60 Seriously Sexy Dirty Questions To Turn You Both On

Get down and dirty in a totally new way.

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Keeping your relationship fun and exciting is crucial if you want something everlasting. It's not just important for making sure that your partner stays attracted and faithful, but also for making sure that you, yourself, don't get bored after a while!

So that's why I want to give you these 60 dirty questions to ask your partner when you want to get them in the mood for some fun sexy times.

The aim of the questions is for both of you to discover new things about each other in a fun and interesting way.


Talking about sex is also a great way to learn how adventurous you each are and explore some ideas for new things you both want to try in bed.

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You don't have to limit yourself to the questions below. Use these as inspiration and try to also come up with your own based on the ones you're about to read.


You'll find that you don't necessarily have to get wild and nasty in your sex life when coming up with your own sexy questions. Some of the best dirty questions are actually quite tame while at the same time hinting at something naughty or kinky.

And remember, these work great for phone sex sessions, as sexy messages for sexting, or for a sexy game.

60 Sexy, Dirty Questions To Turn You Both On

Questions About Sexual Fantasies

1. What's your most hardcore fantasy?

2. Have you ever fantasized about a coworker?

3. Name a celebrity you've had a sexual fantasy about.

4. What's a naughty dream you've had?

5. Would you be into role playing?

6. Are you interested in BDSM?


7. Do my feet turn you on?

8. Do you think you could give me an orgasm by only touching my breasts and kissing me? Would you like to try?

9. Do you like it when I'm the dominant one in bed or do you prefer leading things?

10. Do you fantasize about anal sex?

11. Of all the things I've done with you in the bedroom, what's your favorite?

12. Have you read "Fifty Shades Of Gray"? If so, did it turn you on?

13. What's your favorite position when you're on top?

14. What's your favorite sex position when I'm on top?

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Dirty Truth or Dare Questions

15. Do you prefer hair down there or all bare?

16. Have you ever streaked?


17. What's the weirdest thing that turns you on?

18. Have you ever recorded yourself having sex?

19. Have you ever been to a sex party?

20. Which would you rather give up for a year: sex or alcohol?

21. Have you ever cheated on a partner?

22. Who was your first sexual partner?

23. Which would you rather give up for a year: partnered sex or masturbation?

24. Have you ever faked an orgasm?

25. Do your best impression of a "Fifty Shades of Gray" sex scene.

26. Demonstrate your oral sex technique on the nearest appropriate object.

27. If I could only wear yoga pants or short skirts for the rest of my life, what would you choose for me?

28. Have you ever been given a lap dance? Have you done one?


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Naughty Sexy Questions

29. When is the last time you've had a naughty dream about me?

30. Guess what color underwear I'm wearing...

31. What's the most sensitive part of your body?

32. When was the last time you masturbated?

33. If you could only have one type of sex for the rest of your life, what would you choose: oral, anal or regular?

34. Have you ever taken nudes?

35. Do you sleep in pajamas, underwear or nothing at all?

36. If you could only ever sleep with one celebrity, who would you choose?

37. What’s your "weirdest" fantasy?

38. Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?


39. What is your favorite sexy scene from a movie?

40. What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever done it?

41. Have you ever felt jealous when you saw me talking to another guy?

42. Would you be angry if you saw me making out with a really hot girl?

43. What's more important ... boobs or butt?

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Questions About Sexual Experiences

44. What's the naughtiest thing you've ever done?

45. Have you ever said someone else's name during sex, instead of the girl you were with?

46. Have you ever dated two girls at the same time?


47. Have you ever been caught masturbating?

48. Have you ever had sex outside?

49. Have you ever used a sex toy in bed?

50. Have you ever woken up beside someone you regretted sleeping with?

51. Have you ever woken the neighbors because you were so loud in the bedroom?

52. Have you ever had sex in public?

53. How many one-night stands have you had?

54. When was the last time you went to a strip club?

55. Have you ever had a threesome?

56. Have you ever been caught having sex?

57. Have you ever walked in on people having sex?

58. Have you ever tied someone up/been tied up in bed?

59. Have you ever had sex in a car?

60. What's the weirdest thing you've ever done in bed?


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Sean Jameson is a sex expert and writer. If you want to learn more of his dirty questions, visit the Bad Girl's Bible.