17 Sexy Phrases Guaranteed To Get Him Hot & Bothered

In or out of the bedroom!

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Having a large repertoire of sexy, dirty phrases you can use with your man is important if want to keep things exciting both inside and outside of the bedroom.

It's even been scientifically proven that dirty talk works to increase sexual pleasure and arousal in both men and women.

Sure, it can feel a little weird when you're first learning how to talk dirty. But the more you experiment with it — and the more example of sexy things to say to a guy that you find — the more you'll feel comfortable with talking dirty.


And I can pretty much guarantee that you'll love the way your boyfriend or husband reacts to it ...

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If you really want to know how to be sexy and turn a guy on, below are some of the best examples of dirty talking phrases you can use on the man in your life — whether you're together in bed, sexting him some naughty text messages, talking dirty on the phone or over FaceTime, or walking down a crowded street.


Examples of sexy dirty talk phrases to turn him on in bed:

1. "You feel so good on top of me."

2. "Just hearing you breath in my ear sends shivers down my spine."

3. "I love just touching your body. It feels incredible."

4. "I wish we could just stay in bed forever."

5. "Just like that!"

6. "Faster!"

7. "I love being your little minx in the bedroom."

8. "I want to taste you."

9. "Keep doing that."

10. "You're going to put me over the edge."

11. "You're making me so turned on."

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When you're not in bed, you can use dirty talk much more subtly and discreetly to build sexual tension and also keep your man thinking about you for hours and hours, ;rather than just instantly turning him on like with you would using the previous dirty talk phrases.


Try these examples to build sexual tension with your man by sending sexy texts or whispering in his ear in the middle of a crowded restaurant.

Sexy dirty talk phrases and sexting examples to turn him on outside of the bedroom:

12. "I can't wait until we're alone, I've got a special surprise for you!"

13. "Seeing you in those jeans is making me want to jump you."

14. "If we weren't out in public, I would be doing some very naughty things to you right now!"

15. "I wish we could just leave this party/movie theater/concert and go somewhere private. I am just too horny!"

16. "Don't look at me like that, you know it turns me on."

17. "You know I wore this skirt/these jeans just for you."


As you can see, the first group of dirty talk examples were all about turning your man on in the moment so that sex is hotter, while the second group is all about building sexual tension with your man to keep him thinking about you and wondering what you have planned for him later on.

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If you're new to this and are just learning how to talk dirty, there are a few crucial things you must know about talking dirty to a man to make it work.


This is simply because there is just no point in learning the words if you don't know how to use them properly.

Before you start following these examples for sexting and talking dirty to a guy, you must know these two things:

1. You have to be confident.

When talking dirty to your man, you are going to find that you have a lot more success at turning your man on and building sexual tension if you do it confidently. So the next time you talk dirty to your man, make sure to speak slowly and clearly in a way that accentuates the meaning of the actual words.

The last thing you want to do is stutter the words or say them incredibly fast or in a weird tone. My advice is to practice these dirty talking phrases a few times to yourself before you actually use them on your man.


2. You need to know where to do it

Where you talk dirty is just as important. When you are both in bed together, then you are going to talking dirty in a way that to enhances love making for both of you. But when you are together in a public place where nothing can happen, then you are going to be talking dirty in a way that builds sexual tension. So the things that you will be saying to your man will be quite different in each case.

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Sean Jameson is a sex expert and founder of the Bad Girl's Bible website, where you can learn advanced techniques to improve your sex life. If you want to learn more dirty phrases like these, you'll find them in his detailed video tutorial.