How To Tell If You're "The One" For Him, By Zodiac Sign

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How To Tell If A Guy Likes You, For All Zodiac Signs
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It seems like it only happens in movies, but there are times in real life when someone looks at someone they’re dating, and thinks, “Yep, that’s the one.”

All of a sudden, hearts show up in their eyes and angels with harps fly above their head. Crazy, right?

Obviously, I mean this all figuratively, but there are instances when you just know that someone is right for you.

That’s the one you want to spend time with – maybe not marry, maybe not move in together, but certainly someone you want in your life.

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And if you’ve ever been at a crossroads trying to figure out how to make someone feel the same way about you as you feel about them, then you know how stressful it can be.

How do you woo someone and make them want to date you?

How do you let them know that the only reason you’re being so assertive is because you want them to be interested in you and not someone else?

You can read all sorts of love articles and try to look to astrology to help you out, but in the end, it’s all about being yourself and letting your own magic work for you.

When you like someone, you already know how you feel inside and how you act around them.

Maybe you get butterflies, maybe your mouth goes dry, but there are those little triggers that let you know that this is real.

Needless to say, you know your body best, and you know what it’s like when you like someone.

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The same cannot be said when you’re trying to figure out how someone else feels for you. How are you supposed to know that he’s blushing because he likes you?

Maybe he just blushes really easily around everyone. Is he always that touchy and playful around people or are you special?

*Cue internal groaning trying to figure this all out*

You don’t have to have me tell you just how special you are and what a total catch you would be to someone who is looking for someone cool and fun to date.

You already know it! That said, it is always nice to hear someone list all your amazing traits anyway, especially when you’re trying to figure out what it is exactly that makes you such a catch.

He might be showing some interest in you right now, but before you can know for sure when the right tie to make your move is, here are some ways to answer the question, “What makes him think you’re the one he wants?” according to astrology.

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

Aries thinks that you’re the one he wants because you’re consistently real with him. There’s no putting on airs or pretending to be someone you think he wants, and he respects you all the more for it.

Aries sometimes has a hard time committing to one person at a time, but when you keep it real with him, it makes him feel all the more connected to you.

When you’re so real with him, it makes him more authentic around you, too. Rather than try to act like someone else just to keep up the chase or flirt with you, he’s much more down to earth.

There’s not a lot of people that can bring out this side of Aries, so it’s easy to see why he feels so strongly about you.

TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

When Taurus dates, he looks for love – not a one night stand or something casual. For him, dating is a way for him to find the one person he can have a future with.

He thinks that you’re the one he wants because you are ready to commit to him. You don’t pull any punches, you don't lead him on, and you don’t play mind games – he’s hooked!

Taurus wants someone who can be as emotionally invested in the relationship as he is.

You hold a special place in his heart because you aren’t afraid to commit or make plans for the future. You keep things simple and straightforward, and he loves that about you.

GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

Settling down with just one person is something that can be hard for Gemini.

Not necessarily because he’s a total player who just can’t seem to stop playing the field, but because there’s something to love and adore in just about everyone he meets.

You truly have to be someone special for him to think that you’re the one he wants.

The one thing Gemini appreciates most about you, in particular, is that you make him feel comfortable about being himself.

He knows that he can be a bit quirky or even hot and cold at times, but rather than making him feel like he needs to change who he is to be with you, you let him be himself. Knowing that he’s dating someone who is able to take him as he is puts you at the top of his list.

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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

When Cancer first has feelings for someone, he can be a little reserved and shy.

While some people might think that he’s just not interested in them, he’s really just taking things slow until he knows for sure how he feels about you (and you about him).

You need to show Cancer that you’re willing to make as much of an effort for the relationship as him.

The reason Cancer thinks that you’re the one he wants is because you make time for him.

Even when things get hectic in life, you make an effort to call or text him, spend time with him, and show him that he’s an important part of your life.

You don’t leave any questions about the relationship, and he never feels like he’s in the dark with you. These efforts might seem small, but they make a world of difference to Cancer.

LEO (July 23 - August 22)

Leo is a super confident zodiac sign, which can scare a lot of people away as much as it can intrigue people.

When Leo dates someone, he does it because he wants to, not because he feels like he needs to be with someone.

The reason Leo feels like you’re the one he wants is because you don't need him, but you still want him.

By that, I mean that you’re confident and independent, but you still love spending time with him.

You make him feel more like your equal than someone you depend on, and he likes knowing that, while you’re okay without him, you still want him around.

VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

To Virgo, love is something that transcends the physical world. When he dates, he looks for someone who can connect with him on an emotional and mental level, not just a physical one. That’s what makes you so special.

The reason Virgo thinks that you’re the one he wants is because you have opened up to him and shown him your vulnerable side.

You’re not afraid to talk about your fears, the things that cause you pain, and the things that make you nervous about your relationship.

He feels touched to be that person you can be your authentic self around, and it makes him want to be all the more vulnerable and real for it.

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

Although it can take Libra more time than other zodiac signs to fully commit to a relationship, once he does, he’s all in.

Libra believes in love at first sight, but he also wants to know that who he’s falling for is right for him. He can be hot and cold at times, but it’s only because he wants to be extra sure of the relationship.

Libra thinks that you’re the one he wants because you make him feel comfortable. You get rid of all his “what if?” questions and instill a sense of calm in him.

He knows that whenever he’s with you, there’s no question as to the future of the relationship – he can count on you to take care of him, heart and soul.

SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

Scorpio is the kind of person who only believes in a deep love – for him, there’s no such thing as a casual hook-up.

When he dates, he does so looking for The One, even if it takes him twice as long as the other zodiac signs to let his guard down and commit fully to you.

That said, the reason Scorpio thinks that you’re the one he wants to be with is because he trusts you with his heart.

You make him feel okay with taking it slow because you have created a judgment-free zone for him to flourish in.

He knows that when he’s ready to be vulnerable that you’ll be there with open arms to make him feel welcome.

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

Sagittarius isn’t one to commit to just anyone – or anyone at all, for that matter.

He much prefers casual hook-ups and one-night stands because it means there are no strings attached, and he can leave whenever he wants.

That said, you’re different. He might not be able to put his finger on why just yet, but there’s definitely something about you that he likes.

Sagittarius thinks that you’re the one he wants because you get him to confront the things he tries to avoid.

Rather than leave when the going gets tough, he wants to stick it out and overcome his fears and commitment issues. Not everyone can do that, so you really must be something special.

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CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

A relationship is an investment to Capricorn.

He knows that there is going to be a lot of ups and downs that come with any relationship worth fighting for, but he’s not the type to give up just because things are difficult.

The reason Capricorn thinks that you’re the one he wants to be with is because you make him want to plan a future with you in it.

You inspire him to shape up for whatever the future brings, and whenever he’s with you, he can’t help but talk about what’s to come.

It might not be anything more than just a few weeks or months into the future, but you’ve still got him hooked.

AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

Anyone who is familiar with Aquarius knows that he is the rebel of the zodiac. He prefers relationships that don’t go by the rulebook.

If he feels like he’s making the rules, then he can effectively control all his emotions.

One of the reasons Aquarius needs to make his own rules in his relationship is because it’s hard for him to open up emotionally.

He’s not always comfortable getting in touch with his vulnerable side, but weirdly enough, being with you makes it seem all the less daunting.

You teach him new things every day, including how to unlock that emotional side of him in a way that feels comfortable and easy, which is a lot more important to him than he’s willing to admit.

PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

The one thing any Pisces wants in a relationship is to feel understood.

Not everyone realizes just how deep still waters run with this zodiac sign, and it’s easy to dismiss who he really is as just a case of being overemotional.

The reason Pisces feels like you’re the one he wants to be with is because you accept him for who he is.

You never try to brush his feelings aside or diminish who he is, and it makes him realize that it’s because you truly care about him as a person.

He feels like you really embrace who he is, and that touches him deeply.

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Emily Ratay is a full-time writer living in Pittsburgh. She's passionate about the environment and feminism, and knows that anything is possible in the right pair of shoes. She plans on writing a non-fiction book in the future.

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