How To Make A Man Miss You

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How To Make Him Miss You

It 's not always easy to feel sure you're in man's thoughts and he misses you when you're not around.

You might be wondering about how to make him miss if he isn't already, and if you want to get a positive reaction from a guy, it's important to go about this properly.

Many women make mistakes that wind up putting even more distance between themselves and the man in question. To avoid this, you should know how to make it happen right from the start, during the seduction phase of a relationship.

In order to make a man miss you, there are certain rules you need to follow.

The goal is to be at the forefront of his mind. In doing so, you will quickly notice how the feeling of missing someone can reinforce love and develop the attraction.

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Here are 5 basic tenets to live by if you want to make him miss you:

  • Let him take the initiative.
  • Do not let him think he has you too soon.
  • Do not say "yes" to him every time.
  • Make him feel like he can't live without you.
  • Make the time you spend together amazing so he wants you around more.

Why exactly should you try to make him miss you?

Many women tend to have a lack of self-confidence at some point, whether it’s further into their relationships or when they’re still in the seduction phase. They aren’t sure if the guy they like is sincerely interested or if he’s just flirting or playing games. Not to mention the fact that there are so many clichés about men being unfaithful that it can be quite hard to trust someone.

Sometimes, he’s not going to think that he wants a serious relationship with you right off the bat. It’s up to you to encourage him to invest, so the best thing to do is to show him that his life is considerably better with you in it.

Not only do you feel this need to be reassured so that you can feel satisfied in your relationship, but you also want to make sure your love story continues to evolve. This is why learning how to get him to miss you can prove to be a real solution. On top of being sure about his feelings for you, you can also multiply them tenfold.

If you want to be the only girl he thinks about all day long, being a bit distant and inaccessible can make you even more attractive. Doing this instantly makes you an intriguing challenge in many men's eyes.

You just need to know how to go about doing it.

When you are able to get a guy to miss you, you switch up the power play between you and make his deeper feelings for you develop much faster.

Here are 3 rules to follow in order to make him miss you:

1. Stop contacting him!

This is one of the most common mistakes that women unfortunately make.

Ladies, you tend to cling to the guy you’re with, or if you’re still in the seduction phase, you tend to be a bit too present. You don’t allow for space between you that could give rise to his feelings of missing you. If you really want to know whether or not he’s missing you, you absolutely have to contact him less.

Simply put, the less present you are, the more he is going to miss you.

If you don’t give him the opportunity, how is he supposed to miss you? The more a woman pulls away or feels inaccessible to a man, the more likely he is to try and get closer to her — you’ve probably already seen this phenomenon when it comes to flirtation.

If you’re not the one who makes the first move, he’s going to have to be the one who calls you ... and what’s more, you’ll be on his mind!

One of the techniques that work the best when it comes to getting an ex back is the no contact rule, which is when you cut all contact with your ex in order to make them want you back. By adapting this tool to your current situation, you’ll be able to make the guy you're interested in miss you and fall for you.

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2. Make him miss you by making him feel like he can’t live without you.

If you want this guy to see that you’re something special and remain in the forefront of his mind, make him feel that he can’t live without you!

Be the one that is unlike everyone else. I’m not just talking about the physical aspect — even though you should take care of your body and your image. The center of your focus should be on the sentimental aspect. Focus on the relationships you have to develop on a daily basis. If you respect these guidelines, he’s going to see you as a real femme fatale, and he will fall in love with your personality.

Don’t neglect important elements like communication when you want to form a solid relationship. Though I admit that it isn’t always their strong suit, most men like it when women hear them out. Be the one that he is able to turn to so that you can reinforce the quality of the connection between you.

By doing so, the idea of not having you around is going to make him want to get closer to you. In challenging moments, you have to be there for him.

3. Don’t underestimate the power of memories.

One of the best ways to make him miss you is to ensure that the time you do spend together is unforgettable. On top of enjoying your time together, you’re also making positive memories that can help build your relationship and make him miss you, even when you’re far from each other.

Have you ever found yourself smiling just because you were thinking about a special moment the two of you shared? At that time there's only one thing on your mind: seeing him and experiencing that joy again.

Keep this in mind when you want to make him miss you.

By sharing and discovering new activities together, you'll build a strong relationship and create wonderful memories. Memories like these are going to be of importance if you want to contrast a long-lasting love story.

Do not hesitate to take the initiative and turn your time away from one another into a meaningful opportunity to further solidify your relationship.

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Alex Cormont, founder of French Relationship Expert, is an expert in dating and relationships based in Miami, FL, who works with women to guide them to find the right man and have the relationship they've always dreamt of. His expert advice has been featured on Forbes, Huffington Post, GQ, and Elle.

This article was originally published at French Relationship Expert . Reprinted with permission from the author.