There is a rumour that just won't die. It's that men don't enjoy foreplay. Let me tell you right now...This is just not true. Men adore foreplay, especially if you use the right foreplay techniques on him. And if you do foreplay the right way, he will literally explode in orgasmic bliss.
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Below are 5 of my most powerful foreplay techniques that will have your man pretty much begging you for sex.
Sexual Tension Is Crucial - Sexual tension is a funny creature when it comes to sex and foreplay. You see most people don't consider sexual tension when thinking about foreplay.
Because it's not a 'physical' foreplay technique. The thing is that they're absolutely right, building sexual tension is not a physical foreplay technique. It's a mental one.
People forget that sex is both a physical and mental experience. So it's important to use both mental AND physical foreplay on your man. So how can you build sexual tension with your man as foreplay? Here are a few ideas to get started...
- Send him some slightly naughty text messages, like "I've got something planned for later...I've got a feeling you're going to like it x" or "Can't wait to wrap my lips around you tonight! x"
- When you are both together, but can't get physical try using some teasing comments, "I can't wait to rip your clothes off later!" or "If we were alone, I would jump you right here, right now!"
- Gently brush your hand over his butt, crotch and other sensitive areas in a way that could be interpreted as 'accidental' to arouse your man.
How Are Your Oral Skills? - So building sexual tension, rubbing, caressing and groping him as well as kissing more than his lips are great foreplay techniques for building up to getting really sexual. What about sligthy more sexual foreplay? I'm glad you asked!
A crucial sex skill that your man will thank you for is learning how to give a great blowjob, while I cover how to give a great blowjob in the Bad Girl's Bible newsletter in far more detail, here are a few oral sex tips that you can use tonight:
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- Using your hand when giving him a blowjob is a really good idea. It allows you to control how deep you take him as well as giving him a completely different sensation to your mouth.
- Use your whole mouth. Many only use their lips when giving their man a blowjob using a simple in & out motion. Don't forget about all the great things you can do to him with your tongue. Try licking the top of his penis with it. Try swirling it around his shaft while his cock is in your mouth.
- Don't forget about his balls. Your man's balls are incredibly sensitive. So when you are giving him a blowjob, make sure to pay some attention to them. You can use your hands or your mouth to massage and stimulate them.
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