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Wonder why guys lead you on? It's written in the stars.
By Helen Luc — Written on Oct 17, 2017
We can all agree that it sucks to get led on, but did you know that astrology and his zodiac sign might have something to do with the reason he's so tempted to flirt — but have nothing come of your relationship?
Have you ever been in a situation where someone seemed to really like you? He or she flirted with you constantly and always hinted at a possible relationship in the near future.
But then one day when you try taking your relationship with them to the next level.
He or she looks surprised and tells you that you misread all the signals and that you two are nothing more than friends. Ouch!
It’s bad enough to get rejected, but it’s definitely even worse when you were led on to believe that you had a shot with this person.
If you’ve ever been in a situation like this, you might look back, reread your horoscope, and analyze every interaction you had with this person.
You'll wonder how your intuition and gut feelings could’ve been so wrong!
Just thinking about the mixed signals drives you insane! But it’s not something actually worth spending too much time analyzing. These charmers who lead you on just think it’s fun to flirt.
More likely than not, these flirts simply want to compliment you, make you feel good, or make you feel comfortable.
Or maybe they like the idea of being with you in theory but don’t have the guts to actually follow through with it. Someone can be incredibly flirty and romantic with you, but it doesn’t always mean that a relationship will blossom out of it.
These flirts who lead you on are natural charmers who always say and do the types of things that make you swoon, but sadly, if they don’t follow up on their words, then all the flirting is pretty empty.
And once you find out that you aren't on the same page with someone, then you can move on and look for someone else who actually wants the type of relationship that you want.
If you want to find out who has a naturally flirty personality and who might be someone that just leads others on, you can look to astrology. Some zodiac signs are charmers who will lead you on without really wanting anything more.
Other zodiac signs are more straightforward about what they want.
These zodiac signs will only flirt with people they want to be in a relationship with. If you want to find out more, read on for a ranking of zodiac signs from most to least likely to lead you on.
Leo (July 23 - August 22)
Leo is a huge flirt. She’s naturally charming and has a smooth way with words.
She likes to make you feel good about yourself, so she’ll compliment you all the time.
All her sweet compliments will make you blush. But she actually doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.
She simply likes to make people feel good about themselves.
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
Sagittarius just wants to have fun! She likes to be intimate with people even when she’s not looking for a relationship.
She’ll go on tons of dates with you without wanting to enter a relationship with you.
You’ll think that she’s so into you, but in reality, she just likes to flirt and have fun.
Libra (September 23 - October 22)
Libra is naturally romantic and charming. She likes to compliment others and make people feel good about themselves.
When she’s so sweet and nice to you, you’ll assume that she’s interested in you. You may even mistake her behavior for flirting.
In reality, she’s just a charming and sweet person, but that doesn’t mean she wants to date you.
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
Taurus has a very affectionate personality. She loves to cuddle and share intimate moments with others.
When you’re dating her, she will seem incredibly warm and she will always try to be physically close to you.
Sadly, this doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to have a relationship with you. She just likes to be close to people.
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Cancer is generous and nurturing. She likes to comfort people and make others feel good.
She’ll go on dates with you and continue seeing you because she enjoys your company.
She’ll be so kind and generous to you that you’ll think she definitely wants a relationship.
Sadly, this isn’t always the case. She simply thinks it’s fun to date without the commitment of a real relationship.
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
Gemini catches feelings for people easily. She’ll get infatuated by someone after going on one date with them. Her infatuation doesn’t last long, though.
By the time the third or fourth date rolls around, you’re going to think that she’s SO into you, but she might lose interest by then.
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
Scorpio is insecure and indecisive. When it comes to dating, she has a hard time deciding whether or not to commit to someone.
If she’s even slightly interested in you, she’ll show you her affection and go on a bunch of dates with you.
This doesn’t always mean that she made up her mind on whether or not she wants to commit to you.
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
https://www.yourtango.com/aquariusAquarius can be emotionally reserved. She doesn’t let her feelings out to just anyone.
This makes her hard to read, but it also means that she reserved her feelings for people she sees herself having a future with.
If she’s being affectionate towards you, then chances are, she actually likes you. She’s not one to flirt just for fun.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
Virgo is a careful planner who stays committed to all her pursuits. She is not likely to lead you on, though.
She thinks her time is precious and she only spends it with people that she sees a real future with.
If she is flirting with you, then it means that she wants to definitely be with you.
Aries (March 21 - April 19)
Aries dives head-first into everything. Once she puts herself into something, she commits hard and does everything she can to make things work.
She’s not likely to lead you on. She only has time for people who are long-term, and she isn’t going to waste her time with you unless she wants to commit.
Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
Pisces likes to have emotionally intense relationships. She doesn’t ever flirt for fun without any intentions of having a serious relationship.
She doesn’t think that it’s worth her time to continue going on dates with someone unless there’s a real potential for something more to happen.
She’s not likely to lead you on because she wants a real relationship, not just an empty flirtationship.
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
Capricorn doesn’t waste her time with people that she doesn’t see herself having a future with.
When she commits to someone, she commits HARD. If she’s dating you and being flirty with you, it’s because she genuinely likes you.
Before you know it, she’ll be asking to turn your relationship into something more.
