14 Unexpected Things Men Do That Make Women Want To Have Sex

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What Makes A Woman Want To Have Sex? 14 Surprising Answers

For many men, the reasons a woman might want to have sex are a mystery. They spend hours pondering the web looking for reasons a woman's sex drive might be do them the good service of running hot when next they meet.

The truth is, there isn't a whole lot to it. Scientifically, women are just as easy to turn on as men, and the different reasons that we find ourselves eager to have sex with someone aren't that different from men's.

So here are 14 things that make a woman want to have sex with a man.

1. You're there at the right moment 

She's out for a night on the town after a recent breakup, or she's turned on as hell. Whatever the reason, you just happened to luck out big town.

2. You're great at body language 

You spent the day communicating with her, not just with your words, but with what your mama gave you. That's right, body language if done right can make a woman ready.

3. You're who she's into 

Yeah, I know. Shocker. Hold on to your butts. Etc. If a woman's into you, she's eager at the prospect of having sex with you. Sometimes it's just that simple. 

4. You're good at flattery 

If you've been complimenting her in a non-creepy way, she's sure to be feeling more relaxed and at ease which makes letting go and enjoying a bedroom romp that much more likely. 

5. You've got a body she digs

Sometimes a woman likes you, sometimes she likes your body. I'm not saying you've got to have a six pack, whatever your body type is, if she's into it, she's into it and that's hot. 

6. You're a good kisser

Nothing makes a woman more open to the idea of sleeping with a guy than his abilities as a kisser. Kisses are the only insight you get into a guy's potential bedroom prowess, after all. A good one is worth its weight in gold. And sex. 

7. You're someone she wants to demonstrate affection towards

That might sound kind of cold, but demonstrating how much we care about someone through affection is a definite reason women decide to have sex. It doesn't mean we're not totally into it, either.

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8. You're great at giving her space

Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Give her room to miss you and she's more likely to be ready for a hot sex session when next you meet.

9. You're great at talking about sex

If you're adept at talking about sex without coming off like a creep (again, lack of creepiness in general is a great rule) it can absolutely inspire a woman to feel more turned on and eager to hit the hay. 

10. You're consistent 

You're in a good mood, you're trustworthy, she doesn't expect you to lose your cool at any moment, these things make a woman feel safe and calm and when she feels safe and calm wanting to jump is not far behind. 

11. You're in the right environment 

When it comes to feeling sexy, the mood is everything. If you're some place with a romantic vibe, be on high alert, the vibe of a place can work wonders on a woman's sex drive. 

12. You've made her curious 

Women go through periods in their life of intense sexual exploration. If you find yourself with a woman who is keen to play and explore, this could be exactly what's got her so turned on. 

13. You're their when she's NOT game for sex

You call her when you know her day has been rough, you send her playful texts throughout the week, you're there for her in a non-sexual way which makes you even more attractive to her. 

14. You're good at a scare 

Taking her on a roller coaster or to see a scary movie, these are all things that will get her blood pumping and turn her on, plus these activities are also fun.

Rebecca Jane Stokes is the pop culture editor at Newsweek and a writer focused on love and relationships.