2 Techniques That'll Give Any Woman The Strongest Orgasm Of Her Life


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You probably already know that the intensity of a woman's orgasm can vary wildly... and it's one of our greatest advantages as guys.

We can give women light, playful orgasms that make the hairs on her skin stand while she giggles and squeals. We can give them deep, full-body orgasms that start in her hips and send pulsating waves of pleasure down to her toes and back again.

And we can give her a wild variety of others in between.


What you’re about to learn is the best way to make a woman come hard and give her the strongest orgasms her body is capable of having.

I call it multiple edging orgasms. It’s a simple way of combining two of the best orgasm intensifying techniques you’ll ever use, into one sex life-altering move that will leave her breathless and wondering which way is up.

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Here are those 2 techniques separately, then I'll tell you how to combine them together so you can give any woman the strongest orgasm of her life.

How To Give Her The Best Orgasm Of Her Life

1. The Edging Orgasm

Edging is bringing your woman to the brink of orgasm and then stopping right before it happens. Once the impending orgasm is gone, you start over and build it back up.

Each time you do this, the intensity of her orgasmic potential grows. The more you edge, the harder she comes!

There are two ways to edge a woman.

You can bring her to the brink of orgasm and then stop touching her "orgasm zone" completely (so if you’re giving her a clitoral orgasm using your fingers, you would completely remove your hand and stop all contact with her clit while you stimulate her breasts or kiss her).


Or you can bring her to the brink of orgasm and then keep the stimulation going but drastically decrease its speed and pressure. Once the orgasm is no longer close, start over and build it up again.

Most guys get so excited when their woman is on the verge of a climax that they would never even think of stopping or slowing down… but if you want to be one of the rare men who’s known as "the best she’s ever had" … you know you need to do something different than other guys and this is it.

2. The Multiple Orgasm Technique

Her first orgasm is always the weakest. But, the more she comes, the stronger (and easier) each orgasm gets. So give her multiple orgasms.

Give her the same type of orgasm multiple times. For example, you can give her multiple clitoral orgasms one after another. Keep in mind that when a woman has a clitoral orgasm, her clit will get so sensitive that if you keep touching it, it can start to hurt.


This makes a lot of women believe that they can’t have multiple orgasms. But they can. All women can. By giving her a little time to recuperate and then slowly building the pressure up again with a much lighter technique, you can make her come again a second time.

You can also try giving her different types of orgasms, one after another. For example, you can use your mouth and tongue to give her a clitoral orgasm and then use your fingers to give her a g-spot orgasm while her clit "cools down".

By the time she has that g-spot orgasm, her clit (and your tongue) will have recovered and they’ll be ready for a second round.

Give your girl this style of multiples and you’ll notice they start happening much quicker. You can actually get to the point where one orgasm starts before the last is completely done. They start blending together and seem like one giant, never-ending orgasm.


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This, my erotically gifted friend, is how you make a girl come for 10, 20 even 30 minutes and when you combine these two techniques, you can make her come hard!

To pull off multiple edging orgasms, try this technique (it's my favorite), but feel free to play around with it and find your own.

Have your girl lie on her back with a pillow under her pelvis. Being on her back allows the muscles in her body to relax so she can come easier while the pillow tilts her pelvis and makes her "orgasm zones" more accessible to you.

Next, spread her legs and edge her to a clitoral orgasm using your fingers. Remember, don’t let her come yet! Stop before she does and move on to stimulating her g-spot with your fingers. Once she’s on the brink of a g-spot orgasm, stop and don’t let her finish.


Now head back to her clit and edge her to the brink of orgasm with your favorite oral technique. Then return to g-spot stimulation but this time give it to her through penetration. Place her legs up over your shoulders and thrust back and forth. Because of the angle created by the pillow, you’ll be thrusting directly into her g-spot.

Edge her once again and return to clitoral stimulation.

Clitoral orgasms are usually the easiest for women to achieve so whenever I’m edging multiple orgasms, I usually let her have a clitoral orgasm first. Remember, once she has that first orgasm, the next becomes much easier and take a lot less time to achieve.


While she’s recuperating from her clitoral climax, give her a g-spot orgasm. It’ll take less and less time for her to come with every orgasm you give her until the point where one starts happening before the last is done.

This is how you make a woman lose count of how many times she comes and the only thing she can tell you for sure is that you are the best she’s ever had!

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Nick Hardwick is a sex expert who provides advice for men and women looking to improve their intimacy and sex lives.