How To Finger A Woman To Make Her Orgasm With Just Your Hands

How To Finger A Girl To Make A Woman Orgasm With Your Hands During Foreplay
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It's all about getting those digits.

Knowing how to finger a girl is important if you want to be able to make a woman have intense orgasms during sex.

After all, foreplay is incredibly important when it comes to knowing how to please a woman in bed, and fingering is a huge part what's needed in order to stimulate her properly and get her turned on.

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So guys, if you really want to make sure she has the best sex of her life, make sure your fingering skills are up to the task that's literally at hand.

Here are seven expert tips on how to finger a girl the right way in order to give her super intense orgasms during foreplay and/or sex.

1. Keep your fingernails neat and trim.

Ohhh, so that's why women are always checking out men's fingernails? They're all thinking about a fingering. Yes. Yes, they are.

Seriously, uncut, uncleaned, and unbuffed fingernails are painful, so keep your hands to yourself until your nails are smooth enough to run across your own dick hole.

2. Make circles on her clitoris.

The clitoris is the most powerful spot on a woman's body, so get ready to use two fingers (the index and middle finger) to rub her clitoris in a soft and circular manner.

By now she should be sufficiently aroused with foreplay, so her clitoris will be swelling and slightly enlarged.

Gradually increase speed as she shows positive signs. Be careful not to lose concentration and “auto” set your circles, as you could lose the rhythm or start moving too roughly or quickly.

3. Penetrate her with your middle finger.

If she wants it hard and fast, try putting your middle finger inside of her, then thrust it in and out of her like a penis.

Increase the speed if she seems to like it and find a thrusting pattern that works. The ideal position is with you in front of her vagina and kneeling in front of her since this gives you full control over your hand.

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4. Find her G-spot with the index and middle finger.

Next in how to finger a woman, we find the G-spot.

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The G-spot is located about 2-3 inches deep and upwards, towards the front wall. You should feel a rougher patch of skin when you find it.

Find this area by facing your palm up and making the “come here” motion with your middle and index fingers.Imagine trying to touch her belly button internally and you've got the right idea. Start slowly and softly, building up to a hard thrust.

5. Slide your index and middle fingers all the way down and back up again.

Make sure your fingers are wet, and then, start by going down the side of the clitoris all the way into her vagina and then back out again.

This common maneuver of the tongue can also work with fingers, as long as you keep the pressure light and the area very wet.

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6. Bring in your other hand.

You can use your free hand to stimulate her vagina or G-spot area while rubbing her clitoris at the same time. When using more hands, try stroking and penetrating with different rhythms, not automating the same movement for both hands.

Keep it steady and don't worry about speed unless she's yelling at you to finish her off.

7. Don't shock her ... use the shocker!

There's only one rule about anal stimulation and it's “No surprises!”

If your woman is up for some experimenting, then use your pinky finger to lightly penetrate her anus. Make sure your hand is sideways and, just to be safe, keep fingering her vagina at the same time you slip it in.

Now you know how to finger a woman!

You're ready to finger a woman whenever she asks for it — any time, any place.

Just be sure she's referring to the sex act of fingering and not “finger play” nursery rhymes or musical “fingering.” That would be an awkward misunderstanding.

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Nick Hardwick is a sex expert who provides advice for men and women looking to improve their intimacy and sex lives. If you're a woman who wants to learn how to blow your man's mind in a way that no other woman can, watch his video on how to make that happen.

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