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How To Touch A Man's Penis To Give Him The Best Handjob Of His Life

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Best Sex Tips On How To Give A His Penis A Perfect Handjob
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You don't want to get this wrong.

There is a right way and a wrong way to go about giving your man a great handjob.

I want to explain the best tips on how to give a proper handjob that's not not just the right way, but the perfect way to go about it.

Thankfully, brushing up on foreplay techniques and ideas to try isn't rocket science, and it's a practically a guaranteed avenue to have a better, more exciting sex with your boyfriend or husband.

If you concentrate on just getting even few of the following moves right, and your man will be in heaven when you put your hands on his penis — and you won't have to feel awkward about it at all.

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Here are the 6 best sex tips on how to give a perfect handjob to a man every single time.

1. Be aware that handjob foreplay is a thing

Rather than just grabbing his penis and giving him a hand job as fast as you can, you'll find that it's way hotter to slowly build up to it with what I like to call "hand job foreplay."

Start by kissing him like you normally would. While kissing him, slowly lower your hand toward his crotch outside his clothes. Slowly brush past his crotch and start to softly rub the inside of his thigh. After doing this for about a minute, slowly move your hand over his groin area while still outside his clothes, and start to gently grab and massage his penis.

At this stage, you should hear him starting to groan and sigh.

Now, it's time to slowly unbutton his pants and slip your hand inside his underwear to slowly hold grab hold of his penis. But there's no need to speed up just yet. Do everything very slowly and sensually so that you give your man time to enjoy each and every one of your touches.

If you're not getting too caught up in the heat of the moment, then you can make handjob foreplay last for up to 10 minutes.

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2. Use both hands

Many women never properly learn how to give a good handjob. As a result, they end up only using one technique. This is what I call "The Claw," where you simply grab him and keep tugging it up and down, non-stop, at the same speed until he orgasms without ever changing your grip.

This isn't absolutely terrible, but it is quite boring (and often very tiring).

A very easy way to change things up when jerking him off is to alternate between using one hand and using two hands on him. When you do this, you'll be able to stimulate both his shaft and the top of his penis. You'll also find that he thoroughly enjoys it when you switch between hands while giving him a hand job.

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3. Know how to play with his testicles.

It goes without saying that your man's testicles are incredibly sensitive. In fact, they are the last place your man ever wants to get hit, because they are so sensitive. The good thing is that you can exploit this sensitivity when giving him a hand job.

Midway through your hand job, give your hand a rest and slowly slide your fingers down toward his testicles. Now, start to slowly and softly fondle them between your fingers. You can also cup them in your hand and gently squeeze them, too.

As you move back up toward his penis, use your nails to scratch his testicles, but make sure to do so with a minimal amount of pressure.

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4. Touch the tippy-top of his penis.

The most sensitive part of your man's penis is ... the top! It's where you'll find the highest concentration of nerve endings on his entire body. So, giving the top of his penis lots of attention is a high priority.

The easiest way to focus your hand job on the top of his penis is to make an "O" shape with your index finger and thumb and put it over his penis. Then just slowly move it up and down about an inch or so. You really don't need to move it that much, just enough to stimulate the top.

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5. Don't ignore the frenulum.

For a lot of guys, another highly sensitive part is a tiny patch called the frenulum. The frenulum is on the underside of his penis. It is the piece of flesh that joins with the shaft on the underside. Just lightly running one finger over the frenulum is incredibly stimulating for your man.

The best way to rub his frenulum is to take a break from using one of my other hand job techniques on his shaft and just spend 20 to 30 seconds rubbing his frenulum with a minimum amount of pressure before switching back.

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6. Use soft strokes while he orgasms.

When you first start learning how to give your man a hand job, you may feel like speeding up as he starts to orgasm and shoot semen everywhere. The funny thing is that he will prefer it if you actually slow down and release the pressure as he is reaching orgasm.

You see, when he reaches orgasm, he will become incredibly sensitive to touch to the point where it actually feels painful for him when you touch it.

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Sean Jameson is a sex expert and founder of the Bad Girl's Bible website, where you can learn advanced techniques to improve your sex life. If you enjoyed this article on how to give your man a good hand job and want to know how to give him incredible oral sex, check out his video tutorial.