9 Subtle Signs You Are Quietly Becoming The Wisest Version Of Yourself
The wisest, and most authentic version of you is slowly emerging.
Khaled Ali | Unsplash Self-development and growth are not luxuries; they're a necessity for success. It actually benefits your entire life. There is no single formula to create the absolute best “you” possible. There is no switch you can press to instantly become a different person. No one can do it for you. If you want to do your personal growth, then you have to do the heavy lifting.
There are some good habits that you can put into practice to become a wiser person. Of course, to be the best, wisest version of yourself is not necessarily easy. It takes time and continuous effort. It is an ongoing process.
Everyone is born with the capability to be a better version of themselves. Once a person accepts that he/she has the power to change herself/himself, he/she is ready to start creating a successful and amazing self. Each of the following personal growth tips can be used to relate to your life.
Here are 9 subtle signs you are quietly becoming the wisest version of yourself:
1. You don't see failure as the end of the world
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If you constantly think about what other people will think about you when you fail, then stop yourself immediately. Failure is a natural process, and it is not a signal of the world ending. Realize this truth. Extremely successful people like Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, and Michael Jordan have all failed at some point in their lives.
Failure always helps us to learn valuable insights that can drive positivity to become highly successful in life. So, don’t let the fear of failure hold you back.
2. You live to please yourself rather than others
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Always live in the present moment and celebrate your small wins. Prioritize yourself. Live your life to the fullest to please yourself rather than others. Your people-pleaser role will lead you to depression, stress, and health issues. So quit pleasing people. It will help you in regaining your self-confidence.
Concepts like self-authorship, self-concordance, and emotional maturity illustrate how moving from external to internal sources of motivation is central to healthy development and well-being. Research has concluded that trying to gain worth through external approval leads to higher rates of depression, anxiety, and emotional exhaustion.
3. You surround yourself with positivity
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Positivity plays an important role in self-improvement. So always surround yourself with positive self-talk. We all do self-talk. It is a normal process, but when it includes negativity, it creates a problem. Eliminate some negative vocabulary from your life dictionary, such as but, can’t, try, should, and won’t.
A positive social and emotional environment fosters the psychological characteristics necessary for wisdom. This includes acknowledging difficult emotions instead of ignoring them, and using a range of strategies like cognitive reappraisal and humor to manage negative feelings.
4. You learn to trust yourself and take risks
Have trust in your abilities. Sometimes it’s good to take risks, such as if you have a fear of facing interviews, then go for it, face it.
Take a class, learn a new skill, and challenge whatever it is that is holding you back. Take a risk and have faith in yourself. Positivity can open doors to success for you.
According to a 2021 study, this process involves moving away from fear-based, self-protective behaviors and toward intentional, growth-oriented actions guided by self-confidence and self-knowledge. This wisdom is not just about intelligence; it is about applying expertise in a way that balances self-interest with the well-being of others.
5. You learn something creative every day
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When was the last time you did something creative or something that you actually love to do? Do it. It will create a positive impact on your life. Also, try to learn something that can help you become a better version of yourself and would have an optimistic effect on your work, life, or study.
Studies show that creative activities increase positive mood and a sense of flourishing. In one study, participants reported higher energy and happiness on days following more creative activity.
6. You understand the importance of associating with good people
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Always surround yourself with positive, great people. They will help you in all ways to bring out your best. It is one of the most important steps that you can take for your personal growth and improvement.
Commit to surrounding yourself with only amazing people who constructively help you. By actively associating with and observing great people, individuals learn to step outside their own limited perspective and view problems from a broader, more differentiated viewpoint.
7. You say yes to life
When life gives you an amazing opportunity, go for it. Don’t wait for other people to say “yes” to life with you. Start living your own. Sometimes you feel like quitting while working on your dream.
But, remind yourself of all the great things that you already have and all the great things that are coming into your life. Keep that excitement level high about your work and life. Always be thankful for the amazing life that you have.
8. You fully accept yourself
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Love yourself just as you are. This self-love will only support your process of becoming the best version of yourself. Always remember no one in the world is perfect and will never be.
So, take a deep breath and say “I love myself” and see how that feels. We can never do our personal growth if we constantly put ourselves down. So, be thankful, learn to forgive, and love yourself. It doesn’t make you selfish. It makes you indestructible.
9. You make the best impression you can
Wearing the right attire elevates your self-confidence and helps you gain the attention of others. Confidence is the key to success, and it helps you in putting your best foot forward.
If appropriate dressing can build your confidence level and lead you to success, then what are you waiting for? Go for it. You can read every day about how to be a better version of yourself, but it’s no alternative to actually doing the work.
If you want to be a better person in some way, don’t waste your time. Start it right away. Nobody else can do it for you. The effort has to come from within you, and you have to stick with it.
The fact is that there is no “best” version of yourself: only “better.” So, follow the above-discussed tips and keep getting better — your future self will definitely thank you for it.
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