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Trigger his desire.
By Esther Bilbao — Written on Sep 19, 2019
If you're wondering how to get a guy to like you, look no further than these simple pieces of dating advice that will build attraction between the two of you.
So here’s the scenario. There’s this guy that you really like and you are falling in love with him pretty fast. You are eager to know if he feels the same way about you so you can start dating and live happily ever after.
Well, actually, you are just hoping that he's at least attracted to and feels the same way about you.
But, figuring out how to make him want you and chase you is easier said than done. You can’t control how a man feels about you, but there are things that you can do or say that could activate his attraction to you.
Being physically attractive is not the only grounds to make a man like you. Instead, there are effective techniques that you can do to trigger a man’s desire and make him actually crave you.
With that said, here are 5 attraction and dating tips to get a guy to like you.
1. Compliment him
Giving compliments help boost the confidence of a person. Receiving compliments can also make a person feel valued, plus, it creates a positive relationship.
Men like to hear compliments. One kind of compliment you can give to men is that you believe and support them.
Most men are goal-driven and hearing those words from you would definitely make them melt because they feel that their efforts are being noticed and appreciated. They will also feel that they have someone like you who will help them and cheer them on towards achieving their goal.
2. Make him feel wanted and needed
Being in love with him may make you need. But, I’m not saying that you should be needy. Being needy sounds like you’re too desperate to get all of his attention.
Men want to feel that they are superheroes, that they can fix everything and protect anyone, especially those who are important to them.
When a man feels that he is needed, you are also making him feel like a real man. You are giving him a sense of purpose, and he will definitely feel good about himself.
Make him feel needed by asking for help with something you know he can use his masculinity — like carrying heavy things for you or asking to reach things that you cannot reach and not rejecting the help he offers you.
3. Laugh at his jokes
Laughter paves the way for romance. Women like men who have a good sense of humor, while men like women who laugh at their jokes.
A scientific explanation about this is that a man uses his wits when making jokes that are really funny. Therefore, a man who can pull off a funny joke is associated with having a healthy brain or being smart.
When you laugh at his jokes, he feels good about himself. He will start seeing you as a fun person, and because of that, he wants to be around you more.
4. Make him miss you
Although you love spending your time with him, you should have some time apart to make him miss you.
There are many ways to make a man miss you. When a woman is interested in a man, she usually responds to his messages right away. Stop. If you are always replying to his messages or inevitably answering his call, you are just showing him that you are always available.
Most men like a good chase because they love challenges. Being naturally competitive, men will do what they can do just to win a woman that is hard to get.
For men, it's like winning a lottery and winning something they have worked hard for is an ego-booster.
5. Have patience
Rushing love, or trying to lock things down with a guy and start a relationship can lead to a disaster. You can’t make a man fall in love with you instantly, and sometimes it does not happen at all.
Your patience will save you from disappointments. You will also provide him time to process what he is feeling about you and if he is ready to enter into a relationship.
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Esther Bilbao is a mentor to women so they can have better relationships, health, and personal development. Get dating advice that could change your life with her “Relationship Ready: Meet And Attract Your Perfect Life Partner” course.