How To Turn A Woman On (And Keep Her Coming Back For More)

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Most of the sex advice you see online is focused on things women can do to turn on their men.

To this, I say... Really?

Let's be honest. It's not all that tough to turn most guys on.

But women are a different breed. While most women love sex just as much as men (if not even more), many of us require a little bit more of an effort in the realm of foreplay in order to really get sufficiently aroused and ready for action.


Here are 6 relatively painless and easy things men can do to get a woman's faucets running and ensure an orgasmic experience that will keep her craving more.

1. Be vocal about your own pleasure.

We've all heard some men complain about women being too quiet in bed, but in my experience, women are way more vocal in the bedroom than men, and there is nothing that turns us on quite like hearing the man we're with moaning in ecstasy or, even better, moaning our name.

Hearing you cry out in pleasure in reaction to what we're doing not only majorly turns us on, but it also makes us more enthusiastic as we keeping raising up the ante.


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2. Be passionate.

The single best way to get a response out of most women is to make the one you're with feel like the sexiest woman alive.

Look at her like you want to rip her clothes off at any given moment.

Kiss her like you’re starving for it. Like your very life depends on it.

Grab her face and pull it toward your own.

Another good way to increase the passion is by doing little things like gently kissing her neck while she’s cooking or doing the dishes. Most women love small gestures of affection at the most unexpected moments.

3. Be a tease.

Most men are pretty easy to get sexually excited, which doesn't lend itself to the slow build of sexual tension women savor. If you want to get her to a place where her body is feeling beyond ready, try making her work for it a bit. Keep touching her lightly in the spots she loves to be touched most, but don’t let her have the full Monty until she literally begs you to give it to her.


If you work her up like that, she’ll be primed for an experience of true ecstasy.

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4. Be generous with your tongue.

Look, if you’re one of those guys who refuses to perform oral sex on a woman, this article really isn’t for you, because you clearly do not care about truly pleasing your woman. This is something all men should be willing to do, particularly if they expect to receive the same treatment.


There are so many women who can't have an orgasm from penetration alone and instead need clitoral stimulation. This means that being willing to get down there and give it your all is absolutely essential.

It's also important to remember that no two women's bodies are exactly alike. Mix it up and try new techniques so you can find the right one(s) for her.

5. Be creative.

Most people don't want to do the same thing in the same position every single time. That gets boring and redundant.

Be adventurous! Try different positions and different venues. There's something ultra-sexy about the idea of having sex in a secluded, yet somewhat public place. If you have an adventurous girl, start by sending her naughty texts during the day to get her nice and worked up, take her out on the town in the evening and whisper naughty things in her ear, and then find a suitable place to sneak to off to where you won’t get caught or arrested.


Role-playing is another huge turn on for many women, or you can switch things up by changing roles in regard to which one of you is dominant and which one of you is submissive. Variety is a sure-fire winner when it comes to getting a woman in the mood.

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6. Be ready to talk dirty to her.


Send her sexy texts during the day while she’s at work. Whisper naughty thoughts into her ear when you're sitting together on the couch or while you're out to dinner. Let her know you’ve been thinking about her hot, naked body all day long and tell her all of the things that you want to do to make her feel amazing. Tell her that you think about her when she's not there and EXACTLY what it is you think about — in detail.

Most importantly, talk to her when you're in bed together. Hearing what you want and how is pretty much guaranteed to drive her wild!

The truth is that most women really aren't all that complicated when it comes to sexual desire.

We want to feel sexy, we want to be wanted, and we want sex that is passionate and exciting.


Put in a little extra effort and you might just be surprised by how quickly your woman turns into a purring sex kitten before your very eyes.

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Carrie Budd is a single mother with a passion for helping others, as well as the gifts of a sharp mind and raw sense of humor. She discovered her knack for giving relationship advice while driving for Uber in a college-town, of all things, and she finds great joy in empowering women to find the strength to forge ahead when all hope seems lost.