The Art Of Being Desirable: 5 Simple Habits Of Naturally Desirable Women
They don't chase attention to try to prove their worth.
Pablo Merchan Montes | Unsplash Desirability is not about having the perfect body or the right clothes. The women who appear naturally desirable have nurtured a way of life that makes them genuinely magnetic to others. They have a collection of habits they've practiced over time to be more aligned with their authentic selves.
If you've ever wondered what separates women who naturally attract the right people from those who struggle for attention, these simple habits hold the answer.
Here are 5 simple habits of naturally desirable women:
1. She takes care of herself
If you want to be treated right, don't wait around for someone else. Start by treating yourself well right now. From massage to mani-pedis, Reiki healing to bubble baths with candles, do something special for yourself because you deserve it!
The act of self-care improves self-esteem. Research from 2022 states that practicing self-care can lead to improved well-being and lower morbidity, mortality, depression, and anxiety.
2. She loves to learn
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Have you ever wanted to learn how to paint, speak French, or study ancient history? Trying something new is invigorating. Leading a rich and exciting life helps you feel more confident about who you are and what you have to offer the opposite gender.
3. She's kind to herself
Many women berate themselves for every little mistake. But how often do you praise yourself for a job well done?
For working out like you promised or maintaining poise when you wanted to scream? Be kind and encourage yourself. Positive self-talk is a wonderful skill that builds confidence. Psychology states that positive self-talk can lead to improved self-esteem, decrease depression and anxiety, and even help you achieve your goals.
4. She has goals and takes steps to achieve them
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If you're putting off dating or meeting new people, try taking small steps. Join a group, browse online dating apps, or tell a friend you want to be fixed up.
Each step brings you closer to the love you want and boosts your self-esteem. And if you're not entirely ready for a relationship yet, don't sweat it. This is the time to date multiple people, realize what you like and don't like, and, of course, have fun.
5. She's grateful for what she has
Being grateful for what is going well in your life helps you remember that you are already successful in many ways. According to research from Harvard University, regularly giving thanks can even make you happier.
These positive thoughts about your life build self-confidence and help you reach your goals. Start a gratitude ritual by journaling what you are grateful for or saying your list aloud upon waking or before falling asleep.
Ronnie Ann Ryan is an Intuitive Coach, Past Life Reader, and author of six books. She’s the creator of the free audio course How to Ask the Universe for a Sign and Get an Answer Within 24 Hours and the host of the popular metaphysical podcast Breathe Love & Magic. She's been published on ABC, BBC, and NPR.
