10 Things The Most Irresistible Women Do (& Don't Do!) To Make Men Fall In Love

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10 Do's And Don't For How To Be Cool, Attract Men & Get A Guy To Like You

Did you know that most men decide if a woman is "girlfriend material" within a few seconds of meeting her?

That's right — if you don't know how to attract men and create the right first impression, then you just might get thrown into the "just a friend" category for good.

That's why, in order to become even more irresistible and learn how to get a boyfriend, knowing what causes a man to be attracted to you on a deeper level from the get-go is a critical first step.

The good news is, figuring out how to get a guy to like you is easier than it sounds. You can learn how to be cool and have him hooked right away with just a few simple pointers.

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Men think of women as relationship material — or a "cool girl" — when they see that a woman understands something that other women can't even see going on.

"Cool girls" exude a positive emotional energy that men can relate to and end up falling in love with. They're "naturally" the kind of woman who every man is inexplicably drawn to, even if they don't look like a supermodel.

To know how to attract men and get a guy to like you, here are 10 pieces of dating advice that will make you one of those irresistible "cool girls" men can't help but fall in love with.

  1. They don't exaggerate about what's going on around them or what a man's doing unless they're doing it as a joke or to make fun of a man in a playful way.
  2. They don't say everything that they're feeling and experiencing. They think before they speak.
  3. They don't mention bad situations, issues, or problems from the past unless it's a total "must" or extremely important and they haven't been able to talk about it yet. They find the right time for them and their man to talk. Otherwise, cool girls live in the present moment.
  4. Cool girls don't try to force a man to talk about his feelings. They know that it will only backfire and he'll think she's being needy and he'll close off.
  5. They choose not to complain or talk about things for too long that are not other people's responsibility or impossible for anyone to solve given the current situation.

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  6. They bring funny, positive thoughts and feelings to situations to create an experience that men will want to have again and again.
  7. They're willing to go with the flow when it comes to social things but make assertions when they have opinions and ideas.
  8. They have options and things to do that keep them satisfied so they don't feel like they're left out if they're not invited to something. And even if they do, they certainly don't complain about it or even mention it — they find something to do that makes them happy rather than moping about it.
  9. These cool girls prefer that a man makes up his own mind; they don't try to make a man do something or pressure him into a situation he doesn't want.
  10. They know that the way they feel and talk about themselves is how men will feel about them, so they make sure they're positive and uplifting toward themselves.

So, are you a "cool girl?" Are you the kind of woman that men are "naturally" drawn to and want to be with for more than just a fling?

Now that you know how to get a boyfriend, you'll know how to say all the right things — verbally and non-verbally. In this way, you can instantly let him know that you're the kind of girl he'd like to connect with and fall in love with.

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