How To Have A Tantric Sex Experience That Will Blow Both Of Your Minds

Your kundalini won't know what hit it!

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Tantra goes all the way back to the ancient language of Sanskrit which is originally from India and offers sensual and enlightening terminology. The beginnings go back as far as 1500 BC, with writings concentrated on philosophical issues and ritualistic teachings such as the well-known Kama Sutra, a sexual manual from the 14th century.

The term “Sanskrit" is derived from “Samskrta” which means “adorned, cultivated, perfected." Sanskrit has been maintained as the literary language of the priestly, learned, and cultivated castes of India.


The name “Yab-Yum” is an ancient Sanskrit term that defines the classical, heart-to-heart position of Tantric lovemaking.

In this position, both partners are seated upright, with the woman on top of the man. The main consideration is that the spine must be relatively straight so that the spinal energy of the Kundalini (sexual force) can travel unimpeded and a cosmic circuit can be created between lovers.

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When a couple comes into union consciously, they move their energy simultaneously and the Yab-Yum position draws the partners into an “auric egg” or circle of eternal union.


Sanskrit Words You Need To Know To Have Satisfactory Tantric Sex

Below are 21 Sanskrit words that can be used when exploring Tantra and Tantric Sex.

1. Tantra

The ancient yoga originating in India that trains one in the ways of weaving and transforming sexual energy into altered states and awakening to enlightenment, thus carrying sexuality to unfathomable heights and depths.

2. Amrita

This term means nectar of the Gods. It is the female ejaculatory fluid that flows from the urethra of some women during orgasm.

Some people believe this fluid to have mystical powers; ancient tribes used it to make healing balms and aphrodisiacs.

3. Aura

The energetic field layers around the body, seen by some in varying colors and noticeable as a warm, fuzzy — sometimes mildly electrical — energy to the open hand as the hand moves closer to the body.


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4. Auric Egg

This is the energy field created by a man and woman in the Yab-Yum position of lovemaking, in which both partners are sitting upright and creating a circle of energy that flows evenly up and down their spines.

5. Bindu

A drop of semen.

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6. Goddess Spot

This area of female genitalia is better known as the G-Spot which was named after Ernest Grafenberg who first clinically identified it in the early 1950s. It is the fleshy area in the vaginal wall, right behind the pubic bone and between the opening of the urethra and the cervix. It swells when stimulated, and creates a heightened energy response in women.


I had zero frame of reference for what our bodies are truly capable of — and when I witnessed my partner at that time have a tantric orgasm… it downright frightened me!! To give you a glimpse without totally oversharing — I’ll say that in this first time I encountered tantric sexuality, my partner (who was using the kinds of tools and practices that I now teach inside of my online course Sexual Sovereignty…) entered an orgasmic state that — I kid you not — rolled on for THIRTY minutes, hence why I genuinely wondered if I should call for help. He laid there writhing in pleasure, trembling, moaning, and, perhaps most impressively to me, giving himself permission to surrender fully to the energetic phenomena of unleashed sexual energy flowing through his body. And he was working WITH it, allowing this orgasmic power to heal and nourish his body… He was in BLISS and I was in AWE. My astonishment quickly transformed into an enthusiastic and insatiable curiosity to discover firsthand what my own body was capable of — and so my tantric and somatic studies began & the rest is history… I’m telling you all of this because we have been taught and conditioned to settle for SO MUCH LESS than we are capable of!!!! It’s actually preposterous. Ancient and indigenous people everywhere have known of our true power. The distorted systems of power that have dominated in our modern world have PROFITTED and BENEFITTED from us living dulled and disempowered lives. Let us not forget this and allow them to lull us to sleep. In the truest sense, our freedom and sovereignty is not contingent on anything outside of us — it is something we experience and cultivate in the privacy of our own hearts. SEXUAL SOVEREIGNTY is about so much more than you experiencing mind-blowing orgasms and healing all the shame and unworthiness programming you have been taught — although this self-paced online course will give you this and so much more. It is a recognition that there will be no liberation without sexual liberation, individually OR collectively. ⚡️This week only, my online course Sexual Sovereignty is 30% OFF with the code: SOVEREIGN at check out. Valid through May 3rd!


7. Guru

The teacher or master of knowledge.

8. Hatha

The joined Sanskrit stems “ha” (meaning sun) and “tha” (meaning moon). Symbolic of the soul and body of the human being.


9. Kundalini

The creative (sexual) life-force energy at the base of the spine that, once awakened, coils upward like a snake through the electrical chakra centers awakening each aspect of the soul more fully.

If this powerful force is unleashed correctly, the kundalini energy takes sexuality out of the genital area and gives one an overall body orgasm that is fulfilling rather than draining.

10. Lingam

This means the wand of light and describes the penis.

11. Yoni

This means "the sacred space" and refers to the entire vaginal area including the clitoris and labium.

12. Maithuna

The traditional tantric ritual culminated in a sexual bio-energy exchange.

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13. Million Dollar Point

The hollow point in the perineum (between the anus and the scrotum), when pressed firmly, will block the outward flow and facilitate the upward flow of the seminal fluids. It is said that when this technique is used properly the man will “feel like a million dollars."

14. Mukh Maithun


15. Honoring



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16. Nirvana

The extinction of self-will in favor of a more blissful union with the universe is often achieved through meditation and the proper awakening of the kundalini sexual force.

17. Orgone

Bio-energy was discovered to be the life force connected to sexuality.


18. Shakti

The feminine aspect of kundalini, is kinetic energy.

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19. Shiva

The masculine aspect of kundalini, is static energy.

20. Vajra

Wand or thunderbolt, another name for the penis.

21. Mani and Padme

These two terms are very significant in male/female relations. Mani means jewel and padme means lotus. “The jewel in the lotus” is a significant eastern expression referring to a penis (jewel) inside the many folds of the lotus (vagina).


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Dr. Ava Cadell is an author, clinical sexologist, sex counselor, and founder of Loveology University. Her mission is to empower people to overcome sexual guilt and shame so they can enjoy the benefits of healthy relationships.