Sex him, don't date him.
By Christine Schoenwald — Written on Oct 21, 2016
We all want to find the one. You know, the one person that we can share our life with; the one person who will always be there for us. However, that someone is special and can be somewhat hard to find. And there are times when we just want to release some sexual tension and we're only looking for the one right now.
Not every person is marriage material, but it's good to date and meet a number of people so you can know what it is that you do and don't want. Sometimes, you know immediately upon meeting someone that they're not for you, but that doesn't mean there isn't any sexual chemistry happening. You can lust for someone and never want to share a meal with them.
It's taken society a long time (and not everybody is there yet) to accept the fact that women are sexual beings, have purely sexual needs, and that sometimes they have no intention of dating someone or getting to know them — they just want some sex. Some sex-only relationships can lead to other kinds of relationships, but most of the time, sex-only relationships or casual hookups are just that. If you want sex for sex sake, go for it.
There are also times that it can sometimes get confusing when someone makes our body feel so good and helps us to have so many orgasms, one might question if there's an emotional connection, too. But sometimes, sex is the only thing that binds you with that other person, and when that's not there, you have nothing to say to each other.
When things get confusing, astrology can help. It knows which zodiac signs are sexually compatible with each other and which signs are true soulmates. Here's the one sign you should have sex with but NEVER date, according to your zodiac sign.
Aries (March 21 - April 19): Have sex with a Libra
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Aries, Libra will be able to keep up with you in bed, and will match you in terms of energy and willingness to try new things. Don't date them, because when you'd want to discuss problems or even argue them, Libra will refuse to engage — they hate conflict.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
Taurus (April 20 - May 20): Have sex with a Pisces
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Taurus enjoys hours of foreplay and going slow, and Pisces will instinctively know all your sweet spots. Don't date them; their sometimes hippie mentality won't understand your delight in luxury and need for security.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One
Gemini (May 21 - June 20): Have sex with an Aquarius
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Gemini should hook up with an Aquarius because they're never boring in bed (something you absolutely can't tolerate) and are open to trying anything. But don't date them; they hate talking about emotions and you want to talk about everything.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
Cancer (June 21 - July 22): Have sex with a Virgo
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Netflix and chill with a Virgo; they have a secret freaky side just like you, Cancer. However, they're prone to criticize and that's something you don't tolerate well. They're also going to want to show off what they know rather than listen to you talk about your feelings.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One
Leo (July 23 - August 22): Have sex with a Sagittarius
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Their energy and lust for life is a match for yours, Leo. But don't date them for they'll never put all their focus on you. They need constant newness and you won't be able to stand the fact that you're not enough for them.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22): Have sex with a Pisces
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Virgo, you'll enjoy a Pisces' creativity and sensuality, but their dreaminess and inability to take things seriously — like neatness and details — won't work with your practical and meticulous personality.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
Libra (September 23 - October 22): Have sex with a Scorpio
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If you want a memorable sexual experience, go for a Scorpio. They'll give you some mind-blowing sex, Libra. However, avoid dating them as they're too intense for your harmonious sensibilities.
Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21): Have sex with a Aquarius
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You love sex, Scorpio, but it's difficult for you to have casual sex. But if you allow yourself to just have sex for the fun of it, choose an Aquarius. They like their partners to be upfront and honest the way you do. But don't date them; your possessive nature won't mesh well with their free spirit attitude.
Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21): Have sex with a Capricorn
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Have sex with a Capricorn because they can be surprisingly exciting and adventurous when it comes to getting it on. But, Sagittarius, don't date them; they're too rigid and practical for you.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19): Have sex with a Cancer
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Capricorn, if you just want some casual sex, go for a Cancer and you'll have a hot night of fun. Warning: don't try to make a one-night stand into something more with a Cancer; they're far too emotional and needy for you. You need someone much more independent than a Cancer.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18): Have sex with a Taurus
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For some hot sex, try a Taurus; they've got a surplus of sensuality and moves that will make your toes curl. Don't date a Taurus though, Aquarius; they are far too stubborn and inflexible for them to be a good match for you.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One
Pisces (February 19 - March 20): Have sex with a Leo
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Do a Leo when you just want some sweaty fun; they're very good between the sheets. But don't date them, Pisces. You may be very unselfish and thinking of others, and a Leo is all about themselves.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One
