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It's time to be a little mercurial.
By Valeria Black — Written on Dec 10, 2019
Everyone needs a little bit of Gemini in them to ace matters of the heart. After all, a healthy Gemini zodiac sign is a total charmer (which is required for that initial spark), a great conversationalist (to keep the date unforgettable), and awesome at seeing things from multiple perspectives (which helps in resolving conflicts without turning them into wars).
That's the energy we are tapping into this December 12th with the full moon in Gemini. To harness this energy, here are three Gemini full moon rituals you can do to connect with your inner star and shine like there's no tomorrow.
1. Network the right way.
When the full moon is in the mercurial sign of Gemini, it brings out our inner networking agent. But this ritual is all about doing it the right way. Because true networking is not about building a list of people who can help you out in times of need; it's about making friends with people and nurturing those relationships over the years.
So drop a message to the ones in your network during the Gemini full moon night about a great moment you shared with them. Make sure the message is personalized with a real story, and don't reach out to everyone in your phonebook. The point is to strengthen your friendships with the ones you genuinely liked meeting.
You can also wish them happiness for the holiday season. Just remember to keep the conversation short and sweet, otherwise you run the risk of coming across as someone with a lot of time to waste.
Also, this ritual is not a one-time thing. The aim is to nurture real relationships with people you genuinely like. So keep in touch once every few months and invite them to social gatherings eventually.
2. Know what you want in your love life.
People can call Geminis flakey, but the truth is, they are masters at dropping people who waste time and bore them to death. Because why would you want to invest in such people? It's not worth the effort.
So let the Gemini full moon sing your inner high-value woman/man to life and ax the dates who don't do anything for you. The ones you know deep in your gut aren't the one.
On the flip side, if you have met the one and are scared of approaching them, maybe start by being their friend. When you keep the stakes low, it's easier to be in the moment and be your real self. You will know when to deepen the connection eventually.
3. Manifest new love.
This is a powerful ritual to do on a full moon day. All you need is some alone time and a rich imagination. And then start daydreaming about being in a relationship with your ideal man or woman.
Think about creating a life with them, experiencing daily routines, celebrating special moments, being romantic, and all the other good stuff. The more powerful your emotions are, the more powerful your manifestation will be.
It's important to be as vivid as possible when imagining things. So dream up dialogues and exchanges, even if you don't have a face to pin on this mystery human being.
Valeria Black is a freelance writer who reads Tarot cards in her free time.