7 Ways To Truly Love A Scorpio Woman

She's sexy and mysterious, but don't f*ck with her heart.

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Scorpio women often get a bad rep for being a vindictive zodiac sign. People say that you can't trust them, but I'm going to debunk some of those myths right now.

Scorpio women are sensitive, intelligent people who are also loyal lovers... until you cross them. They're often beautiful and mysterious. But let's find out more about loving a Scorpio woman.

1. Do not call her intense. Ever.

Scorpio women are passionate people. Don't ever call a Scorpio woman intense unless you want to get verbally punched in the face. If a Scorpio woman is mad, she will eviscerate you with her words.


But Scorpios aren't are scary as they seem; they're actually wonderfully loyal people who happen to be extremely sexually attractive.

2. Let her open up to you.

Scorpios thrive on being mysterious. It's part of their appeal. Sometimes they don't even realize that they're doing it. They love their privacy and relish their alone time. This is because they're profoundly sensitive and need time to decompress.


Give her some space to be herself and open up to you on her own time. When she wants to discuss something with you, you should listen without being forceful.

3. Remain loyal and keep your word.

A Scorpio woman will always have your back, but never f*ck with her lover or her friends. She will take you down. She expects the same level of loyalty from you, so please don't cheat on her or break her heart. 

And if you plan on breaking up with her, have the courtesy to do it in person and not over a text message. Are we clear on that?

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4. Let her take control in the bedroom.

Scorpio women love sex and they love to take control in the bedroom. If she wants to do it her way, let her roll with that. You will not be disappointed. But remember: don't leave her unsatisfied in the bedroom. You need to make her orgasm or you aren't done.


5. Listen to her — really, truly listen — when she's angry.

Sometimes Scorpios can have a temper. When they get angry they might sound scary, but they're just expressing their feelings, which can feel overwhelming to those around them. Let her sound off until she feels like she's gotten it all out.

6. Don't take her cutting words personally.

On the same note, when she's mad at you, she will say things that are hurtful (and filled with truth), but she didn't mean them to come out so harshly. People say things that they don't mean in anger all the time.

7. She's strong as hell, but she still needs you to be there for her (even if she doesn't ask for it).

Scorpios are strong. They're often proud about asking for help, but when she does ask you to be there for her because something hard is happening in her life, you better make sure your ass is there. Scorpio women are amazing friends and lovers, so treat them as such.


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Sarah Fader is the CEO and Founder of Stigma Fighters, a non-profit organization that encourages individuals with mental illness to share their personal stories. She is an author and blogger, having been featured on Psychology Today, The Huffington Post, HuffPost Live, and Good Day New York.