The clues you should look for to know for sure.
By Helen Adams
You may think you have found that special someone — the one who makes your heart beat faster than anyone else. But does he or she feel the same way about you? Would you know if your love interest didn't return your adoration no matter how much they proclaimed or avoided talking about their love for you?
Follow the guidelines below for some sage advice about how each zodiac sign acts when they're really just not into you.
Aries can't lie convincingly, and find it hard to maintain a cover-up. What you see is what you get. You'll know if they are all about you, because they will be all over you. If they aren't interested you won't hear a peep — nil, nada, nothing. It can be hard to swallow but at least you know where you stand.
cHe or she used to buy you flowers, chocolates, and perfume all of the highest quality — now no more. Your Taurus lover may take you out to dinner, but you can't help noticing that his or her eyes are following the movements of another, and isn't really paying attention to what you are saying. Those long, sensuous kisses may become rather quick and lack passion. These are signs he or she is drifting away!
Although he or she has many friends, your crush used to single you out in conversation and you always knew you were special. Now it's not the case. Geminis may have formidable intellects and adore word games, but they can be very hot in bed. If he or she is losing interest in you, he may find a million excuses why he or she can't spend time with you. A lack of interest in sex says it all.
Trying to get a straight answer out of a Cancer native can be hard, even at the best of times. If he or she laughs a lot and is romantic and nurturing you are still in good standing. But if he or she starts to sulk, wears a frequent hangdog expression, and acts like an emotional martyr around you, it won't be too long before the ugly truth is known.
Leos love to be magnanimous at the best of times, and even if your Leo lover has lost interest in you he or she may still bring gifts around, though they may not be as expensive as they were. Eventually he or she will have to tell the truth, but will try to make you feel like a special friend while letting you down.
If your Virgo lover is losing interest, the first hint of this may be that he or she seems to be ill more than usual. That special date may be ruined by a headache or a bout of indigestion. Rest assured it can only get worse. You will be so fed up you will probably end the relationship yourself.
It's very hard to get a Libra to tell you when it's over. You may not notice anything much wrong at all. They seem to treat you in the same way and are just as 'nice' as ever, although if you are clever you may detect a slight edge to their words. They still cuddle and kiss you, and then one day you spot them out with someone else. Be warned!
Watch out for the Scorpio lover, as he or she may try to make it all seem like your fault, even though it is blatantly theirs. When he or she was in love, your mate wanted to devour you. Once out of love a Scorpio may lose spice, or an appetite altogether - that's the way they are! If you notice that his or her sense of humor just got darker and more ruthless - make the break yourself!
Sagittarians can't keep their mouths shut and are not very good at being tactful. There is very little chance that your Sagittarian lover will be able to hide anything from you - even the fact they don't fancy you. They may even decide to make a joke out of it, just to add insult to injury. There are definitely other fish in the sea.
Capricorns have a sense of duty which extends to their relationships. They are capable of keeping it all going long after the initial attraction wears off and will continue to play their part. Although they won't say anything they may spend more time at board meetings and on business trips. You will know something is missing — it's him or her!
If you are in a love relationship with an Aquarian you need to have been best friends to start with. As best friends he or she feels entitled to tell you everything, even the fact he or she has fallen in love with someone else. Gradually his or her behavior may become more and more bizarre and aloof. Better to find someone with a heart!
Pisceans may have the hardest time of all telling you that the relationship is over. They feel so guilty and certainly won't want to hurt you. They are also capable of telling lots of white lies so that they can cover their backs and stay in your good graces. Eventually the lie will be out. You may have to be cruel to be kind. Sniff!
This article was originally published at Horoscope.com. Reprinted with permission from the author.