7 Signs You Have High Spiritual Intelligence (Even If You’re Not Aware Of It)

The aim of life is to rise above.

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Spiritual intelligence helps you rise above what the material world has to offer. It allows you to access and enjoy the energy that isn’t visible to other people.

You feel like you’re a part of something so much bigger than yourself. It’s an achievement everyone should aim for.

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Here are 7 signs you have high spiritual intelligence:

1. You realize the hidden boomerang-like nature of your actions

Many people do harm to others for their own good. They think that this is good for them, and in the short term and in the small picture, it might be. But in the long-term and in the big picture, it’s not.

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When you produce harm to others, two things happen.

  • They’re sad which prevents them from doing good things and sending out good energy.
  • They’re bitter which causes them to further do bad things and send out bad energy.

Since they’re now less likely to do good things, and more likely to do bad things, they too will do bad things to others; who will in turn be more primed to do bad things. And this keeps going. Somewhere along the line, it’s gonna come back to the person who started it.

But you understand this. You understand that energy spreads. You understand that we’re all one. And you understand that it all comes back, sooner or later.

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That is why you do good things. Not just selflessly, but logically as well. Since you understand that in the bigger picture, you too are gonna reap the benefits.

2. You live by Nietzche’s philosophy

I see life in two very discreet pockets.

  • Events you can control. To reduce your misery and increase your happiness here, just do what it takes. It’s simple, if not always easy.
  • Events you cannot control. Or what we call fate. How do you deal with fate especially when it’s bad?

Do you hate it? Reject it? Deny it? Nietzche says that you should learn to love it. That’s what Amor Fati is. Not just an acceptance of fate — but a love of it.

This makes sense because any event has several different consequences — some good and some bad. When you learn to love fate, you bias yourself to look at the good consequences, not the bad. And that leads to happiness.

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3. You don’t need to practice gratitude

I’ve genuinely never felt the need to practice gratitude. And it’s not because I’ve not had my share of suffering. It’s because a lack of gratitude seems really stupid to me.

Even though I too have suffered a lot in life, I’ve also been blessed by some truly wonderful things. In essence, gratitude overwhelms me. And hence, I never had to actually take time out to practice gratitude.

I don’t know you. But I know you’re life is tough as well. However, I also know that you have more blessings than you can count.

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All you need to do to develop high spiritual intelligence is to realize and let the gratitude for those blessings overwhelm you.

4. You have a strong empathetic inner itch

  • Some people like to make others suffer.
  • Some people don’t care about other people’s suffering.
  • Some want other people’s suffering to stop when they have caused it and they feel guilty.
  • And then there are some people who have a strong inner itch to make other people’s suffering go away irrespective of who or what has caused it.

The last type of person has high spiritual intelligence. They realize that all humans are one, and hence, they truly wish to stop other people’s suffering.

5. You know what’s at the core of evil people

On the surface, yes, people might seem evil. They might do truly horrendous things that certify their evilness. However, spiritually intelligent people understand that no one is inherently evil, they’re just hurt deep down and their hurt is taking ugly outlets.

"When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help." — Thich Nhat Hanh

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And it makes sense because a truly happy person can never want someone else to be unhappy.

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6. You're in awe of the universe

Some humans have egos so big that they tend to place themselves at the center of the universe. But not you. You’re in awe of the universe.

You look at the night sky and realize that you’re nothing but a speck of dust on the galactic scale. You still feel small when you stand in front of the ocean. You realize that the universe is billions of years old and millions of light-years big. And your few decades of 5 feet 8-inch life is nothing in front of it.

In essence, this awe keeps you from being arrogant.

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7. Your empathy-sadness exceeds self sadness

This is one of the biggest signs of high spiritual intelligence because it’s truly very hard to achieve.

  • Empathy sadness is when you suffer because you feel bad for others.
  • Self-sadness is when you suffer for your own s*** in life.

This achievement is only possible when you’re so spiritually enlightened that your suffering in life starts to vanish into oblivion. Of course, all of it is never going to away.

But you keep getting closer to the minimum amount. And at the same time, you feel so at peace in life, and you realize how good it can get, that you wish it for everyone. And when you realize that other people don’t have the peace you do, your empathy shoots up — way more than your own residual sadness.

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Here’s how you can achieve it theoretically:

  • Work on the stuff you can control in life to minimize your misery.
  • Fall in love with the events you cannot control: Amor Fati. Both these steps will reduce your self-sadness.
  • Realize how significant people’s suffering is to increase your empathy-sadness.

Here’s a recap of seven signs that show you have high spiritual intelligence:

  • You know that doing harm to others harms you in the big picture.
  • You love fate.
  • Gratitude overwhelms you.
  • You deeply want to make other people’s suffering go away.
  • You know that someone is not evil, just deeply hurt.
  • Awe keeps your arrogance in check.
  • Your empathy-sadness exceeds self-sadness.

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Akshad Singi, M.D. has been published in Better Humans, Mind Cafe, and more.

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