The Lazy Girl’s Guide To Total Life Transformation

Embrace your lazy so your inner Goddess can shine brighter.

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You want to learn how to transform your life. But, you're lazy! The good news is that it's not always a bad thing.

I often call myself lazy. This might not sound a little self-deprecating, but there's a part of me that loves the lazy. It has served me very well.

I also acknowledge that using the term "girl" in reference to an adult woman is very much outdated, but I welcome the feeling of excitement and anticipation towards life that's often found in your younger years.


So, how can you lean into your lazy girl nature and discover a life filled with joy and pleasure? As an added bonus, you can also increase your intuition and intentional manifestation powers.

Lazy is being smart with your energetic resources while honoring your innate ability to flow in unison with your dreams.

On my personal journey, I've worked hard and also mastered the art of doing nothing — and this is where the Universe speaks to me.

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If you want to know how to transform your life, here are the top 12 guidelines for every lazy girl.

1. Be lazy enough to relax and laugh a little at yourself.

Don’t take yourself so seriously. Appreciate finding yourself in a funny situation and simply recognize it for what it is.


Often, these situations come into your life as an invitation to breathe a little deeper and even open up your heart.

2. Allow yourself to welcome change.

One of the beautiful aspects of laziness is this: you no longer waste energy resisting change. We often think that change only comes at rock bottom, when a person sees no way out.

Allow your lazy to take you to a place where there is nothing to resist. You will become a master of allowing.

3. Enjoy the little surprises from the universe.

As you navigate life and honor your energy flow, pay attention to how much effort goes into your daily manifesting.

The lazy girl’s rule of thumb is 70 percent work and 30 percent allowing. This keeps your manifestations fresh and surprising, so enjoy what comes your way!


Pay attention to your ratio of hustle versus allowing. This means you do the ground work, let go of your expectations, and allow the Universe to deliver.

4. Be inspired.

This one is very important! The actions you take should be inspired. You should feel excited with an open heart and mind when taking action.

This productive energy fills you up with joy and anticipation. The lazy girl avoids taking action just to be busy.

5. Listen to your gut.

This is your trusted news channel. Don't waste time and energy getting other people’s views on what's going on in your life.

Your gut instinct will align you perfectly with the flow of the Universe.

6. Be still.

Learn to enjoy the stillness. This is where the secrets to the Universe are shared with every aspect of yourself.


So, practice doing nothing.

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7. Do what makes you happy.

This should be easy right? Yet, many people do not prioritize what brings them joy.

Go to the simplest and most uncomplicated form of what connects you to happiness.

8. Stop comparing yourself to others.

Recognize that comparing yourself to others is a complete waste of your precious reserve of energy.

You are on a unique journey that should be honored, not devalued by wasteful comparisons.

9. Stop worrying about what may go wrong.

As you release the habit of worrying, you're letting go of anxiety.

10. Let go of what no longer serves you.

This is an important skill to have.


This means letting go of being right, letting go of other people’s problems, and letting go of everything that keeps you from feeling free.

11. You don't need to know who, why, or how.

Don’t waste your efforts trying to understand why someone did something. It doesn’t matter.

The more attention you give it, the more your energy is lost on something that has no value in your life.

Save it for soul-inspired questions that will truly bring you useful answers.


12. Create good boundaries.

Don't continue to allow things into your life that are not a good fit.

This could mean you won’t be cleaning up your house because you said "yes" to a party you didn’t really want to host.

Be one with your lazy girl status and intuitively learn how to transform your life.

I hope these guidelines help you embrace your lazy so that your inner Goddess can shine brighter.

Go forth and create with joy, remembering to establish gratitude for everything that comes into your life. 

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Polly Wirum is an intuitive, life coach, and writer. If you are ready to discover more about your deepest self, contact her for an intuitive astrological reading, psychic reading, or spiritual life coaching.