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7 Reasons Why You Have a Fear of Love
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7 Reasons Why You Have a Fear of Love

You may have been Hurt in your childhood by care providers Wounded by parents’ inability to love you Rejected due to incompatibility with the other person Exhibited some behavior unconsciously that was off-putting Shunned due to bad timing as your intended just ended a relationship or isn’t ready to start something new Turned down as there are other things going on in their life e.g. work

Abusive Relationships: When To Breakup & Leave For Good
Leaving might make you miss his smile, but if you're really honest? You miss yours more.
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I'm Giving Up On You: Leaving For Good

Bad or abusive relationships are so hard to leave, but to protect your heart, you have to be strong enough to walk away. Learn when and how to leave him for the last time.

Infidelity: Your Cheating Spouse Is Trying To Tell You Something!
Your heart may be broken, but understanding the cheater could save your marriage.
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Your Cheating Spouse Is Trying To Tell You Something!

Infidelity is often an expression of unhappiness with a relationship. In some important ways, the cheater's needs are not being met, and his or her affair is an attempt to communicate that. Before you get upset, listen to what is being said.

Resolving a Lack of Closure in a Relationship
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Resolving a Lack of Closure in a Relationship

I often work with clients whose partner left suddenly, and the lack of closure can be challenging. Sandra asks: "I've read that anything that pushes an emotional button in you is a signal that you are operating from a limited perspective. My partner left six months ago for someone else. It still hurts when I think about her and imagine what it would be like to see her again.

3 Signs That It’s Time to Break-Up
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3 Signs That It’s Time to Break-Up

Are you debating on a break-up?  Are your wishing your relationship was better than it is? Are you feeling just, generally, unfulfilled?   Don’t worry I’ve been there enough times and, to top it off, regardless of how unfulfilled I was I often felt so bad over the idea of breaking up someone that I stuck it out longer than I should have. There was this idealistic part of me that kept thinking “Maybe if we just work on X, Y, and Z this will all be okay”.  

Breakup Survival Guide
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Breakup Survival Guide

A word of caution: this guide is not meant to be put into practice all at once! However, if you will work through these steps as they feel good to you, you will recover much faster, be much stronger and your will know what you want your next relationship to look like.

The Truth Really Does Set You Free: Part 2
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The Truth Really Does Set You Free: Part 2

At 13 I met my childhood “puppy love”. His name was Aidan and he resembled the teenage version of actor Chris O’Donnell. Aidan was a competitive skier, brilliant, British, and had baby blue eyes and razor sharp smile a la actor Michael Fassbender. He was academically gift, fluent in French, socially savvy, and dressed out of a Brooks Brothers catalog.

Heartbroken By My Digital Footprint
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Heartbroken By My Digital Footprint

I want someone like Hugh. Not Mr. Jackman himself but a man like him. Every time I see an interview of Hugh and his wife it restores my faith that there are good men out there. The devoted kind in a sea of the perpetually non-committal Peter Pan types. Unfortunately, I’ll forever want someone like Hugh, as an idea. I’m fine with that. Any trust I have in someone being sincerely interested in getting to know me died thanks to the Colin Farrell doppelganger.

The Last One: For Life Yet Still Single
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The Last One: For Life Yet Still Single

My two friends who met online are getting married in June. When they deleted their profiles it was because they found their one in one another. Others are not so lucky. The stories are all different but they all led to a decision to delete and sign off from digital dating for the same reason. It just didn't work out. After a full on effort for at least a year or more the outcomes were showing a negative ROI. The smarter option is to cease and desist all experiences that reflect the law of diminishing returns. I've signed off forever.

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Hi, Pookie: Why Women Nickname The Men They Date

The author explained that she and her girlfriends often share every little detail about dating, but fail to share the most intimate detail — the man's name. For these women, not revealing the man's real name worked like a hedge against potential heartbreak and the possibility that he might "ghost," as they called it, or disappear quickly.

The Power Of Being "Grokked"
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The Power Of Being "Grokked"

In 1961, author Robert A. Heinlein coined the term "grok" in his best-selling book, "Stranger in a Strange Land". The Oxford English Dictionary defines grok as "to understand intuitively or by empathy; to establish rapport with" and "to empathize or communicate sympathetically (with)."