What It's Really Like To Have Sex With A Gemini

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What It's Like To Have Sex With A Gemini, Based On Their Personality Traits & Astrology

Gemini men and women, born between May 21 and June 21, are know for having a way with words, and this is just one of their stellar personality traits that carries over to the bedroom.

Many born under this most oral of all zodiac signs claim that they can literally be talked to orgasm, or that they can chat their partners to nirvana.

Gemini are dirty talkers and have been known to elevate talking dirty to an art form. They're so good at it that it's difficult for partners to compete.

But if you're trying to learn how to have great sex with a Gemini, don't worry. They'll appreciate your efforts to keep up, even if your naughty prose is nowhere near as creative (or downright nasty) as theirs is.

Filthy philosophizing just seems to effortlessly spill from between their lips. In fact, after the heat of the moment has passed, they're apt to be a little embarrassed about what they said.

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And speaking of lips, Gemini tend to very gifted at kissing.

They will treat lovers to twists of the tongue they never imagined. Lip locks with one these twins is guaranteed to curl your toes, straighten your hair and tie your knickers in a bow.

Gemini are also highly skilled in oral sex. They're so fantastic at it that you might think they have two tongues.

In a sense, they do. Not only are Gems artful at cunnilingus and fellatio, but they supremely enjoy performing the act — so much so that they might actually prefer giving head a bit more than getting it. Don't be insulted if your Gemini partner would rather give than receive. It's just in their nature, so go with it.

Believe it or not, they get off on you getting off almost as much as you do.

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Be prepared for an enjoyable romp when you bed a Gemini.

Their lovemaking is varied, energetic and creative. They're curious about all kinds of sexual expression, are usually game for anything and are willing to try out something new.

This is one reason they're comfortable and confident in threesomes, especially trios which include two same-sex partners. Again, this is due to the twin aspect of their Sun Sign.

Role-playing games can be extremely fulfilling with a Gemini since they are imaginative and fun-loving, but be sure that the scenarios are varied. Gems are easily bored with the same old scenario, even in fantasy.

Keep a storehouse of ideas, props and costumes on hand for any role-playing forays with the twins. They can only reenact "the cheerleader and the football star" so many times before wanting to branch off into "the headmaster and the naughty student."

And one guess who likes to be the top ...

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A downside to Gemini's "oral fixation" might be their tendency to break out into a lengthy treatise in the middle of sex.

To them, talk is just extended foreplay — it turns them on.

But no worries, they're easily redirected. Sometimes a hard, passionate kiss on the mouth is all it takes to shut them up and get your point across.

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Some Gemini are sexually promiscuous, flitting from partner to partner like a bumblebee from flower to flower. That's one of the reasons they're known as the butterflies of the zodiac.

Others prefer one partner and have a lot of sex with them. But this has less to do with actual horniness and more to do with the Gemini desire to do it all.

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Although Gems are sensual individuals, they're generally more driven by their intellect than by their desires.

Some may even over-think sex to the point of distraction so that it disturbs their enjoyment of the act.

Their hyperactive mind might be so pronounced that it interferes with a man's ability to sustain an erection and with a woman's capacity to climax. Remedying the situation could simply be an instance of mind over matter.

However, in most cases, the Gemini tendency to constantly examine the "what if's" and "buts" in life doesn't sneak into the bedroom.

With a Gemini, you are practically guaranteed an attentive, playful lover worthy of a trophy for "Oral Excellence".

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Ariella Moonstone has been a sought-after astrologer for several decades, counting many recognizable names among her private clientele. Vivian Woodley, MA/MFT, has been a licensed therapist for more than 20 years, specializing in issues related to sexuality. Their book, The Astrology Sex Diet is available on Amazon.​

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