7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

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Zodiac Sign Virgo Relationship Personality Compatibility

The good, the bad, the VIRGO.

I’ve always kind of tiptoed around the edges of astrology. I’ve known what my sign is and what signs I’m generally most compatible with, but I never held too much stock in anything. After all, what does being born at a certain time or day of the year really have to do with who I am? Say what you will about the validity of astrological signs but I’ve found a few things to be true across the board when it comes to Virgos. Many look at Virgos as the stuck-up, boring, prude-ish sign, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Just like anything worth having, you have to work to get to the good stuff. Here's 7 truths you should know about loving a Virgo:

1. We like a plan.

One thing you need to know about loving a Virgo is that we don’t rush into things. We analyze all the options, make a plan, and go from there. Some may call it being a stick in the mud; we call it being prepared. Yes, a spontaneous road trip is great! But first let me just map our route; research food stops along the way, and line up some highly rated Airbnb locations.

2. We make great nerds.

If there’s one thing Virgos are good at it’s details. The minutia is where we live. I’ve been told that I can come off as bitchy or cold. The truth is my mind is going a million miles a minute at any given time, taking in all the details around me or worrying about something that happened at work an hour ago or what’s for dinner later tonight. But we Virgos don’t let it show on our face. And that attention to detail also makes us great listeners. Because we’re actually listening to what you’re saying and not just waiting for our turn to talk. Need somebody to research something for you? We’re your best bet. Need someone to low-key stalk a potential boyfriend to see if he’s got any skeletons hanging out his virtual closet? Girl, we are so down.

3. We are loyal. 

Once a Virgo puts their trust in you, that’s it. It takes us a bit to get there; laying low and analyzing everything before we jump in, but once we’re in, we’re in. It’s no surprise to me that the majority of my friends I’ve had for 20+ years. I don’t make friends easily but those that stick around to really get to know me are there for life.

4. We’re practical. 

Maybe it’s all the planning and analyzing and attention to detail, but when it comes down to it Virgos are the most practical of the signs. You may find that boring, but we find reassurance and comfort in stability and practicality.

5. We’re picky about who we love.

I’ve been told more than once that my standards are too high. Virgos have high standards for everyone; most so for themselves. So it takes us a bit to fall in love. But once we do? We’re in it for the long haul. We don’t do casual well. We’re the least likely of all the signs to have a one night stand. And while our symbol may be the virgin, don’t get it twisted; we’re deeply passionate. We’re just not willing to let everyone in on that passion. So count your blessings if we choose you.

6. We’re independent. 

Some call it being a control freak; but I like to look at it as a healthy independence. We’re unlikely to ask for help because given our analytical mind and attention to detail we’ll probably do it better than anyone else anyway. And Virgos don’t like to show any weakness or what’s going on under the surface, which results in a calm exterior and a do-it-myself attitude. The fastest way to piss off a Virgo is to try and take away their independence.

7. We're discerning ... about everything. 

We’re not just picky about who we love; we’re picky about everything. It’s our perfectionist tendencies and love of detail. We’re not willing to settle for “just okay,” when we know we can get as close to perfection as possible. This means you, too. Virgos have high standards not only for themselves, but for those around them.


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