Women With These 3 Rare Traits Are Irresistible To Men, According To Psychology
They don't chase, play games, or pretend to be someone they're not.
yankrukov | Pexels Healthy boundaries, confidence, self-esteem, and softness, an irresistible woman knows how to rock his world mentally, physically, and emotionally. Her inexplicable mystery and intricate personality break through his walls and boundaries.
She is an enchantress who leaves men feeling helpless to their desires for her attention and affection. Research from the American Psychological Association (APA) describes her understanding of the "processes underlying desire evolved in the context of mating, whereas the processes underlying romantic love, or pair bonding, originally evolved in the context of infant-caregiver attachment."
Here are three rare traits women have that are irresistible to men, according to psychology:
1. An exceptional personality
A highly desirable woman can carry on conversations, is talented, and has her views on life. Men can learn something from her, and that is why she is never dull to be around.
Have some passion for life and the world around you, and don't be afraid to speak up about it! Talk about the latest book you’ve read or your latest travel experience. Talk about things other than the mundane details of your relationship.
There is more to life. Engage him by showing the colorful layers of your life and the world. Be a woman of substance. A 2006 study showed "individuals sought mates who were matches of themselves to some degree but also sought mates who were somewhat higher in conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and mate value, but lower in neuroticism than themselves.
2. Godess-level confidence
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A desirable woman fully owns her sensuality. She is aware of her erogenous zones and is not ashamed to guide him there. What's more, she can revel in pure, heavenly pleasure without feelings of guilt or insecurity.
Knowing that many men connect through intimacy, a goddess shows him a whole new world, allowing for a transcendental experience that is sure to ruin him for any other lover. Studies from the APA found that "people with higher implicit desire experienced more intimacy, were more responsive to their partner, and perceived their partners felt more desire, arousal, and intimacy." So the next time you're intimate with your guy, don't hold back.
3. A bewitching sense of mystery
A highly desirable woman knows the art of bewitching, which gives her the upper hand in the relationship. She can make a man believe he is the one in charge when in reality, she rules his world. This aligns with a 2020 study that showed "women who desired more power in their relationships reported less commitment and had male partners who were less committed to the relationship as well."
She abides by her own rules and no one else's. Yet she gets what she wants from a man in her way, not through reactive words, but through radical actions. She appears soft and graceful on the outside, but is strong and independent on the inside. She knows that at any time she has a choice — either to take him or leave him — and this gives her a source of inner power.
A highly desirable woman is the perfect mix of sugar and spice, naughty and nice. That's why desirable women, who also exhibit high-quality traits, get their eternal desire and commitment.
Gem Villamin is a love, dating, and life coach, and a feminine energy healer. She specializes in helping women attract love and heal broken relationships.
