What Really Turns Guys On
By Sean Jameson. Posted on .
If you are serious about improving your love life as well as surprising your man in the bedroom, then it's obviously a good idea to find out what turns him on. The thing is that different guys get turned on by different things.
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Some guys love to be the dominant partner in bed, while others like to be totally submissive. Most however like both: sometimes being the dominant partner, sometimes being the more submissive partner.
As well as being either dominant or submissive, there are literally 100's of different kinks and fetishes that your man might get incredibly turned on by. He might love to see you dress up in sexy, skimpy clothing or he might like when you dress up as his favorite video game character or maybe he likes nothing more than when you lick his toes. There really is hundreds of different fetishes.
As there is such a variation to what a guy gets turned on by, I'm going to split up this article into 2 sections. The first is going to cover all the usual things that turn on 99% of guys. The second part will cover how to find out your man's specific kinks and fetishes. Let's start with the usual things that turn guys on.
A Dirty Mouth - I'm not talking about having dirt in your mouth, I mean talking dirty to your man. It's a really great way to turn your man on. There are ton of different ways to talk dirty to your man depending on what you are most comfortable with.
You can take the wild route by being really explicit and descriptive when talking dirty to your man, by basically saying the most nasty, trashy things you can think of. Doing this when you are both alone will make sex way hotter for both of you.
But you can take the complete opposite route when talking dirty too. If you want, you can be really 'polite' and not explicit at all. Here are a few examples of being 'polite' with your dirty talk.
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- When I get you back to your room, I'm going to give you something you've only ever dreamed of.
- I bet that no matter how hard you try, you can't guess what color bra I'm wearing.
- If I didn't have to go to work today, I'd totally spend the whole day in bed with you.
Tell Him What You Like - Telling your man what you like and enjoy him doing in bed serves 2 purposes. It lets him know what techniques and positions get you off the most while at the same time it massages your man's ego in a subtle way. By the way, if you are looking for 100's of different sex tips & techniques, the you may be interested in this site here.
*Massaging your man's ego is an incredibly powerful thing you can do when finding out what turns men on. So if you like him making love to you in a certain position or using a certain technique or kissing you in a certain way, then let him know. But don't just say, 'I like that'. Describe in detail what it is about it that turns you on. As much detail as possible.
