10 Comforting Signs You've Found Your Forever Love

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10 Comforting Signs You've Found Your Forever Love

When your heart knows, it knows — and it's usually a consequence of the overflowing love it receives from him. How do you know you're in a relationship with your soulmate? Here's what to look for.

1. He's literally the best part of your day. 

He's the person you cannot wait to come home to at the end of each day. No matter what's going on in your life, you know you can depend on him to bring a smile to your face. 

Whether you're going on an awesome adventure together or having a quiet night in, you always have fun together. You have your own inside jokes, and you know how to make each other laugh hysterically. He's your biggest fan, your support system. You're confident that, together, you can get through anything life may throw at you.

2. You can tell him anything and everything. 

Because he doubles as your best friend. There are no secrets between the two of you. He's the first person you want to share good news or bad news with. You'll talk about how your day went, or whatever's going on in the world. You have intellectual conversations, and you have conversations about the most random things. 

There is nothing you're afraid to share with him - even things that may be difficult or uncomfortable to discuss. But he will never judge you. Even if he doesn't fully understand, he will try his best to. 

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3. Arguments and fights typically never escalate to insane blowouts.

They're the fights that either need to happen to invoke a positive change or they're just a buildup from the stresses of everyday life

But fights with him are different. You love him even when you want to hate him. And even after some of your biggest fights, you still kiss and make up, truly knowing it'll all be okay and this was just a bump in the road. 

4. He doesn't just talk about doing his best, he shows it. 

In some relationships, a lot of empty promises are made, or effort fades in time — all of those surprises and little things that showed a true effort slowly come to an end. And if it stops entirely, then that's when the love is at risk of becoming stale or dying out.

But he does what he says he'll do, even if it's not right away. And whether that be in the littlest ways or the biggest, he'll continue to put in the effort as the years go by because he wants to keep reminding you just how much you mean to him. He wants to keep the love alive.

5. He's comfortable but not too comfortable. 

You bring out the best in each other, and you motivate each other to stay healthy and stay on track. You and he find that balance between being so comfortable with each other that you become best buds, all while still remembering to continue to put in an effort and not forget about the little things that matter most.

6. Your happiness means everything to him.


If you're sad, he's sad - even at times when he may not fully understand why, or what you're going through. But when life hits hard, he'll do anything in his power to make you happy. 

He'll always support you and be rooting for you. If you're feeling down, he'll want you to do whatever you need to do in order to get that happiness back - have a night out with the girls, buy yourself that new dress, plan an adventure together - whatever it may be. 

He is never envious or controlling, and he always has your best interest in mind. Your happiness is genuinely important to him because he's on your team, he has your back.

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7. You trust him 150%. 

Trust can be a very tricky thing. But with him, you know in your heart he would never risk doing anything that may lead to him losing you. Nothing is that important. He will never stray and he will never jeopardize your love for anything. You can trust him to come back home to you at the end of any night out or weekend away. You can trust that he won't let you down.

What you have with your life partner is rare, and you probably won't find it again. You're both faithful and loyal to each other because you know what you have is real, and you never want it to end.

8. You feel absolutely complete with each other. 

You have no weight on your shoulders anymore when it comes to love. You now feel a sense of completeness, like nothing is missing. Even if you're having a horrible day, or your job is hell, just knowing you have him keeps you going. 

He brings a brightness to your life. He makes you feel as though the entire world could turn it's back on you, but he would be still standing by your side. It's you and him against the world. 

9. You cannot imagine a life without him. 

Even just the thought of something bad happening to him makes your heart hurt, your stomach turn. You cannot imagine a life without him in it. He's your world. 

10. The love you have is simple and powerful. 

He comes with no ridiculousness, no bullshit, no games. It is simple. The love and care come naturally, it is never a struggle. He is your best friend, your teammate, your rock. 

He is your everything - through the ups, downs, and everything in between. And you wouldn't want it any other way.

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Nikki is a writer from Boston who has a passion for sports, baking, fitness, dancing, music, and adventure. She enjoys helping others through sharing her stories and experiences. Check out her website and follow her on Instagram and Facebook.

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