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Bonnie's Story - The Woman Behind Sex Butter!

Bonnie's Story - The Woman Behind Sex Butter!

See how it all began...

Hi! I’m Bonnie Gayle, Co-creator of a product called Sex Butter and a Body Liberator. My story has been an amazing road with many twists and turns along the way leading me to the conclusion that what was of the utmost importance for me was to really connect with and tap into my body fully and completely to feel totally comfortable in my skin.

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Top 5 Sexual Faux Pas

Top 5 Sexual Faux Pas

What's worse than when you’re in the heat of the moment & your partner does something so unnerving?

By Kelly Rouba, GalTime.com Since it first aired a few weeks ago, a TLC's Virgin Diaries has created quite a stir. For those who haven't seen it, the show followed the lives of several individuals hoping to meet that special someone to whom they'd finally lose their virginity. Perhaps the most captivating (in an awkward sort of way) among those interviewed was a couple on the verge of tying the knot.

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Another 9 Things I Wish I Learned In Sex Ed—Part 3 of 4 [EXPERT]

Another 9 Things I Wish I Learned In Sex Ed—Part 3 of 4 [EXPERT]

Other than sex ed from The Silent Scream, what else is there to learn about sex and sexuality?

I was probably 11 or 12 when I watched a video called “The Silent Scream” in primary school (or grade school in the U.S.). It is a documentary video which depicts the abortion process via ultrasound and shows an abortion taking place in the uterus. During the abortion process, the presenter dramatically paused the video as the 11-week fetus opens its mouth in the uterus – in what appeared to be an outcry of pain and discomfort – and went, “There, there, there is the silent scream!”

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Is It Time To Get Your Sexy Back? [EXPERT]

Is It Time To Get Your Sexy Back? [EXPERT]

The payoff for a good, healthy sex life is enormous, both for yourself and your relationship.

While sexual intimacy only takes up about 10 percent of a relationship in terms of time and energy, the payoff for a good sex life is tenfold, both for yourself and your relationship. But for many, the quality of their sex life is the first thing that starts to wan once they have settled in for a long haul. Maybe this is because the novelty has worn off; maybe this is because you’ve run out of new positions and ideas; maybe this is because it gets easy to take for granted that your mate will be there tomorrow if you have more energy or desire then.

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How to "Train" Your Man In Bed [EXPERT]

How to "Train" Your Man In Bed [EXPERT]

Find out why acting like his sex teacher is one of the biggest mistakes you can make...

Most of us women secretly wish for something we’re not getting in bed, and while wishing is important, it doesn’t often get your message through to your man. If you want to teach a man how to make love to your body and heart, you need to understand two key things to succeed. The first, is how to talk to a man about sex (in the right way), and the second is how to express your feminine vulnerability.

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The next night you have free, why not curl up with a steamy, erotic story?

Want A More Intense, Intimate & Fulfilling Sex Life? [EXPERT]

Here are five hot reasons why women (and men!) need to read erotic romantic literature!

Have you ever heard of 'bibliotherapy?' I've been a practitioner for years, but I never heard this fancy word until recently. Bibliotherapy is an academic term used to describe the amazingly beneficial (and very delightful!) mind/body reactions that occur from reading erotic romantic literature. In fact, sex therapists are advising their female patients to get busy and start reading erotic romance! Yay!

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Men and women agree: kissing is the best form of foreplay.

The Type Of Sex That All Men Love

One-hundred percent of men love when you "get into it" in bed, and other Tokii survey findings.

It's not often you read survey results to see that all men agreed on something. But those surveys must not have been asking about mind-blowing sex.

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