6 Signs A Man Is Your Soulmate (Even If You Don't Realize It Right Away)
Sometimes love doesn't announce itself with fireworks.
Hayes Potter | Unsplash Life is a rollercoaster ride; a mix of inconceivable, exhilarating highs and devastating, steep lows. Even though we are at different points of this amazing journey, we are all desperately searching for our true companion to share the ride with.
But in this crazy and chaotic world, it’s not easy to tell who this person is — is the man you're with the soulmate you've been looking for, who will love you unconditionally until the end of time?
Whether he's a close friend you've never considered romantically, someone you're just getting to know, or a partner whose true depth you're still discovering, these signs can help you recognize when someone special has entered your life.
Here are six signs a man is your soulmate, even if you don't realize it right away:
1. He's not afraid to show his vulnerable side
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Society has long conditioned men to swallow a lot of their feelings. We all know the stereotypes: men must be the stronger gender, they are invincible, and they never cry.
Even though most men like to be seen in this light, they won’t be afraid to open up in front of someone special and reveal their true emotional softness. If you have found a guy who has no problem expressing his feelings, you’ve got yourself a keeper.
Historically, many men have been socialized to suppress emotions and appear stoic. One study argued that when a man defies this social norm by willingly sharing his fears, insecurities, and deepest feelings, it is a profound act of emotional openness.
2. He sees the beauty in you everyday
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Although our society is dominated by distorted beauty ideals, the man who truly loves a woman will see her natural beauty every second of every day.
Even if you believe you look grubby, a true soulmate will see beyond your messy hair and puffy eyes. He’ll cherish your perfect imperfections because at the end of the day, it’s what makes you, you — and that you is beautiful.
Research has indicated that partners who maintain positive, idealized perceptions of each other report higher relationship satisfaction and commitment over time.
A man who sees beauty in you every day is likely experiencing a version of this positive illusion, which reinforces his own happiness in the relationship.
3. He makes sacrifices for your happiness
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Let’s be honest for a moment: egoism is evolutionarily embedded in our nature. True love, however, prompts us to overcome this trait. If a man really loves a woman, he will sacrifice a lot to make his girl happy.
But when you think of sacrifices in the name of love, do not necessarily make a comparison with Hollywood stories. Every sacrifice, no matter how small, is an expression of love. Don't miss the little things he does for you.
When sacrifices are made to gain a positive outcome, they are linked to higher relationship satisfaction for both individuals. On the other hand, when sacrifices are made to avoid a negative outcome, they are linked to lower relationship satisfaction and well-being.
4. He is your biggest cheerleader
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If a man truly loves you, he will be your biggest cheerleader. As he simply wants you to be happy, your success will become his success.
A man in love will not compete with you; he will win with you. Even if he doesn’t always approve and understand each of your endeavors, he will know what’s important to you and will always be there. The man who loves you will be your greatest supporter and most dedicated fan.
A partner who consistently champions your goals and offers kindness, even on bad days, aligns with supported indicators of a healthy and compatible relationship. A 2022 study suggested that a profound connection with someone who aligns with your core values and life aspirations suggests a deeper compatibility.
5. He fights for your love
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No matter how strong love is, the road of life is studded with obstacles that will challenge your relationship. But when a man loves you, he will fight for your relationship against all odds.
He might need to draw back for a moment, but remember that he’ll always come back because he knows that your relationship is something worth the fight.
A willingness to engage in healthy conflict and overcome challenges in a relationship is a strong indicator of commitment, love, and a potentially long-lasting partnership. Researchers at The Gottman Institute explained that true love involves navigating difficulties and working to resolve them, demonstrating a deeper connection and commitment than avoiding conflict entirely.
6. He pays attention to the little things you care about
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It may be the smallest or even the weirdest thing, but if it makes you happy, your man would gladly do it.
The Gottman Institute explained that showing interest in your own interests is a behavior that demonstrates active listening, empathy, and a desire to support your well-being, showing you that he understands and appreciates you on a fundamental level.
He would pay attention to all those little things that make you smile and will use them to light up your day when you least expect it.
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