Have Steamier Sex In Your Relationship — Without Even Taking Your Clothes Off

These 3 tips can help.

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Sex takes a huge role in any romantic relationship that we have had and will have in the future — which is why you want the sex to be great. 

But when it comes to sex, the things you do in the bed are not the only things that make your sexual experience special.

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In fact, in order to have better sex, you should start by thinking outside the bedroom.


Here are 3 ways to improve your sexual experience — that you can try with all your clothes:

1. Communicate with your partner.

An honest conversation is the key to keeping your relationship stable and satisfying for both of you. You need to learn how to communicate with your partner honestly and openly. Only then will you be able to communicate about what you both expect and want to gain from your experience in the bedroom.


Do not be afraid to tell your partner what you like and what you dislike. And learn how to listen to your partner, as well. Once you learn what each other likes in the bedroom, you'll both be able to have a more satisfying sexual experience.

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2. Learn to love yourself first.



In order to talk about sex with your partner well, you need to know yourself. You need to find out what you really like. In order to do that, you need to be honest with yourself, as well.

Take the time to find out what makes you happy and satisfied. How can you instruct your partner on what to do when you do not know either?

And let us tell you — finding yourself will not be an easy or a quick process, but it will improve your sex life, your relationship with your partner, and your life as a whole, too.

This is especially important for those of you who might be suffering from a sexual pain disorder. In order to make sex a satisfying experience rather than just a few minutes spent in pain, you need to work on yourself and put your health and life above anything else.


3. Replace your bad habits with healthy ones.

When you treat your body badly, chances are that you are not going to feel satisfied with how you look and how you feel. And these things matter a lot when it comes to having a great sexual experience. If you are looking for a way to improve yourself in the bedroom, you need to rethink the way that you are treating your body.

This basically means getting rid of any bad habits such as smoking, excessive drinking, not getting enough sleep, having a poor diet, being under a lot of stress, and so on. All of these bad habits need to be replaced with healthy ones right away — so no more skipping breakfast, eating junk food, or staying up too late and drinking.


You have to take a better care of your body and mind. Opt for a healthy diet, get regular exercise, and get on a consistent sleep schedule. Once you start taking a better care of your body and mind, you will discover miracles happening for you.

Your body has a lot of ways to show its appreciations, you just need to take the time to do something good for it and for yourself.



Having great sex is what any couple wishes for.  So take the time to try out these three steps above so you can improve your sex life and show your partner how much you love them.

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Donna Begg is an expert editor, a mentor, analyst, and a researcher.