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What he says is going to lead to some major hurt.
By Christine Schoenwald — Written on Oct 14, 2016
Breakups are difficult enough when both parties agree that the relationship isn't working out, but what's even worse when one partner wants to breakup and the other thinks things are going great.
You feel blindsided when your boyfriend/girlfriend wants to breakup, and you go through your mind trying to see if there were any indications that they weren't happy in the relationship. Were there signs you just missed or did you make a conscious choice not to notice them?
Maybe you and your partner were going through a challenging time in the relationship and you thought things would work out. Surprise! They worked out... at least for your significant other who wants to leave you.
Would it hurt less if you were keyed into exactly how they were feeling? They were dropping all kinds of hints that you just choose not to recognize. He had been laying the groundwork for the breakup for months, and if you're honest with yourself, don't you feel a little relieved that it's beginning to come to the surface? And in one way or another, the problems in your relationship will be solved?
Think back to the days when things were just beginning, and how easy and fun everything was. It was quite a difference from the tension-filled hours you now spend together, and how hard it is just to get him to make plans or even pay attention to you.
When you're the one being left, no matter how dissatisfied you may be in the relationship, it hurts. And while you shouldn't be paranoid waiting for whatever shoe to drop, you should be aware of the subtle changes that occur with your partner's behavior, especially in what he says.
Astrology can help you out and can provide a guide to what he might say that indicates he's not happy in the relationship, and that he's making a plan to get out. Here are the subtle things he says when he's about to leave you, according to his zodiac sign.
Aries (March 21 - April 19): "Damn it, why did you do that? What's the matter with you?"
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It doesn't really matter what you do, because the Aries man is going to get angry with you over things that never would have bothered him before. Aries individuals can be quick-tempered, especially if they're about to leave you.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
Taurus (April 20 - May 20): "No, I can't do that."
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If a Taurus man is considering ending a relationship, he's going to get increasingly resentful and inflexible. The more things you ask him to do, the less willing he's going to want to do them.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One
Gemini (May 21 - June 20): "We'll get together soon, I'm just very busy at work."
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When a Gemini man is about to leave, he'll get more and more unavailable. He won't want to make any effort to see you, because he's already meeting new people that he finds more interesting.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
Cancer (June 21 - July 22): "Maybe we're too different."
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The last thing a Cancer man would want to do is cause anyone any pain. His logic is that if he plants the idea of a breakup in your head, you might be the one to instigate it.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One
Leo (July 23 - August 22): "You wouldn't believe the day I had today."
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When a Leo is on the verge of leaving, he won't ask you about your day. The truth is, he's not that concerned with you; his attention is going back to himself all the time.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22): "I'm sorry, what were you saying?"
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A Virgo would never be impolite, even when he's done with a relationship. He just won't be very present when he's with you.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
Libra (September 23 - October 22): "I've invited some friends to join us for dinner."
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When a Libra is getting ready to leave someone, they'll start to dread spending time alone with their partner, so they'll start to make every date a group date.
Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21): "Oh, you had spinach in your teeth all night? I didn't notice."
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If a Scorpio isn't gazing on intensely, then the spark has gone out of that flame. They're super-focused, especially on those they love, so if they don't see something (especially something embarrassing about you), that's a huge sign they're on the verge of leaving.
Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21): "Yeah, about that trip to Japan... I don't think I can make it."
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Sagittarius can always make time for a trip — they practically invented mini-vacays! So if yours isn't up for a trip, that's their way of indicating that an adios in your future.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19): "I meant to text/message/call you back."
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Capricorns are very reliable and dependable, and if they don't follow through on something that concerns you, it means your relationship is in serious trouble.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18): "Wow, the weekend flew by. Maybe we can get together on Wednesday for lunch."
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If a weekend goes by and there's no contact from your Aquarius man, then he's halfway out the door of your relationship. Everybody knows that Saturday is the unofficial date night, and if he doesn't care if he spends it with you or not, your relationship will soon be over.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One
Pisces (February 19 - March 20): "Maybe we're just not meant to be."
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Pisces are one of the most creative signs of the zodiac, and if they start talking in clichés, your relationship is doomed. You're no longer their inspiration, their muse, their anything.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One