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They help you to bounce back from heartbreak.
By Christine Schoenwald — Written on Mar 06, 2018
Are rebound relationships a bad idea? There are those who believe that getting into another relationship is the worst thing you can possibly do after a breakup, and that it's wrong to depend on another person to help you heal.
But for some people, having a rebound relationship is their way of coping. And for the zodiac signs who make the best rebounds after a breakup, you can be sure to get what you're looking for. Even a bad horoscope can't predict just how useful these signs are in your time of need.
There are times when you need to feel love and you don’t really care where that love comes from. Or, maybe you just want some fun with a fling. You want someone who is cool enough to just enjoy their company without trying to mold them into something permanent.
When it comes to rebound relationships, you need to be honest with the other person and yourself. If you’re using them to feel better, you need to let them know upfront. If they’re okay with it, continue; if not, you need to find someone else to help you heal.
Lots of times, we think that just being with someone will help us feel not so lonely, but often, it just makes it worse. Luckily, you can save yourself more heartache by looking at the six zodiac signs who make the best rebounds.
1. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Geminis make great rebounds because they will help you feel so much better about yourself. They won't take it personally when you feel strong enough to move on and pursue a more permanent relationship with someone.
However, you might be surprised at how much fun having a rebound relationship with a Gemini is and you might not want to let it go. Being with a Gemini will give you the ego boost that you crave. They will make you feel interesting and you'll be surprised at the how quickly you'll get your confidence back.
2. ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
Aries are great rebounds because they're going to remind you of how much life there is out there. They will help with your transition from a long-term committed relationship to being more independent and self-centered. They will remind you of how satisfying it is to challenge yourself and take risks.
Aries will help you find new passions and will remind you how much you need to laugh and enjoy your life. They won't let you sit home alone mourning your lost love; instead, they're going to make you go out and have some fun.
3. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
It's not that Sagittarius gives you a new lease on life, they just remind you that your current lease is still active and there are still adventures to be had. They'll show you what you've been missing out on and they will encourage you to get out of your comfort zone and experience things you either forgot about or never knew in the first place.
Sagittarians can help you figure out what it is you don't want in a relationship, and what you do. They are all about change and experiencing new things — and that's exactly what you need right now.
4. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Libra is the kind of person you need to help you get through the post-break-up blues. They're kind, thoughtful, and they choose their words carefully so that you won't be hurt further.
Libras will allow you to feel free and unencumbered, but not lonely. They are understanding and are able to see things from your perspective. In fact, if it's a pleasant diversion you need, Libras are great at helping you forget the hurt and moving on.
5. PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
Pisces are understanding, compassionate, and will be there with a shoulder to cry on. They will give the companionship you need without making any demands on you. Pisces are so intuitive that they will know exactly what you need, even if you have no clue.
They will help you to see the positives of your breakup and how you can turn those sad feelings into self-expression. If you need to wallow in sadness, Pisces will let you do that too, and hold your hand so you always know someone is there.
6. CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Sometimes after a bad breakup, the thing we need most is to feel completely enveloped in love — and that's exactly what Cancer does. They're very loving and protective, and if you don't want to have any contact with your ex, a Cancer individual will be your shield.
They will be able to commiserate with you on how they handled their painful breakup. Not only do Cancers make great rebounds, they make great partners in successful and long-term relationships.
Christine Schoenwald is a writer, performer, and teacher who loves writing and performing personal narratives. She's had pieces in The Los Angeles Times, Salon, Woman's Day, Purple Clover, Bustle, and is a regular contributor to Ravishly and YourTango. Check out her website or her Facebook page.