What He Expects From Your Relationship, Per Astrology

His zodiac sign may hold the key to his deepest wants and needs.

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A Taurus wants someone he can trust completely and the Capricorn wants to be a part of a power couple. Aquarius wants his lover to be his best friend.

Not every guy is the same, and what a man needs or wants in a relationship can all come down to zodiac sign personality traits. How can you make him feel truly loved? How can you make him believe that what he has with you is the real deal?

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It was so easy in the beginning to make him feel the butterflies just at the sight of you! But now that you’ve settled into a relationship, you need to know what would keep him truly devoted to you.


Or maybe, you guys are still in the early phases, and you want him to see the potential of an exciting future with you. In order to do that, you have to understand his deepest needs and wants out a relationship.

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The problem is, most guys don’t give you straight answers. And sometimes you just don’t want to ask. You want to create this beautiful experience for both of you, without making it seem forced. So how do you figure out his wants in a relationship?

Don’t worry, girlfriend, cause we’ve got you covered! With the help of astrology, we have figured out his deepest wants in a relationship. Before you move on, hear me out. This list does not contain the usual boring info about the zodiac signs!



Now we all know that Aries want to chase and Virgos are perfectionists. Any novice astrologer could tell you that! You want to go deeper than that.

You're here to learn about what he wants in the deepest recesses of his heart. You want to know what would make him believe that you are the one for him.

So let’s skip all the typical information we hear about astrology and Sun signs and dive into the real wants of these 12 very different types of horoscopes for men.

1. ARIES (March 21 - April 19)


Sure, you know that he gets bored easily and that he loves the chase. But did you know that his greatest want is a passionate relationship? This ram wants life to be an exciting adventure, with just a dash of drama. The easiest way to reignite his passion is to do fun activities together.

Roller-coaster rides in amusement parks and off-road adventures would definitely give him that rush he craves. Finding you by his side during these moments will only increase his attraction and love for you.


2. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)


The bull loves a partner who can create a stable home and cook gourmet food. But what he most wants from a relationship is the feeling that he can trust you completely. So never lie to him and try to be more straightforward. He admires honesty in his partner.

Also, try not to cancel plans at the last minute. He needs to be able to trust that you are not too unstable for him.

3. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)


Variety is the name of the game with the Gemini. Since you can’t and should not have to find other lovers to amuse him, mystify him with the different sides of you. Engage him in witty banter, filled with humor and interesting facts.

Show off your knowledge of current affairs and, later, take him to a party or a nightclub. He’ll be absolutely smitten. Oh, and never stop flirting with this one.

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4. CANCER (June 21 - July 22)


The crab needs a nurturing partner who will listen to him without being asked. He dreams of a partner who would be considerate enough to look deep into his eyes and figure out what he needs. Since he is not that direct, pay attention to his tone and body language. The more understanding you are, the more he will open up to you.

He is kind of insecure, so try to reassure him once in a while. Also, he LOVES being taken care of, so surprise him with homemade cookies and breakfast in bed.

5. LEO (July 23 - August 22)


This lion king lives and breathes romance. There is a good chance he secretly thinks he is a romantic hero ready to sweep you off your feet! That is why he needs a partner who will never stop dating him. So turn on the love songs and invite him for a candlelight dinner.

Also, when in love, he wants to show you off to the world. He loves an eye-candy on his arm. So, take care of your appearance, especially your mane for this man!

6. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)


Shy and analytical, the Virgo guy wants someone who is responsible and dependable. This means that you should buy a watch and always be punctual! Pay all your bills on time and keep your home neat and clean.

He is all about the details and is naturally service-oriented, which means he loves doing little things to make his partner’s life easier. He will never brag about them but you should always appreciate the things he does for you. More than any other zodiac sign, he hates being taken for granted. Oh, he is also very self-critical so don’t make any jokes at his expense.

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7. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)


The Libra is all about partnerships, and every Libra has his own idea of what the perfect relationship looks like.

Still, almost all Libra men dream of a relationship based on equality and harmony. So be ready to split the bill most of the times. In fact, insist on it. And never underestimate the power of spending quality time. Shared activities that include culture such as attending art openings and live music events should be ideal dates.

Always remember that he hates confrontations, so be careful of how you bring up problems within the relationship. Be diplomatic, and you will have his full attention.


8. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)



What he wants is a soulmate connection, but you already knew that, didn’t you? The way you could foster that kind of intensity in your relationship is by baring your soul to him every once in a while. This mysterious being has seen it all and is not afraid of your darkness. So don’t shy away from uncomfortable yet soul cleansing deep conversations.

Also, NEVER lie to him. Just don’t. He almost never knows how to forgive and definitely does not forget.

Instead, divulge one or two of your secrets to him from time to time. He will appreciate it and feel special. He might even return the favor, in which case you will know that you are in.


9. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)


This philosophical centaur was sent to this earth to go on adventures and learn important lessons. Everyone knows he cannot live without his precious freedom. But he also cannot stay in a relationship that doesn’t help him grow somehow. Not for long, anyway.

Add to that the fact that he is one of the most restless men of the zodiac. You’ve got quite a handful there.

So, in addition to giving him a lot of space, make sure that the times you two are together are filled with laughter and learning. Discuss the meaning of life and expose him to your unique philosophy, he might get inspired. Or, take him to a cultural activity like a Holi festival. Satiate his restless nature by planning a trip to anywhere he has never visited. He will hold on to you forever.

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10. CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

This practical man wants a traditional relationship with an equally practical person. Appearances matter to him more than anything else. And I don’t just mean your grooming habits here, even though keeping it top notch definitely helps.

Whether he admits it or not, he wants to be part of a power couple. He’s not a man of many words and prefers to express his emotions by taking actions. That also means he will be closely monitoring yours.


To start off with what he doesn’t like: loud, brash, irresponsible and immature types. These types make him look bad. What he loves and demands is someone who has goals and ambitions of their own but also doesn’t mind staying home and cooking a hearty meal. So work hard to climb that ladder with him, and, at home, do nice wifely things for him. He'll be putty in your hands.

11. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

This is arguably the best friend of the zodiac. And that is exactly what he wants out a relationship: friendship. He wants someone who will share his interests and hobbies. He wants a fellow humanitarian. So join him in his causes and never disrespect his efforts to bring about world peace!


Seeing you fight for animal rights will melt his heart. At the same time, realizing that you’re at least open to his progressive thoughts will reassure him that you might be the one. Be prepared to meet all his friends and definitely try to get along with them! He cares about their opinion more than his mother’s!

12. PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

Oh, you want to know what this dreamy boy wants? A fellow dreamer, of course! Like John Lennon, who surprisingly was not under Pisces, this guy imagines a world full of love and compassion. The first rule is to never challenge this perception.


He does not want to be told that the world is cruel and cold. Instead, he wants a relationship which will offer him unconditional love and fairytale romance. He especially appreciates an imaginative and tender lover, who is not afraid to show emotions. So get ready to show your compassionate side and create a beautiful love story you can tell your grandchildren!

Mehruba Chowdhury is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture and relationship topics.