Rejection hurts for everyone, we all know it
By Steven Hall — Written on Apr 28, 2019
When people complain that guys don't want commitment it's not really accurate.
It's really based on the kind of guy you look for. I have friends who are down for fooling around just because he's bored, he's not the kind of guy looking for commitment. If a guy is looking for the commitment he'll get more attached a lot faster than women and probably be opened to being boyfriend and girlfriend by the second or third date.
Society does tend to promote the lifestyle of open free sex. We do live in a culture that glorifies a one night stand but if you listen to even rap songs there are some guys complaining about girls not being loyal or not wanting commitment.
So if you are wondering why you are still single, or why you can't find the “right guy” then most likely you either friend zoned him or he’s still out there. Whether it was your first crush in kindergarten to your promposal failure we all have experienced rejection. We all been told no, plenty of times. Sometimes we still believe there is hope, and that can be bad for your own well being.
As someone who is more religious and conservative, I personally don't date to sleep with someone or have lunch if I'm bored. I rather just put more work into my passion. I date for marriage.
But if you have met a guy who you think may be playing games with you, using astrology, here are the signs that you should give up on the man, based on his zodiac sign.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
The guy would act optimistic. If he gives you a false sense of reality when he's not into you.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
These guys act very bluntly, they prefer to tell you to your face that they don't like you, it's not too hard to figure out.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Geminis are fickle, one moment they may act not interested then the next they are asking you out. The best sign for this if he continues to have a pattern of canceling dates.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Cancers usually act very boldly. Like Taurus, if you make a move on them and they don't feel the same way, they will be completely honest with you.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
Leo’s love human connection so they try and move away from ending any kind of contact they have. You will see Leos still trying to contact you after he said no, your best luck is to move on.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
As someone who focuses on the detail, Virgos love to talk about why don't want to be with you. Maybe not with you but one of their friends, so if you overhear something they probably aren't interested.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Libras love to be in a relationship, but if they don't like you they still want to have you in their life. Avoid the temptation cut the cord and carry on.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
Anger and fighting is second nature to any Scorpio so seeing them get annoyed or frustrated when you try and talk them is no brainer.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
People who are Sagittarius hate commitment, so usually, you're best out luck the first time they say no. Acting from a position of strength will always leave you with the best outcome.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
Capricorn always wants a new experience, so they're usually the most open to starting a relationship with someone, but if he says no then you just aren't the right road he wants to go on.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarians are wrapped in emotion, they build up walls when they don't want someone in their kingdom. If an Aquarius refuses to even speak to you then its game over.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
Pisces love to help others, so they will comfort you and make you feel good even when they say they aren't interested. Don't see it as a possible relationship in the future, it's over.
Steven Hall is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture and relationship topics.