How To Tell If He's Really Interested In You, Per His Zodiac Sign

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Keep your eyes open for these signs.

You’ve been in this predicament before: you're seeing this guy and you think it’s going well, but you can’t be sure. You don’t want to move too fast but, ultimately, you’d like to take it to the next level... except, you don’t want to scare him off.

Do you confront him immediately and find out what he wants, or do you play the waiting game? You don’t want to mess things up but it’s making you feel anxious when you’re around him.

Men can be notoriously difficult to figure out, but that doesn’t stop women from trying. A man may think he’s being perfectly clear with his intentions and yet, to a woman, his message is murky and hard to figure out.

If you’re at the stage in your life where you want to be in a long-term relationship of some kind, you want to make sure you date someone who is looking for the same thing. Sex is great but if that’s all he wants, you need to know before you start feeling as if you’re wasting your time.


If you can’t figure out what he wants, you’ll need to ask him directly and have a talk about where you see the relationship going, but you don’t want to go into this conversation not having any idea of what the outcome is going to be.

You need to consider all the evidence and really pay attention to what kind of signs he’s giving you about what he sees for the two of you.

Men may not always be comfortable speaking directly about their feelings, so you should look at the other ways they communicate such as body language, how they treat you, the tone of their voice, and how they interact with others.

Astrology can give you some clues to your man’s behavior based on his zodiac sign and help you figure out what men want in a relationship. Specifically, if he wants a relationship with you.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)
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Does he follow through on what he says? Pay careful attention because if he's interested in something more with you, his actions will speak louder than his words. Does he do things like running errands with or for you, taking care of you when you're sick, or doing things on dates that wouldn't be his first choice? If an Aries guy isn't interested, they're not going to stick around if they don't want to. 


Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
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Jealousy isn't a foreign concept to a Taurus, but if your Taurus shows a healthy kind of jealousy that's a good sign. We're not talking about the kind of jealousy where he's controlling and cutting you off from people that you love; we're talking about the kind of good-natured jealousy where he gets a little bit jealous of the other males in your life — the competitive kind of jealousy.

He may want to suppress his jealousy as to not appear over-emotional or weak, but if you watch closely you can see the signs of jealousy no matter how much he tries to hide it.


Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
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When you're with him in at a party or event, can you tell that he's proud to be connected to you? If Gemini is taking pride in the fact that you're together (even if it's on a superficial level), that's a huge sign he wants to take the relationship to the next level

Further proof of his interest is if he introduces you and makes sure you don't feel neglected. Geminis have no problem working a party by themselves, so if he doesn't ditch you at the door, that's huge.


Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
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Is your guy always there at the ready with a shoulder to cry on? If he's always there for you, giving you advice (if you ask for it) and is accepting of you no matter what your mood is, he's relationship ready. Feelings can be messy for Cancer, and if he's indicated to you that truly cares about you and what you're going through emotionally, he's getting close to changing his status to "in a relationship."


Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One

Leo (July 23 - August 22)
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Does he plan surprises and give you the perfect gifts? Surprises and gift-giving show that he's trying to brighten your day and endear him to you. Leo wouldn't even think about surprising you if he was just looking for no-strings-attached sex. He's making it about you and putting someone's happiness before his own, and isn't that how a Leo usually operates?


Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
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When a Virgo is heading toward a relationship they'll make an effort to impress you. He'll want you to think of him as amazing and fantastic so he'll do what he can to make sure you feel safe. He'll fix things, solve problems, cook for you, and treat you with respect and courtesy. This is his way of going out of his comfort zone to show you that he cares... a lot.


Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

Libra (September 23 - October 22)
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First of all, you have to understand the Libra male. They're charming and social, so if your guy is paying attention to you by really listening to what you have to say and making eye contact, he's very interested. Focus for a Libra can be tricky, so the action of him focusing all his attention on you is very telling of where he wants to go with you relationship-wise. If he's interested, he's extremely interested.


Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
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This one is so obvious you might overlook it, but if your guy stops seeing other women, it's a sure sign he wants to be exclusive. Scorpios are a very sexual sign and they don't lack for partners, but once they find someone that they want to be with, they commit with their whole heart.


Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
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If your Sagittarius guy wants to see you and spend quality time with you, that's a huge sign that he's interested in a relationship. Sagittarians like to keep moving and having new experiences; it's hard to get them to stay in one place for long. If he's sticking around and just hanging with you, that's a big sign that he can see a future with you and that he's not worried that he'll get bored.


Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
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It's actually a good omen if the guy you're interested in is a Capricorn because they're very relationship-orientated and thrive when they're coupled up with someone. If he makes sure that you're involved with his family and close friends, it's a sure sign that he can see himself in a committed relationship with you.


Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
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Have you noticed that when you're with your guy, it seems as if he wants to get to know you on a deeper level than just asking you about your day? And does he seem genuinely interested in your likes, dislikes, and beliefs? If Aquarius wasn't intrigued, he wouldn't be spending his time forming a strong bond with you. He wants to know everything and find out where the two of you are compatible and if there's real chemistry between you.


Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
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Does your Pisces guy trust you? If he listens to your thoughts and opinions and trusts you with his feelings, then he's relationship-ready. It can be challenging for a Pisces to trust someone — they don't like getting hurt and if the wrong person betrays their trust, it can be devastating to them. If he shows you that he trusts you, it indicates that he's ready to take the leap and open his heart to you. You've got the power now.


Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One