own person and have a life away from her boyfriend,” says the University of California, Santa Barbara’s school paper, The Bottom Line. “This is important not just because it gives the guy more time to be with his friends (though it helps), but because it allows both parties to focus and give all their attention to each other when they do spend time with one another.”
5. You manage your emotions
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Let’s face it, it’s not easy to manage our emotions. I know I have been guilty of letting my feelings get the best of me. This behavior can impact our relationships with the people we care about. Acting out on emotions alone can push men away. When a woman practices emotional maturity, he knows she is rare and worth his time.
It can take time to come to terms with our emotions. Getting to know ourselves helps us manage our feelings. A woman who is capable of understanding herself and not acting out on her initial feelings is not only a good partner but a successful woman all around. Managing emotions allows a woman to think clearly and act rationally. These are behaviors that make forming a romantic relationship easy. It provides a healthy foundation with clear-headed communication.
6. You have nothing to prove
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So many of us women have been guilty of trying to prove our worth to everyone in our lives. I have struggled with this for as long as I can remember. I never thought that I was good enough, and I pushed myself to prove I was worthy. As I got older, I learned that proving yourself to some people does not matter. They will see you how they choose to see you. Rare, high-value women know that they have nothing to prove. They are themselves, and how others feel about them is their problem.
Men find this behavior attractive. “If you let other people’s perceptions shape what you do and how you behave, you’ll end up pursuing what they think is valuable in detriment to what it’s actually valuable to you,” says Tesia Blake on Medium. “All you have to do is to live by your standards and respect your own values (as long as you’re not hurting anyone else, of course), and the rest is a consequence.”
7. You set boundaries
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Setting boundaries is one of the most important things you can do for yourself and your relationships. It shows that you are worthy of being treated a certain way. When you lay the groundwork that you won’t accept behaviors that do not serve you, you instantly demand respect. Men appreciate this behavior. It tells them exactly what you are expecting from the relationship.
Boundaries are also important on the other side. Men admire women who acknowledge their boundaries and respect them. Sadly, a mutually-respectable relationship can be hard to find these days. Men are happy with women who set boundaries for themselves while also respecting those that they set.
8. You don’t compete with other women
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A high-value woman doesn’t feel the need to compete with other women. She is supportive instead of competitive. She values strong relationships with her fellow women. Men admire a woman who is confident enough to view others as allies, not as people they need to be better than. It shows that she is comfortable in her own skin.
“Often it’s also because you don’t feel like you’re good enough. This results in competition with others, as you try to show yourself that you’re good enough in some way. The need to be accepted is a factor, too, because after winning against other women, you hope to achieve the approval that you’ve sought all your life,” says W For Women. Men can see a woman’s desire for competition against other women for what it is: Insecurity. Instead, they will value those who accept other women rather than work against them.
9. You have confidence
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Confidence is something I have struggled with my whole life. It’s not something I am proud to admit. I’m hard on myself when it comes to just about everything. It can be a hard habit to kick. However, when you can do so, you become a rare type of woman who makes men treat you well.
Having confidence shows that you feel secure not only within yourself, but also in the relationship you share with your partner. A man will be drawn to women who are proud of who they are. It makes them more desirable. High-value women have an unshakeable confidence. It is the behavior that makes them so successful not only in their romantic relationship but also in life.
10. You are appreciative when it matters
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Let’s face it, sometimes we provide love and appreciation to people who do not deserve it. I know I have been guilty of this. Most women are naturally thankful for the people in their lives. Even those who don’t deserve everything they pour into the relationship. Highly valued women know who to appreciate and when to do so.
“Studies show that appreciation can reduce stress, improve mental health, and increase resilience and self-confidence, benefiting both personal and professional relationships,” says life coach Karen Strang Allen. “Appreciation builds rapport with the person you share it with, promoting a deeper connection and more positive relationships. We all like to feel valued, and tend to feel closer to the people we feel most valued by.” Men value women who show appreciation, but they must provide it only when the man deserves it. Believe it or not, this behavior is admired by men who know they do not always deserve unconditional appreciation.
11. You know when it’s the right time to leave
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A woman who refuses to stay in a bad situation proves her worth. She’s not going to give someone a million chances. She protects her peace at all costs. Since she isn’t going to allow bad intentions in her life, she holds everyone she meets to high standards. A man will see this and recognize why this behavior is important.
Men who see that a woman isn’t afraid to leave show them that she has a lot to lose. She won’t accept bad behavior and will be sure to show him how she feels when he isn’t living up to her high standards. He’ll realize that she is special and will treat her like the rare, high-value woman that she is.
Haley Van Horn is a freelance writer with a master’s degree in Humanities, living in Los Angeles. Her focus includes entertainment and lifestyle stories.
