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These are the signs that can give you exactly what you need.
By Andrea Davis — Written on Mar 26, 2018
Discovering what you like in bed can take years of introspection and multiple trial-and-error experiences. Of course, thanks to astrology, your zodiac sign can help guide you to your starting point.
Taking the time to find out what you care about the most should be fun! Experience is an amazing teacher and being aware of your likes and dislikes helps carve out the path you want to take in life. If you want to try everything, we won't stop you! But if you would like a tailored journey that fits your tastes that is totally fine, too. Your life is all about doing what you love so following someone else's path can only cause chaos. Life is always about the time spent traveling rather than the destination itself.
Whether you're more of a spontaneous person or prefer a little routine in the bedroom, your zodiac sign can help you fulfill your wildest fantasies. And bonus: you can also find your best zodiac compatibility sexually for the best possible time ever!
Aries (March 21 - April 19)
An Aries is passionate and impatient, always ready to get down to business. They won’t sugar coat things in order to attract their lover. They use a more realistic, raw approach that can be intoxicating and addicting. An Aries knows what they want, and who they want, and you can bet they'll get it exactly when they want it.
Sexually Compatible Signs: Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Aquarius
An Aries is most turned on by spontaneous sexual play. They hate feeling as if it is a routine or scheduled event that they need to be a part of. They love being in the moment and going wild. If things don’t stay spicy, an Aries will quickly and surely get bored.
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
A Taurus is all about the wine and dine method. They are sensual lovers and love things to be passionate at all costs. They are devoted to their lovers, and they want to feel the mutual sexual tension that they radiate. They know how to keep things hot and interesting and often make extraordinary lovers (in and out of the bedroom).
Sexually Compatible Signs: Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
A Taurus is most turned on when they are romanced by their lover. They want rose petals on the bed, with slow music playing lightly in the background. They want to feel the passion inside and out. They are turned off by aggressive, unexpected play and don’t want to feel belittled or humiliated.
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
A Gemini loves to be verbal, especially in the bedroom. They will tell you what they want, and how they want it. They are straightforward and to the point. They like to get down to business ASAP, and don’t care for the foreplay or leading up to sex sort of approach. They go all in, all at once.
Sexually Compatible Signs: Libra, Aquarius, Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
A Gemini gets super turned on by hot and steamy conversation. If you tell them what you want to do to them in the bedroom, it will drive them absolutely batty. They like trying new things. They are wild lovers that will leave you craving more. A major turn off for a Gemini is the dreaded clinginess. They hate feeling like someone is instantly clung to them after being intimate. They need space and a whole lot of it.
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Cancers typically have sex with their emotions, so it leads them into some troubled waters later on. They don’t just jump into bed with anyone, they must feel an intimate connection with that person beforehand. They are passionate, intense, and erotic in so many ways. They are shy at first, but once you get a Cancer to break out of their shell, they are deeply affectionate and eager to try new and exciting things.
Sexually Compatible Signs: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn, Scorpio, Pisces
A major turn on for Cancer is to feel the trust with their lover. If they feel as if they’re able to be vulnerable with you, they’ll please you forever. They are givers and will give until they can’t give any more. A turn off for a Cancer is to be standoffish, or inattentive after being intimate. Their feelings can be easily hurt, and they are sensitive in just about every aspect.
Leo (July 23 - August 22)
A Leo wants to feel the wrath of their ego in bed, so talking them up is a good idea if you want to see their wild, passionate side. They will put on one hell of a show if they feel like you worship the ground they walk on. They are sexual, devoted, and will go the extra mile to make sure you’re just as satisfied as they are. They are all around great lovers.
Sexually Compatible Signs: Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
A big turn on for a Leo is endless flattery. If you compliment their every move, they will give you all of them. A turn off for Leo is when their partner tries to take charge or be in control. Leo always feels the need to be the boss, and they are extremely bossy in the bedroom.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
A Virgo is a romantic, sweet, and compassionate lover. They are clean cut and love to “make love.” They prefer the less aggressive approach and enjoy getting to know and feel every inch of their partner during intercourse. They enjoy having the aggression taken out on them, but won’t be the one releasing it. They are willing to try new things to spice things up, even if they are too shy to mention it first.
Sexually Compatible Signs: Taurus, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
A major turn on for a Virgo is passionate, sensible intimacy. They are all about taking an old-fashioned approach to sex and really making it mean something to one another. They are easily turned off by super aggressive, down and dirty kind of approach and prefer a softer, gentler style.
Libra (September 23 - October 22)
A Libra is a kinky lover. They are an excellent partner in the bedroom if detached. They are open to trying just about anything and everything you desire, and they won’t be afraid to share their own ideas with you. They are passionate, erotic lovers and enjoy fetish play.
Sexually Compatible Signs: Gemini, Aquarius, Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
A turn on for a Libra is a clean, freshly made bed, and all the toys you can ask for. They always need the best of everything, and although they are extra clean, they aren’t afraid to get their hands a little dirty too. A major turn off for a Libra is raunchy sex or anything that is too X-rated. Their worst nightmare has got to be gross hotel sex.
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
A Scorpio is known to be a freak in the sheets, but they aren’t that way for just anyone. They like to know their lover is into them and only them. They want to “own” you and make you their own toy to play with at their beckon call. They are kinky, freaky, and absolute horn-dogs. They are guaranteed to show you a great time as long as you are sure to give them what they need in return. They’re all about the love-making.
Sexually Compatible Signs: Cancer, Pisces, Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
A major turn on for a Scorpio is being understanding and eager to explore new things with one another. They will constantly be asking you to try new ways to pleasure each other in the bedroom, and it surely will not disappoint. A turn off for a Scorpio is finding a partner who tries to assert when it’s clear that you’re the one in control. That’s yes sir, to you.
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
A Sagittarius is a grand old time but isn’t looking for anything serious or long term. They will make love, and be gone quickly after. They enjoy being pleased, rather than being the pleaser. They are sort of selfish lovers, but once you hit that sweet spot, they will give in immediately. They are good at giving their undivided, devoted attention to you while in bed, but once it’s done, they’re on to the next victim.
Sexually Compatible Signs: Aries, Leo, Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
A big turn-on for a Sagittarius is being adventurous in the bedroom. They want to try new positions, techniques and want you to initiate that. They want sex to be one big adventure that never really comes to an end. A turn off for a Scorpio is blandness. They hate the thought of boring foreplay and boring intimacy that leaves them needing a nap afterward. They want sparks and passion and curiosity. It drives them mad.
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
A Capricorn comes across as being all business, but once they let loose, they will go for days. They need a certain person to unchain them, and once the chains are gone, they are ready for action and passionate as hell. They have incredible stamina and endurance and will not fail to please you all night long. They make excellent, unparalleled lovers.
Sexually Compatible Signs: Taurus, Virgo, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
A major turn on for a Capricorn is having brains and beauty. They are attracted to smart, accomplished people who aren’t afraid to flaunt what they’ve got. They find a mental attraction just as hot as a physical one. And when both are present at the same time, they go all in. A turn off for a Capricorn is spur of the moment hookups. They like to plan things out, to fit in with their hectic and busy lifestyle. They aren’t an “adventures on a weekday” kind of lover.
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
An Aquarius is down to try absolutely anything you throw their way. Nothing is too out of the ordinary, and they make that known from the start. They want to keep things interesting, and if you’re able to do that, they’ll stick around for awhile.
Sexually Compatible Signs: Gemini, Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
A major turn on for an Aquarius is having good conversation and good sex. If you have both of those, you’re golden. They will continue to love you over and over again. A major turn off for an Aquarius is the thought of losing their freedom. They want to remain in charge of their own lives and keep you on the side when it’s convenient. It makes them selfish lovers, in a sense.
Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
A Pisces lives in a fantasy world when it comes to sex. They want to fulfill all of your wildest dreams and desires, and they expect that you do the same for them. They are naughty, yet classy and intellectual. And it is charming in every way possible. They will “woo” you with their charm, and please you with their skills. (If you know what I mean) .
Sexually Compatible Signs: Scorpio, Cancer, Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn
A major turn on for a Pisces is role play. They love daydreaming about their wildest fantasies and will go crazy for role play in the bedroom. Wear a sexy little costume, and they’ll be instantly hooked. A major turn off for a Pisces is feeling neglected or rejected by their partner. They want to know you’re just as into them as they are into you.
Andrea Davis is just your average girl writing about her experiences in this crazy thing we call life! Follow her on Facebook for more.
This article was originally published at Thought Catalog. Reprinted with permission from the author.