SPECIALTIES

Couples/Marital Issues

Years in Practice

25 years +

where

Amarillo TX 79114 - United States

Credentials

Other

Additional Expertise

Author, Marriage Coach

I Practice in

All areas, please inquire

I AM FLUENT IN

English

I Believe

God wants you to love and enjoy passionate sex. He doesn't trap anyone in sexless marriages, but provides many ways for lasting change.

About Patsy Rae Dawson

Are you in a miserable passionless marriage? Is your masculine or feminine spirit crushed? Are you fighting for emotional survival?

Then you’re in the right place. Keep reading.

  • I don’t spend time on temporary band-aid solutions.
  • I get right to the hard-core issues that are present in nearly every passionless marriage.
  • With over 40 years of experience working with both men and women, I can help you transform your life with unique Biblical and scientific insights.

Get started by taking advantage of my FREE Passionless Marriages Self-Assessment Survey Tool. Six checklists explore surprising core issues in sexless marriages and dead bedrooms.

The survey helps you determine if your marriage is a Type 1, 2, or 3 passionless marriage. Based on your assessment, you’ll receive a self-directed plan for overcoming your heartache. Start solving your dead-bedroom problems now so you can make lasting changes.

If you need additional help, I have a limited number of 1-on-1 spots available for my Hope for Passionless Marriages & Broken Souls When All Else Fails: Sexuality & Personality Breakthrough Training. This signature program helps you knock down barriers to sexual happiness.

For more information, read my article “What’s the Connection Between Sexuality and Personality?” You’ll learn that when either your sexuality or personality gets inhibited in childhood or by a dysfunctional relationship, the other half also gets damaged.

We jumpstart your healing by setting free your genetic personality, which speeds up your sexual responses. Here’s what two recent clients said after going through the Breakthrough Program:

From Avoiding Sex to Hounding Husband For It

Patsy, I was just thanking God for you this week! We took a trip, just my husband and I, for 5 days and it was fantastic! We are doing so very great! I can't quite put into words the peace we're living in. I started craving my husband, and loving sex, and hounding him for it, ha! Internal, vaginal orgasms that make me laugh uncontrollably. (East Coast female client)

My Wife Asked Me to Move Out

I contacted Patsy after my wife told me to leave. I did her Passionless Marriages Self-Assessment Survey. She identified four problem areas I needed to work on. Then I went through her Sexuality and Personality Breakthrough Training Program.

I had done a personality assessment at work. But it didn't take into account my upbringing by drug and alcohol addicted parents. The work profile actually scored me for my masking--not my true genetic personality. Now that I know who I am, I'm claiming pieces of myself that I had buried.

I'm enjoying my children and my wife more than ever. Best of all, I quit walking on eggshells. I used to apologize for everything, even when I didn't know what I was apologizing for, just to keep the peace. I don't do that anymore. Now I'm actually solving problems instead of avoiding them.

Patsy told me that I needed to change for me regardless of what my wife did. She warned that my wife might not like the new me. But we fight a whole lot less and our home is happier and calmer. I'm not there yet, but I like how I'm changing "from the inside out" as Patsy says.

I recently recommended this program to a friend who is struggling with severe marriage problems. I told him that learning who I am helped make other things fall into place. And it's given me personal confidence I never had before. Thank you, Patsy, for sharing your wisdom. (Male 30ish client)

About Patsy

Patsy Rae Dawson is a Sexuality & Personality Breakthrough Trainer/Coach. She has been teaching women … AND MEN the secret of the brain for sharing powerful vaginal orgasms that turn into cervical kisses for over 40 years. Her expertise ranges from the joys of soulmating to the beautiful sexual teachings of the Song of Solomon to the complex issues of difficult marriages. She imparts hope with her ability to unlock the scriptures and challenge tradition views.

Her books on sexuality prove that God devotes more space in the Bible to enjoying a wonderful love life than to any other area of marriage. Learn more from her book The Song of Solomon Love Triangle: God’s Soulmating and Lovemaking Guide for a Lifetime of Passionate Sex.

For more information visit PatsyRaeDawson.com.

Patsy Rae Dawson Success Stories

Problems? A Simple Formula

I used to think there were only a handful of scriptures in the Bible pertaining to marriage but after studying Marriage A Taste of Heaven, I found how saturated the Bible was in every category pertaining to marriage. The author reveals a simple Bible formula for solving marriage problems. The application and real-life counseling stories cause an instant connection for the student. Any student of relationships will be amazed as they are exposed to popular philosphies from ancient history to present, showing how men & women have been crippled in their attitudes toward each other and marriage by the 'experts' of the time. The organization of the material makes it a great resource for those who teach.more

In God’s People Make the Best Lovers, if you've always wondered about what the Bible says on sex, this is a great book to help you. I learned a lot about how attitudes of religious leaders, Victorians, feminists, hippies and other social heavyweights have had an affect on the generations before filtering them right down to you. One great thing about this book is the emphasis on how you can protect your sexuality to get the most from a relationship that God WANTS you to have. The author's model is to use scripture then application. For those that learn and will eventually teach others, the exercises and thought problems are great for changing damaging thought patterns that affect sexual response.

Excellent Book!!!

When I received the copy of Patsy Rae Dawson's book on Marriage: A Taste of Heaven about God's people make the best lovers, I thought it would be a general book about the Christian view on marriage like many other books I have read.more

But the moment I started to read this book, I was amazed with this wonderful work which is very in-depth and how it gives a lot of insights concerning God's plan and origin on sexuality.

One of the reasons this book is so important is because the beautiful gift
of sexuality has been corrupted after the fall of man and satan has been
using it to destroy personal lives and marriages by giving them a wrong and false view on sexuality. This book brings insights for recovering the true meaning of sexuality.

A real eye opener to me was the way Patsy Rae Dawson described history like Victorian morals and the feminist movement and how they influenced our society, culture, and families.

The foundation of Patsy Rae Dawson's writings are based on the Holy Word of God; and in this way, she shows that only God Himself is the best counselor concerning sexuality.

If someone wants a good and healthy view of God's design on sexuality, read and study this book, because it is the best.

Again you need to study it because the book contains much information. I recommend it especially for pastors and pastoral workers who are working with those in the church or outside the church who need pastoral help concerning sexuality.

Ralph Wilms from the Netherlands

Best Comprehensive Guide On Marriage

These are the best books on marriage that I have read, and I have read many. I have bought and given away many copies, used them to teach and counsel. Vol. 1 is great for pre-marital counseling, to strengthen marriages, and to help save even very desperate marriages. Mrs. Dawson goes through many, many Bible texts dealing with the subject of marriage, deals with them thoroughly, and makes great applications with anecdotes, illustrations, and current events. Her chapters on the Song of Solomon alone make the book invaluable.more

Vol. 2 is more focused on the sexual relationship in marriage. It is occasionally quite explicit which is just what we need in today's society. It is a wonderful tool in marriage classes with married couples. Much of what the book contains needs to be taught to children as they are ready to hear it by their parents. Most of us need continual refresher courses on this material to strengthen our own marriages and help us enjoy sex with our spouses even more. Again, Patsy Dawson is thorough, easy to understand, and her illustrations hit home.

Thanks for writing two wonderful volumes on the most important relationship there is between two human beings. Buy them, read them, live it, and share!

Alabama Preacher’s Amazon Review

God’s People Make the Best Lovers is more focused on the sexual relationship in marriage. It is occasionally quite explicit which is just what we need in today’s society. It is a wonderful tool in marriage classes with married couples. Much of what the book contains needs to be taught to children as they are ready to hear it by their parents.more

Most of us need continual refresher courses on this material to strengthen our own marriages and help us enjoy sex with our spouses even more. Again, Patsy Dawson is thorough, easy to understand, and her illustrations hit home.

Thanks for writing two wonderful volumes on the most important relationship there is between two human beings. Buy them, read them, live it, and share!

You Get It!

Men in complicated relationships

You are one of the few women I’ve read who “gets it,” that lovemaking is an emotional experience for a man if it is good. If his wife is not emotionally involved in expressing sexual love, then it is very unsatisfying. A limp body just doing its duty never satisfied any man.

Incredible Lovemaking

Women in complicated relationships

I’m a bit shy about sharing this information (and although there still seems to be a pattern of infrequency in lovemaking) the intimate times we have shared together in the last few months have been some of the most incredible we’ve ever had together. The mind really does matter as you teach in Vol. II: God’s People Make the Best Lovers!

Sexual Healing For Couples!

“My wife and I had some good conversations after reading this book. It greatly improved our relationship. Lots of couples would benefit from reading this book and discussing it.” (Gospel Preacher)

Love For Husband Increases!

“I was amazed to discover so much in the Bible on how to love my husband and how to love being a woman. Now I love my husband and children with a love I have never experienced. I never realized I had the potential to love this much in my heart.” (Texas Christian)

Marriages Transformed!

Women in complicated relationships

“A friend told me I desperately needed this book after listening to my complaints about my husband. In just one weekend of practicing what I learned, I couldn’t believe the difference in the way he treated me. When we visited my aunt, she wanted to know what happened, we had changed so much. Now she wants her own copy and so does another friend. Please rush the books.” (Arkansas Christian)

These Books Changed My Life

“These books changed my life. The author is an expository teacher and explains what GOD says in the Greek or Hebrew. It’s not her “advice,” but it’s God’s advice. I would have to say they are the best books on marriage I have ever read.more

“I buy them again and again and always end up giving them away. I wish I was rich and could buy a big stack of them to give to everyone I know. Every one needs to read them.

They are such a radical divergence from everything else on the market. Imagine going straight to God’s word for help and healing in your marriage…what a novel idea!!!!” (Florida Christian)

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